Read..but you might get offended.

[pinkies up]

I also read another thread where my name came up as a joke, someone claiming i diguised myself as an AKA to sell products on EBAY . The jokes and name calling doesn't offend me one bit. But again I ask...why? Something I am saying is getting under your skin.[/QUOTE]


That was my posting. I also had some others that you can read too. You aren't getting under my skin honey. I have four children, a husband, I teach school and I am working on my master's degree. Oh, I am an ACTIVE member in my sorority and I teach sunday school and direct the church choir. You might be thinking what the relevance of my answer is and I'll tell you; YOU DON'T KNOW ME or anyone else on this gc board to banish someone into hell. For all we know, your name might not be on the roll. We come to gc for educated conversation, insights into politics and world views, but most of all to socialize with fellow sorors and sister greeks to encourage and NOT JUDGE eachother.

We are not attacking you, just trying to educate you. Those who live in glass houses should not throw stones. I suggest from now on you just post a daily meditation for everyone to read and interpret for themselves and log off. If you want to preach on gc, start a thread called the "AMEN CORNER" in your own little space and if people want to be damned to hell they can go there and communicate.

[RedVelvet]

Originally Posted by unknown2u

I just have a few questions and I'm being for real...
My concern is why did everyone get hostile? Are you upset with the message or the messanger?

I don't recall being hostile, but posts like this one have me confused.

unknown2u
Registered User Join Date: Aug 2005
Location: I love Jesus because He first loved me.
Posts: 128

^^^ I am not trying to fight you this but just hear me out...

How does Satan get the glory from BGLOs?? I am not speaking about Masons or OES cause I don't know too much about their beliefs. But how does an organization that is committed to service and scholarship. An organization that stands on Christian principles. An organization that encourages members to have Bible study and go to church. Be led by Satan?? How is Satan winning from this group?? I am not a BGLO but all the people who I have met that have been apart of BGLO's are Christians and sometimes better Christians than people who are NOT in these organizations.

Again I am not trying to argue or fight you on this. I am a Christian too and the Bible says not to get in quarrelsome arguments, but just answer the questions without posting the same scriptures over and over.

Did all of those people you met change after your bad experience as an interest? I understand if you gained some insight into the organization that made you change your opinion, but what happend to those Christians?

[pinkies up]

It just hit me unknown2u, if you are so adament about the awful treatment you received by ABC sorority, I find it unusual that you are a subscriber to GREEK chat and that you go on GREEK threads and post. I don't know, but you seem kinda bitter to me. Secretly you know you want to be in a greek organization and for whatever reason, you can't so you have chosen to damn all of us greeks to a life of fiery hell. I'm just saying; think about it.

[unknown2u]

Again i never damned anyone to the fiery pits of hell, but if you want to continue to believe that then fine. again your words are not directed to me if you have issues with the truth then take it up with God.

RD: You sound like a child that gets in trouble then blaims the teacher for not getting on the others. What does it matter if I go to the GLO and preach to them. Does that excuse your behavior? Does that make it any better as to what you do? It seems like you want to justify your actions by pointing out the mistakes that everyone else is doing. If you are taking part of these things then so be it the truth will set you free. If not then why are you pressed on it??

Pinkies: Again to you, I applaud all of the many wonderful things you said about yourself. However, read my posts again, if what i said does not apply to then I must asks why are you pressed???

And no i do not desire to be apart of a BGLO. I had the oppurtunity to do it and I decided to quit. That was my choice. Don't think that everyone envies you because we don't. There is absolutely nothing that you can because you are in org that I can't do. I am not pressed about letters and colors. That is so trivial when it comes to real life. Greek Life will not help me graduate college (in fact my grades are better than those in these organizations), it will not get me a great job, and the most important thing is that it will not get me into heaven or any great recognition from my Heavenly Father. So other than that its trivial.

You all have used everything in the book to try to de-value the truth of what i said. You have made excuses, comparisons, even pulled up old threads to go against my credibility, used humor and the whole nine. But guess what? The truth and the message are still the same, and it wont change. And if i have to come back and rehash the topic then i will. There is nothing you can say that will change my heart or spirit so continue to waste breathe and time combating the truth or you could just learn to repent and do better.

God Bless You All
As Christians, I expect us to do better!!

[RedefinedDiva]

Originally Posted by unknown2u

RD: You sound like a child that gets in trouble then blaims the teacher for not getting on the others. What does it matter if I go to the GLO and preach to them. Does that excuse your behavior? Does that make it any better as to what you do? It seems like you want to justify your actions by pointing out the mistakes that everyone else is doing. If you are taking part of these things then so be it the truth will set you free. If not then why are you pressed on it??

Sweetie, PLEASE....

I am simply pointing out what YOU said. You come on here blasting Greeks for their actions, yet you REFUSE to address ALL Greeks. Then, when presented with evidence, you use tactics to divert attention away from what YOU said. Thus, you are doing exactly what you are on here arguing with us for doing. You claim that we are denying evidence that you present, yet, you are guilty of the same actions. Why is that???

Please believe that I don't need EXCUSES for anything that I do. I'm straight. Additionally, I don't give a dayum about what other orgs. do during their processes. YOU said that you have a problem with GREEKS who use hazing as a way to gain admittance to the org. Just like you roll through dropping Bible verses, I gave you some articles to check out. Yet, you get defensive and try to dodge the obvious.

