NWgirl's Fall '07 Recruitment at University of Washington!

[AXOUW]

UWcutie should start her own recruitment thread too, we could have 3 UW stories going on at once!

[northwestgirl]

Today was yet another full, crazy day. I’m so tired. Here’s what I thought of the final four:


Northface: Having a hole in my schedule kind of threw me off this afternoon. I entered this house not my usual self and it kind of took a while for the conversation to really get flowing. The first girl and I shared an awkward roundabout conversation that I’m really sad about because it was by far one of my favorites after the second day. I would hate for that to end my time at this house. Not a magical as the first day, but still a strong contender in my book. Although, being honest, I don’t think I’ll get asked back.

Abercrombie and Fitch: Much better experience than yesterday. Easy conversation, plus a really comfortable looking house. I could really see myself here. Nothing too remarkable to report, just an easy time and I was sad that our conversation was cut short when the bell rang. I’m very happy that I came back.

Coach: I don’t know about this house. The more I’m learning about it through this week, the less I love it. The energy at this house was really dead today, but I still enjoyed my time there. It seemed kind of poorly laid out so there was confusion at times….which never normally happens. The women are sweet and there are characteristics that I love. At the moment I’m having a hard time seeing myself here for the next four years of my life.

Gap: Super easy conversation, very sweet girls. Again, I still don’t know about this house. Something about it, my gut is telling me to hold back. Hard to explain. This is house that I can see myself ending up at, and learning to love, as opposed to being super excited if I were to get a bid here. Not to seem arrogant, but the girls really seem to like me, they were coming up left and right, so I feel like I’ll get an invitation next round…haha, and we all know my tract record with my feelings. But seriously, something just seems off to me. Again, I know I’m doing a bad just explaining, but I’m sure some of you understand.

Alright…I’m SUPER nervous about tomorrow. I really want a full schedule just so I can learn more about all the houses.

I ranked Gap my #2 and Seattle Sun my #3, the last six were my number ones. We get up to 6 for tomorrow, which is Philanthropy Day! Should be very fun! Wish me luck!!!

Oh and PS...YES there is a Football Game on Saturday which I am VERY sad about missing. Parking will also be VERY high which is sad because I'm carpooling there everyday. AND I can understand UWCutie's concern about what to wear. I planned early so I feel okay, but girls are seriously wearing drastically different outfits, and sometimes you can feel out of place. But as far as I'm concerned if it follows the guidelines and you feel good in it...wear it!

[UWcutie]

Originally Posted by AXOUW

UWcutie should start her own recruitment thread too, we could have 3 UW stories going on at once!

Yea... I think I'll start one... Its never too late I guess... even if it would be starting kinda halfway into the process. Yay! ...haha this week has been so fun!

Saturday I got my dad to agree to drive me... and I've been paying for parking myself, but tonight I overheard my mom telling my dad they should pay me back some of my money haha.

...and I agree, it'd be crazy if we were in the same group, or ended up in the same house... or both! haha

[AXOUW]

I love this thread. I think I'm rooting for Lucky at this point. I'm wishing you the best for tomorrow, I hope you get invited back to all of your favorites!! You've made it through all of the tough long days, the rest of the week is going to fly by!

Good luck to all the UW girls!

[thetaprincess]

Go Northface

[Leslie Anne]

Good luck with invitations to Philanthropy Day! I hope you have a great time!

[Jill1228]

Some only got 1-2 houses back the last round????

OUCH!

[northwestgirl]

Okay, so I'm really ready for rush to be over. I am soooo tired and today was kind of sad for me. I got my event list back, waited for everyone to leave and totally broke down. I got invited back to four today. Two of which I am really happy about, two of which I am okay with. Three more girls from my group dropped out today, which was also sad to see.

