Cashmoney's Dating Advice - Page 7

rainbowbrightCS · #91 12-03-2003, 03:04 PM

OK I took your advise and ask the southern guy in my math class out. I did not want it to sound like a study group so I asked if he wanted to see a movie or something. He said that would be great and we chated awhile, I guess I was so freaking happy about me having the nerve and him agreeing that I forgot to give him my number. So I now have to wait till tomorow for math. How do I give him my number without seeming dumb or pushing?

Lost in math class.

Chris

cashmoney · #92 12-03-2003, 03:18 PM

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Originally posted by rainbowbrightCS
OK I took your advise and ask the southern guy in my math class out. I did not want it to sound like a study group so I asked if he wanted to see a movie or something. He said that would be great and we chated awhile, I guess I was so freaking happy about me having the nerve and him agreeing that I forgot to give him my number. So I now have to wait till tomorow for math. How do I give him my number without seeming dumb or pushing?

Lost in math class.

Chris

See what happens when you have confidence? Congrats!

Ok, first....do you sit next to him? Just tell him to take your number down and give you a call later that night, that way he doesnt get confused as to when to call you. Tell him you'd like to go watch a movie this weekend ( or whatever night you want ). And make out like you really want to see this movie.

Lemme know what happens....

Cashmoney

BobbyTheDon · #93 12-12-2003, 10:36 PM

hey cashmoney,

what GLO are you in?

cashmoney · #94 05-04-2004, 02:59 PM

Yours fool!

cashmoney · #95 05-04-2004, 02:59 PM

bump

sororitygirl2 · #96 05-04-2004, 08:55 PM

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Originally posted by cashmoney
OP-

This is a delicate matter. I'll try to explain it as simple as I can.

How long have her and her Bf been dating? If they've been dating for awhile you're gonna have your work cut out for you. Even so, you can win her over. What you need to do is to distract her. If her life is miserable then you need to be the one to bring new life and happiness to her. Since she has a BF you can't be too forward with her in the realm of your feelings. I suggest you ask her to go out with you one night inorder to get her mind off of all the crap thats going on in her life. Asker her if she wants to go do something, something in a freindship way. Most girls don't like to cheat on their BFs, therefore you need to become her friend first. You need to be someone she can talk to about anything. If you really like this girl I suggest you show her you care about her and her feelings. Show her you want her to be happy. Sooner or later, if shes smart, she'll realize what a great guy you are and things will take off from there. Relationships work best when the two of you are both best of friends and lovers. Be respectful to her and her current relationship, tell her you only want to see the best things happen for her. I suggest you do little things for her that shows you think of her. Maybe send her some flowers and a card that says you want to brighten her day/week up. You need to spend time on the phone with her and write her cute little emails. After a little time has passed, then you need to tell her that she deserves so much better and that as much as she may like her BF, she needs to think later on down the road and what would be best for him. Explain to her that she's not going to change him but rather he has to change himself and sometimes the best thing to do is to leave someone inorder for them to get their life together. She'll get the idea. As I said, its delicate when a girl has a BF. After you have that talk with her, give her some time to think about it, then you can start back up doing some things with her. After she dumps him, she'll start to miss the companionship that she had with them and see you as the person thats been there as far as a male goes. It'll take off from there, trust me. I've done it too many times to count.

Cash-

Oh my God - this thread is hilarious! I can't believe I hadn't found it yet since I've been back. I have so much to say about it.

First of all, Cash, baby - most of your advice is great. I'll say it again - you know your s**t!

Regarding the post above, that is EXACTLY how one of my boyfriends won me over in college. He saw that the long-distance relationship I was in was becoming too much to handle, and swooped in for the kill as the "caring, sweet friend." (I've told you about him before, Cash - he was the Pike that acted just like you!)

Regarding how long you date before marriage, it's just a case-by-case thing... My parents dated three weeks before they got engaged and were married three months later (granted it was in "war" times) - they've been married 37 years.

