The rant about your ex thread

[alikat2]

I saw my ex-boyfriend in the bar last night and he looked really hot, like he's been working out a lot more. Hate that.

On the other hand, I loved how he kept staring at me all night.

[PureGoldF2K1]

This isn't about me, but about girls I know in another sorority on my campus. This one girl from XYZ was dating a guy in my ex-boyfriend's fraternity for 3 years. One day they broke up out of the blue...THREE DAYS later, the guy was dating another XYZ! The first girl was devastated and I can't imagine what kind of sister girl#2 had to be to do that. Guy&Sister#2 are now engaged which has to be just awful for Sister#1.

[Lindz928]

4 of my exes have found "The One" in the person they dated right after me.... I have decided that if any of you guys want to find "The One", just date me for awhile and she'll come along.

My last ex is the biggest ass on the planet. After we broke up (I hurt him pretty badly but unintentionally), I wanted to start being friends again, and possibly get back together eventually. His response? That I would have to beg him for forgiveness, not see any other guys, or talk to any other guys, or do anything to upset him for a whole year before he would be able to trust me and be with me again. And during this time, he would be able to go out with any girl and mess around with any girl he wanted... and I was not allowed to be upset about it..... Now, I can admit that I did some not-so-great things during our breakup (NO I did not cheat on him), but I think he was being just a LITTLE bit unreasonable.

Now he is with the girl that he was "just friends" with just before our break-up. And she has seen ALL of the bad things that he and I both did during our relationship... and yet she still wants to be with him? I hope he cheats on her as much as he did the girl before me (which happens to be 30 different people in 3 years )

I still sometimes wish I could hit him.... But it feels SO good that I haven't had any contact with him since March! Now I realize just how bad he was for me.

My first love will always be the one that got away.... We had some big problems when we broke up- but he was the most decent guy I have ever dated, and his current girlfriend (the one he started dating a month and a half after we broke up) is very lucky. I wish he and I could still be friends.

[damasa]

Here's my rant aboyt exes; F' em!

Don't like 'em and I don't need 'em. And no I don't want to be firends with you (most recent ex). I want nothing to do with you and your thoughts of us "possibly getting back together." I know why you want to be friends, now quit fronting and leave me alone...


Word.

[kappaloo]

I haven't had an ex in a long time (i'm in a long term relationship) ... but my last ex cheated on me.

Well... that's not exactly correct. He was in a long distance relationship. He cheated on her. With me.

Of course, he never let me in on that.

Though, to be honest, I was pretty spiteful by the end.

[CUGreekgirl]

4 of my exes have found "The One" in the person they dated right after me.... I have decided that if any of you guys want to find "The One", just date me for awhile and she'll come along.

oh goodness, I only thought that happened to me. One guy met some girl right after seeing me (we never really were officially dating). After knowing her for two weeks, he proposed to her and they got married a month later.

One met the girl of his dreams, dropped out of college his last semester to move to another state to be w/ this girl and her son. Don't know what happened there... I suspect they may be engaged or married by now, I don't know, I don't really keep in contact with him.

The latest one went back to his ex. Though I heard things aren't going well with them.

[AUDG]

Wow I just wrote an embarrasing long post and I deleted it. To sum up, my best friend/ex broke up with his girlfriend (who he had cheated on with me ) to be with me and he talked extensively about being in love with me, and wanting to marry me (how he can't wait to come home to me and kiss me on my forehead when he wakes up in the morning, and describes to me what you want OUR house to look like- and asking if I could imagine all that as well as he could).

Well, 3 months into it (and many suspicions later..)

I found out that in fact he had NEVER broken up with his girlfriend in the first place and had both relationships going at once.

He denied that him and I ever had a relationship. I'll admit, he never officially asked me to be his girlfriend and told me he didn't want me to miss out on dating in college -he's in the Army- being in a long distance thing, and that he'd be waiting for me when I graduate. But...I think when you're talking about marriage the way he was, it's obviously understood that you're together- especially if you keep talking about it after the talk mentioned above.

He also said that lovey-dovey things said on the AIM were actually written by a buddy of his who was just lonely.. (yeah right..)

He said that everything that was said on the phone about marriage etc, I "took the wrong way" and he "was just being friendly". Funny how he denied a few times still being involved with the other girl when I would ask..

He said he felt sorry for me because I never got over him the first time. Yeah, well that's true, especially when he kept calling me 1-2 a week and flirting with me when we were just friends, and calling 2-3 times a day when we were "together". But I don't see how he can claim feeling sorry for me since he was the one who initiated the entire thing...

He said he wanted me out of his life forever and that all I did was cause problems (um the only problem I caused was finding out about him cheating)

He told me all of this via email and IM...didn't have the balls to call me. I expected him to be a little nicer considering we were truely best friends above all...