Not to be mean, and this is compleatly my own personal opinion but it's sad that it's beginning to seem to me like some choices are being made by looks or social status. More so than I am comfortable with. Which of course is not limited to sorority life. Sorry for that really general statement, and please don't be mad. I don't know...today was just very discouraging to me. Some girls that didn't even attend all the parties yesterday because they "didn't feel like it" and put themselves at risk for being removed from rush altogether, recieved a full day today, even if they only attened three parties yesterday..today's max was 6. Oh, sorry for all of this, but today I was seriously considering dropping out. I had to have a conversation with myself to see why I am doing this, and what everything really means. I had a good chat with my RC today and she told me some of her experience and the harsh realities that she discovered. I left feeling better.

ANYWAY...this was my day:

Lucky: I had an AMAZING time here. We had a really fun activity and the girl and I really had a fun conversation that was great. After talking to some of my new friends in my rush group; they all thought that this is where I would end up, which was kind of funny to me. Very sweet girl and very interested in what I had to say. I left this house feeling uplifted and sad to leave. Very down to earth, sincere and modest girls at this house. All qualities I admire.

Gap: I still have the same feelings as before. And the event today wasn't that exciting, and the first girl was from out of state and we really had nothing in common. But the next girl and I had talked before, and the conversation was easy and comfortable. Not my top choice, but had been very consistant. In my opinion, these girls seems closest to eachother, which is something that others have noticed as well. Very considerate, sweet girls.

Seattle Sun: Very fun activity and really nice genuine girl that I talked to. Really fun things to do but there was some awkward no talking moments. From what I hear you either are in love or really NOT in love with this house. I don't love.

Abercrombie: Best of the day. Very sincere girl that I really connected with. It was a great time. Amazing philanthropy and really great activites. When we were watching the slideshow something clicked. It suddenly seemed like home. Was my number one for the day.

Loving: Abercromie and Lucky
Liking: Gap
Would rather not see tomorrow: Seattle Sun

I can not believe tomorrow is pref!
Thank you all....and again, sorry for the not so positive comments before, but I think it's only right to post the positive and negative sides to this whole process. And to all of you ladies doing through it all now: GOOD LUCK, we're all in it together, enjoy yourselves tomorrow and oh yes...GO DAWGS!!!

[princessjv]

Good luck! I am so excited for you!

[AXOUW]

I totally know how you feel. I remember feeling that way too. I'm glad the day got better though. Keep staying positive, everything happens for a reason. I'll be sending positive vibes your way tomorrow for your preference invitations! What time do you find out??

[MerryGPhiB]

Hang in there NWgirl, it will be all worth it! Don't apologize for having to vent and spew a bit.... we have all been there. The great thing is you're keeping an open mind and a positive attitude. Your descriptions of each party/house are great and it shows that you are really looking at each house as with the right mindset.

My fingers are crossed for you and I am hoping that you are Lucky with Abercrombie and there is no GAP in filling your pref card even if Seattle has no sun tomorrow LOL just a play on words.

How many pref parties are there?

[northwestgirl]

Thank you! Tomorrow we have to meet at 12:45, so I'm sure they would start passing everything out then. It seems so far away!

[northwestgirl]

Sorry, I totally forget to mention...tomorrow their are up to three parties. 75 minuets each.

[mythreedd]

Northwest girl..your write-ups could have been written by my daughter last year. (I'm sure individual house comments are different, but the over all tone was the same). She was very discouraged right before Philanthrophy parties and recognized some of the same things you did. However, as we have reminisced about recruitment and her experience last year, she is the first to admit that she ended up where she was meant to be and could not be happier.

Another thing that was a pleasant surprise and probably her highlight was her pledge class. She absolutely loved it (and still does). They entire group stayed together, everyone was initiated and they have become a stong presence in her house. Hang in there. I'm sure some wonderful surprises await you.

[UWcutie]

My good friend only got invited back to 5 today... I have another friend who only had 5 in the last round, cut to two today. I'm glad you've decided to stick with it... I've noticed that my own opinions change each day. My favorite from house tours didn't invite me back...and i guess some of my favorites from the open houses were quick to decide they didn't want me. That is kinda discouraging... but it is such a huge greek system, and I feel like we're really lucky to have a place for everyone.

Anyways. Best of luck for you tomorrow. This is sooooo nerve wrecking for me too... ugh. Haha. In the end, I think we'll both end up in an AMAZING place. k

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