Cheating genetic? No, but perhaps learned through the environment you grow up in - just like abuse.

And, finally, I asked for my advice through PM a few days ago because I am a secretive little girl... I haven't heard back and have basically just decided to move on from the boy. Some days are better than others, but I'm getting by. You better still reply though!

cherrycola · #97 05-04-2004, 09:24 PM

i have a question. Guys I am interested are always into my girlfriends. I always get your a nice girl, but I like so in so.
So what up with that dating god

cashmoney · #98 05-04-2004, 09:51 PM

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Originally posted by sororitygirl2
Oh my God - this thread is hilarious! I can't believe I hadn't found it yet since I've been back. I have so much to say about it.

First of all, Cash, baby - most of your advice is great. I'll say it again - you know your s**t!

Regarding the post above, that is EXACTLY how one of my boyfriends won me over in college. He saw that the long-distance relationship I was in was becoming too much to handle, and swooped in for the kill as the "caring, sweet friend." (I've told you about him before, Cash - he was the Pike that acted just like you!)

Regarding how long you date before marriage, it's just a case-by-case thing... My parents dated three weeks before they got engaged and were married three months later (granted it was in "war" times) - they've been married 37 years.

Cheating genetic? No, but perhaps learned through the environment you grow up in - just like abuse.

And, finally, I asked for my advice through PM a few days ago because I am a secretive little girl... I haven't heard back and have basically just decided to move on from the boy. Some days are better than others, but I'm getting by. You better still reply though!

Its all good baby, I'm getting to it tonight.

sororitygirl2 · #99 05-04-2004, 09:53 PM

Sorry - I didn't mean to sound pissy! I am just an impatient little brat sometimes... I am very used to getting my way!

Anyway, I look forward to hearing what you have to say!

cashmoney · #**100** 05-04-2004, 09:54 PM

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Originally posted by cherrycola
i have a question. Guys I am interested are always into my girlfriends. I always get your a nice girl, but I like so in so.
So what up with that dating god

Its simple, stop bringing your guys around your girls. Understand something, its not smart to bring a hungry man to a buffet when you're the main course.

cherrycola · #**101** 05-04-2004, 10:06 PM

Maybe its the exam drain, but I don't get it!

sororitygirl2 · #**102** 05-04-2004, 10:28 PM

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Originally posted by cherrycola
Maybe its the exam drain, but I don't get it!

No, it makes total sense. If you want him to be interested in you and focus on you only, don't present him with other options or you are taking the risk that he may like another one better.

Not to continue with the food analogy, but let's say you're chicken and he really likes chicken, but your friend is beef. He may have been happy with chicken until he knew there was filet on the menu, and then he'll change his order. So make him commit to his order first!

cashmoney · #**103** 05-04-2004, 10:31 PM

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Originally posted by sororitygirl2
No, it makes total sense. If you want him to be interested in you and focus on you only, don't present him with other options or you are taking the risk that he may like another one better.

Not to continue with the food analogy, but let's say you're chicken and he really likes chicken, but your friend is beef. He may have been happy with chicken until he knew there was filet on the menu, and then he'll change his order. So make him commit to his order first!

Its good to know we now have two dating therapist. As I've said before, sweets, we're too much alike.

cherrycola · #**104** 05-04-2004, 10:50 PM

well if he would rather have beef then more power to him... i would rather not be stuck with someone that fickle.
BTW there is nothing wrong with me I am cute but short, and sometimes bossy but I am no magizine pin up like my friends. Maybe I just need ugly friends

I am joking.

cashmoney · #**105** 05-04-2004, 11:06 PM

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Originally posted by cherrycola
BTW there is nothing wrong with me I am cute but short, and sometimes bossy but I am no magizine pin up like my friends. Maybe I just need ugly friends I am joking.

You know whats funny, a lot of girls do that...surround theirselves with less attractive chicks so they get all the attention.