The original girlfriend is still with him, despite knowing the facts- at least she was presented the facts (but not all I'll admit), I guess she chose to ignore them since I was the one who presented them and figured I was just an angry ex. She said they are planning on getting married when he next comes home on leave... sure they are considering she just turned sweet 16.

Sorry to go on and on, I just found out about all this Tuesday night.

[CUGreekgirl]

UGH! Now I'm upset. This thread got me to thinking about my ex. So I checked his fraternities website and under the News&Announcements section it had congratulation to my ex on his recent engagement.

He was the one I lost the V-Card to. Out of the few guys I've been w/ he was the one I really could see myself with for life.

The worst part about it is he dropped out of college his last semester to move in with this chick and he's taking care of her son.

[Lindz928]

Originally posted by AUDG
She said they are planning on getting married when he next comes home on leave... sure they are considering she just turned sweet 16.

16?!?!?!?!?! Are you f*cking kidding me?!?!?! That's crazy, and depending on how old he is, possibly gross and illegal. What a jerk! I feel for ya.

[AUDG]

Oh it's definately illegal. He turns 20 in August. She'll be a junior in high school.

I think she was 15 when they started going at it, and I'm pretty sure she was dating a 24 year old before him.. She sounds like a real winner.

What's really sick about the whole thing is that her mother (dunno if she lives with her dad too) let him spend the night all the time when he's in town, so she must know about it.

I don't really think he'll marry her though, she's not really wife material IMO. Proly just using her to get his fix.

Even if he did go through with it, I really doubt it would last.

[Queencece]

Is an asshole! He was one of the quick fix guys that thought sex solved everything. I never had to worry about him cheating or anything like that, but he was an asshole to say the least. If I was mad.....sex her up. If I was happy....sex her up. The arguments that we got into were never solved by sex because once I am angry, I ain't doing shit until I feel better, so sex better not come out of your mouth. He learned that the hard way ! I dated him LD for about 9 months and 6 months of that was great! Over the last 3 months, everything was shot to hell. Finally, after fight #23345 I just stopped calling him for about 4 days when he called me and I didn't answer for the next 2 days. When, I finally called him back, we got int o argument #23346 and we haven't spoken since. It's been a month and I am now looking to move on!

For a while, I thought it was my lack of communication that broke us up until my best friend told me that he was just an asshole who thought sex was going to solve everything and shut me up. Truth be told, he wasn't that great until the last visit to see me, that was the bomb and the last time! I had to get it one last time and ACTUALLY enjoy it!! Anyway, his ass is long gone and I have 3 backup that I am waiting to activate within the next 2 months or so.

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[Munchkin03]

Originally posted by damasa
Here's my rant aboyt exes; F' em!

Don't like 'em and I don't need 'em. And no I don't want to be firends with you (most recent ex). I want nothing to do with you and your thoughts of us "possibly getting back together." I know why you want to be friends, now quit fronting and leave me alone...


Word.

Word.

The "Men of Munchkin" calendar from 1995-2000 contains men who could be dead, gay, or living next door to me. They are out of my life, and that is what's important.

[Shima-Mizu]

My last ex was a real pain in the @ss. I only stayed with him for as long as I did because he was a ticket out of my house.

He and I had started dating March of my senior year of high school. I had known him through my best friend, he was her boyfriend's best friend. So it seemed like a good thing at first. Problem was, he was lazy and completely lacked social skills. He liked staying in his room and being by himself. By ourselves, we got along all right, but then when something wasn't the way he liked it, he always acted very selfish. Things needed to be the way he wanted them to be. We grin and beared it while I was still there though, but once I left for college things started to take a nose dive. He hated talking to me on the phone, and aim wasn't much better. I used to cry about once a week over something mean he said to me. Though he was always so 'convincing' of how much he 'cared' about me. The first time I went home, things just didn't feel right. Out of desperation not to lose me, he tried to propose to me (in the worst most pathetic proposal ever) and by the time I had to go back to school, we had decided to take a "break". A few weeks into our break, I finally broke up with him. He was making me miserable, all of my friends were surprised I had stayed with him as long as I did.

A few days later, my current boyfriend and I started dating, and he is now my longest relationship ever and I couldn't be happier. He has a strong dislike for that ex of mine since many times he would have to calm me down during a crying episode.

[James]

LOL, you broke up with your ex to go out with one of your best guy friends? Was he one of the ones you would have said, ahh he is just a good friend and we don't like each other that way ?

Thats why BF's never trust the "Good Guy Friend" thats always emotionally available to you.

Funny stuff.

Originally posted by Shima-Mizu

A few days later, my current boyfriend and I started dating, and he is now my longest relationship ever and I couldn't be happier. He has a strong dislike for that ex of mine since many times he would have to calm me down during a crying episode.

[Shima-Mizu]

No, I didn't break up with him to go out with my current boyfriend.

I broke up with my ex because he treated me like dirt. You know, the stuff you walk all over.