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05-28-2010, 04:49 PM
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There are a lot of alum women at the events. They are invited to everything except mixers. My mom went to last years bid party, where they welcome the new girls in, at a hotel. This is my opinion and it might not be your opinion but think about what I am saying before you reply with such witty remarks or trifling ones.
I just don't think being a legacy is important if it isn't your legacy chapter. Michigan State is not gonna like her more for being a legacy. She is just another girl like the rest. I think being a legacy matters when it is a place that you can build a connection on it. A place that you can make friends that had family that was sisters with your family members. In my opinion going to Michigan State as a legacy means nothing because she can't point to a composite of someone that the chapter has met. With the rec letters I just would rather reassure myself with women that went to that chapter than someone from another chapter. That chapter woman has similar interest as me and best can describe why I fit that chapter not someone who lives in Alaska. If you are from Hawaii and wear grass skirts going to Michigan State where they were parkas and hunt bear you aren't gonna be like them even if you are a legacy.
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You are so beyond being an idiot. Your opinions do not matter. Either you're an incoming freshmen who thinks she knows it all or a liar and fake. Either way you can stomp your feet and scream but it won't change the fact that you're wrong.
Go run and tell mommy or something. The grownups had this handled before you showed.
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05-28-2010, 04:50 PM
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Originally Posted by volleyball29
There are a lot of alum women at the events. They are invited to everything except mixers. My mom went to last years bid party, where they welcome the new girls in, at a hotel. This is my opinion and it might not be your opinion but think about what I am saying before you reply with such witty remarks or trifling ones.
I just don't think being a legacy is important if it isn't your legacy chapter. Michigan State is not gonna like her more for being a legacy. She is just another girl like the rest. I think being a legacy matters when it is a place that you can build a connection on it. A place that you can make friends that had family that was sisters with your family members. In my opinion going to Michigan State as a legacy means nothing because she can't point to a composite of someone that the chapter has met. With the rec letters I just would rather reassure myself with women that went to that chapter than someone from another chapter. That chapter woman has similar interest as me and best can describe why I fit that chapter not someone who lives in Alaska. If you are from Hawaii and wear grass skirts going to Michigan State where they were parkas and hunt bear you aren't gonna be like them even if you are a legacy.
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What you think and what is true are two very different things. Try not to give out advice until you actually know something about membership recruitment...and that would mean you are actually a member.
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05-28-2010, 04:52 PM
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alumna women
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What about the alumna men?
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05-28-2010, 04:53 PM
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What about the alumna men?
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Like, duh. She said there were like totally dads there too!
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05-28-2010, 04:55 PM
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Like, duh. She said there were like totally dads there too!
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OMG OMG FUN! Moms AND dads at Greek functions!??!?
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Originally Posted by volleyball29
I know when my sister went to her first formal and she was presented my father was there. I like your joke but men can not be alumna only alumni of a Fraternity.
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You're as dumb as a bag of shit.
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Reason: got a little apostrophe happy
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05-28-2010, 04:55 PM
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OMG OMG FUN! Mom's AND dad's at Greek functions!??!?
You're as dumb as a bag of shit.
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You're insulting the bag of shit.
ETA: ha ha caught your typos and I'm not changing it
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05-28-2010, 04:57 PM
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You're insulting the bag of shit.
ETA: ha ha caught your typos and I'm not changing it 
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I'm telling my dad. He's a male man fraternity alum. That trumps your alumna women.
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05-28-2010, 04:53 PM
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I can name several girls that I am friends with from different sororities that have family at formal as well as many alumna women. Is my friend's 26 year old sister to old to go when she graduated 2 years ago? It must just be a southern thing, if you aren't currently in that sorority or from the south, don't tell me what your chapter did or what you think the southern chapters rules are about attendance.
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Oh so you're from the south. So why are you talking about Michigan again? Because you're ignorant? That's what I thought.
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05-28-2010, 04:56 PM
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I can name several girls that I am friends with from different sororities that have family at formal as well as many alumna women. Is my friend's 26 year old sister to old to go when she graduated 2 years ago? It must just be a southern thing, if you aren't currently in that sorority or from the south, don't tell me what your chapter did or what you think the southern chapters rules are about attendance.
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Um...I'm from a southern chapter, and I can assure you that alumnae do NOT routinely attend formal events with their children. Advisors/chaperones may attend, but unless it's a specific event FOR alumnae, you won't see alumnae crashing a chapter's formal. We did have Rose Ball and our parents attended so that our fathers could present us as new initiates, but that is completely different.
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05-28-2010, 04:56 PM
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Originally Posted by volleyball29
I can name several girls that I am friends with from different sororities that have family at formal as well as many alumna women. Is my friend's 26 year old sister to old to go when she graduated 2 years ago? It must just be a southern thing, if you aren't currently in that sorority or from the south, don't tell me what your chapter did or what you think the southern chapters rules are about attendance.
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Holy shit this is a trainwreck.
Since I AM in a chapter at an SEC school let me go on the record and say that IT IS NOT NORMAL to have anyone except for members and their dates as formal guests. Period.
Also, your mom sounds like a may-jah helimom. Don't be shocked when all of your hopes and dreams are crushed. I hope to god this isn't my sorority.
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05-28-2010, 04:59 PM
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Originally Posted by sydney bristow
Holy shit this is a trainwreck.
Since I AM in a chapter at an SEC school let me go on the record and say that IT IS NOT NORMAL to have anyone except for members and their dates as formal guests. Period.
Also, your mom sounds like a may-jah helimom. Don't be shocked when all of your hopes and dreams are crushed. I hope to god this isn't my sorority.
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So far, a Theta, Phi Mu (me) and another NPC-member have made a comment hoping that she is not looking at our sororities. This makes me laugh because I'm pretty sure MANY of the NPC women on here are thinking the same thing from reading her posts.
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05-28-2010, 05:02 PM
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Obviously most of you are doing careless and repulsive things at formal. I am from the south so these things are very important image wise. There is a large amount of money spent to rent ballrooms and decorations. The first formal presentation is very important and it is expected your family to be there, you aren't a girl so don't try to tell me what is stupid because you don't share the importance of these moments. I know for mixers that they do rent buses and go to a hotel for drinking but formals are special occcasions that are shared with all sisters.
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YOU HEAR THAT GUYS? WE'RE CARELESS AND REPULSIVE.
YOU ARE NOT A GIRL SO YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW HOW CARELESS AND REPULSIVE WE ARE.
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You guys!
Stop giving out incorrect advice and crushing her dreams.
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OMG I'm so heartless. And careless. AND REPULSIVE *SOB*
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05-28-2010, 05:17 PM
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Originally Posted by als463
So far, a Theta, Phi Mu (me) and a Pi Phi (you) have made a comment hoping that she is not looking at our sororities. This makes me laugh because I'm pretty sure MANY of the NPC women on here are thinking the same thing from reading her posts.
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Allow me to add Gamma Phi Beta to that list...
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05-28-2010, 05:20 PM
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Allow me to add Gamma Phi Beta to that list...
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Can I add Sigma Kappa to that list?
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05-28-2010, 05:23 PM
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Can I add Sigma Kappa to that list?
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We're all on the list. It's just a shame that she can't be honest about her guaranteed bid so we could all get schooled.
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