Revealing secrets of defunct/absorbed GLOs

[James]

are big-girl panties a thong or a g-string ?

Originally posted by Diamond Delta
She doesn't need to do anything for you. You desire answers. There's a difference.

She HAS NOT told her husband anything. Therefore, there is not a problem.

Put on your big- girl panties and deal with it.

[Lovely_gurl]

Originally posted by 33girl
She pretty much said in her first post that she saw NOTHING wrong with sharing secrets of any sort with a spouse because they are "one." If she had said "some people believe married couples should share everything" and let it go at that, I don't think anyone would have gotten offended. But she took it a step further and affirmed that she lives her own life this way as well.

Yes, I did say this, as I am one of those who do believe that married couples CAN (not *should*) share everything without having that be considered as "breaching an oath". But I never said that you have to agree with that or advocate that....just that this is not an entirely unheard of perspective.

I'm not sure why pointing out that *I* have this view would "offend people" MORE than pointing out that *some people* have this view, as, regardless of my affiliation, I have never claimed to be taking an "official fraternity perspective" on this issue...at all.

I am posting the opinion of one who happens to be an Alpha Phi. Not posting Alpha Phi's opinion. So why this should "offend"....I don't know.

Whether she's actually shared these things with her husband or not is not the point.

I think it is the point only inasmuchas some people went on the personal attack regarding something I have not done.

I also think it is unlikely to reach a consensus about this issue....

To me, it is a matter of the baseline argument. Because of my spiritual beliefs with regard to marriage, you are not likely to convince me to become angry or hostile toward a sister who discloses information to her husband.....

But, even when I don't agree, I find it helpful when others explain the place from which they are coming in order to gain an understanding of their thinking on any given issue.

I am fine to agree to disagree....and don't feel the need to attack anyone's personal views in order to do that.

[Senusret I]

Originally posted by Lovely_gurl
...I think I will stop posting now just to keep the peace.

Broken promises.

[kddani]

Originally posted by Senusret I
Broken promises.

LMAO.
No offense, lovely_gurl, but that is kinda funny.

[Glitterkitty]

Originally posted by James
are big-girl panties a thong or a g-string ?

Can I show you later?

[Lovely_gurl]

Um....yeah....actually I also found that funny myself....as I already drew attention to that in this post here:

Originally posted by Lovely_gurl
Has anyone else noticed that I said I would stop posting like 12 posts ago???

Sorry....I guess I am becoming a Greekchat addict!!!! And I don't want anyone to think I am unwilling to answer questions or go through the gauntlet!

However, I fear by the end of this thread I am likely to be a SENIOR MEMBER! haha!

[Senusret I]

Originally posted by Lovely_gurl
Um....yeah....actually I also found that funny myself....as I already drew attention to that in this post here:

But I'm Senusret I......

[Munchkin03]

Originally posted by Senusret I
Broken promises.

If you break one promise, what's stopping you from breaking more?

[Lovely_gurl]

Originally posted by Senusret I
But I'm Senusret I......

Yeah...I still don't know how to quote two different posts....I was thinking you would know I was responding to your broken promises comment. And I was pointing out that I had already drawn attention to this on page 6 of the thread.

[Lovely_gurl]

Originally posted by Munchkin03
If you break one promise, what's stopping you from breaking more?

*giggles* though I know you would enjoy it....I'm not biting on this one.

[Senusret I]

Originally posted by Lovely_gurl
Yeah...I still don't know how to quote two different posts....I was thinking you would know I was responding to your broken promises comment. And I was pointing out that I had already drawn attention to this on page 6 of the thread.

Actually, I realized all of that....."But I'm Senusret I" was meant for people who've been around GC longer than a few posts.

To be honest, I haven't been reading all of your posts....don't really care much to after the few that I've read.

Originally posted by Senusret I
Actually, I realized all of that....."But I'm Senusret I" was meant for people who've been around GC longer than a few posts.

To be honest, I haven't been reading all of your posts....don't really care much to after the few that I've read.

But you ARE Senusret I. Teee heeee heeee har har.

Miss, er Mrs. Lovely, I think you should really keep that promise now.

[Lovely_gurl]

Originally posted by Senusret I
To be honest, I haven't been reading all of your posts....don't really care much to after the few that I've read.

Yeah...I'm sort of getting tired of reading all my own posts as well....but I am going to need a 12-step program to stop!!!!

[Lovely_gurl]

Originally posted by OohTeenyWahine

Miss Lovely, I think you should really keep that promise now.

Though I find it disheartening to be asked to shush because of a dissenting viewpoint, if it is really causing that much strife, I indeed will stop. *shrugs*

Did not think it was harming anyone and really have tried to phrase my opinions and responses in a very non-offensive manner.

[RedRoseSAI]

Originally posted by Diamond Delta
Just to put a differnt spin on the topic.....many rituals have changed. What if I discuss something in the ritual that is no longer there? Is that still breaking an oath? I haven't done this of course, but I think it does preent an interesting question.

That is an interesting question. Here's how I look at it: SAI's ritual has certainly changed over the past 100 years. The women who went through any old ritual are still keeping their oath of secrecy, and I should honor the oath that they took. Just because it was a different ritual than mine doesn't mean it should be made public.