If you are really trying to save souls, save the souls of EVERYONE. That would be the righteous thing to do. Jesus was not selective in who he ministered to. Don't just single out Black Greeks when you claim to have a problem with the entire system. Skin color makes no difference. If it does to YOU, that's another problem in and of itself. Because right now, you are showing your hypocrisy and sounding like a woman scorned more and more each day. I just want you to stand by your words. If you can't or won't do that, fine. Nobody's perfect. You don't have to be afraid to admit that you aren't. No one will be angry with you. But, don't come in with the "holier than thou" attitude while you walk the same line.

That is all.

[pinkies up]

And no i do not desire to be apart of a BGLO. I had the oppurtunity to do it and I decided to quit. That was my choice. Don't think that everyone envies you because we don't. There is absolutely nothing that you can because you are in org that I can't do. I am not pressed about letters and colors. That is so trivial when it comes to real life. Greek Life will not help me graduate college (in fact my grades are better than those in these organizations), it will not get me a great job, and the most important thing is that it will not get me into heaven or any great recognition from my Heavenly Father. So other than that its trivial.-unknown2u



If it was so trivial, why did you even consider joining? I'm not at all "pressed". I just find it hillarious that someone who finds being a part of a greek organization "trivial" is a subscriber to GREEK chat and is often cruising through the GREEK threads. I have not used anything to de-value anything about you; you're doing that yourself.

[Dionysus]

unspokenone/unknown2u/whatever

RE: your sig.

Girl you are WACK!

[Steeltrap]

The siggie is giving me a headache. Really.

[unknown2u]

Originally Posted by RedefinedDiva

Sweetie, PLEASE....

I am simply pointing out what YOU said. You come on here blasting Greeks for their actions, yet you REFUSE to address ALL Greeks. Then, when presented with evidence, you use tactics to divert attention away from what YOU said. Thus, you are doing exactly what you are on here arguing with us for doing. You claim that we are denying evidence that you present, yet, you are guilty of the same actions. Why is that???

Please believe that I don't need EXCUSES for anything that I do. I'm straight. Additionally, I don't give a dayum about what other orgs. do during their processes. YOU said that you have a problem with GREEKS who use hazing as a way to gain admittance to the org. Just like you roll through dropping Bible verses, I gave you some articles to check out. Yet, you get defensive and try to dodge the obvious.

If you are really trying to save souls, save the souls of EVERYONE. That would be the righteous thing to do. Jesus was not selective in who he ministered to. Don't just single out Black Greeks when you claim to have a problem with the entire system. Skin color makes no difference. If it does to YOU, that's another problem in and of itself. Because right now, you are showing your hypocrisy and sounding like a woman scorned more and more each day. I just want you to stand by your words. If you can't or won't do that, fine. Nobody's perfect. You don't have to be afraid to admit that you aren't. No one will be angry with you. But, don't come in with the "holier than thou" attitude while you walk the same line.

That is all.

As hard as you tried to make a hypocrite outta me, I posted my thoughts on a general thread so all can see not just BGLO but other GLO too on Greek Life. I would have posted in each and every thread so you wouldnt feel like i was picking on a certain group but then I figure that everyone on this board reads the same thing.
You were right, I shouldnt select one group. However, by posting on another board the message doesnt change the message and the points still remain the same. I also posted my comments on myspace, facebook and yahoo groups. Unfortunetly, I can't preach to the whole world, im just one little person, but i know the few that I did reach is a great start. I hope you now realized that the truth doesnt change and I am not afraid to speak to anyone. Im not really sure what you were trying to prove but then again I don't understand a lot of what you do.
Anywhoo be blessed or be cursed whichever one you decide

[teena]

^^^heheheheh

[RedefinedDiva]

Originally Posted by unknown2u

As hard as you tried to make a hypocrite outta me, I posted my thoughts on a general thread so all can see not just BGLO but other GLO too on Greek Life. I would have posted in each and every thread so you wouldnt feel like i was picking on a certain group but then I figure that everyone on this board reads the same thing.
You were right, I shouldnt select one group. However, by posting on another board the message doesnt change the message and the points still remain the same. I also posted my comments on myspace, facebook and yahoo groups. Unfortunetly, I can't preach to the whole world, im just one little person, but i know the few that I did reach is a great start. I hope you now realized that the truth doesnt change and I am not afraid to speak to anyone. Im not really sure what you were trying to prove but then again I don't understand a lot of what you do.
Anywhoo be blessed or be cursed whichever one you decide

Thank you very much. That is all I ask of you. You should be aware now, after a year, that people who regularly post over in the general threads don't venture here often. Neither do most of us go there often. You should know that. Your first thread and posts were over there and you didn't get many NPHC Greek responses. But, I am glad that you have spread the word.

And you being only one person should not matter. It only takes one person to effect change.

By the way, where on facebook, myspace, and yahoo is your message posted? I would like to read the responses of others outside of the GC setting. That is if you don't mind sharing....

[unknown2u]

Of course i dont mind sharing!
My myspace name is NLUVWIDDAKING

facebook (well my name is Sasha and I dont want to give out my last name but I am in Cali) I can PM you the facebook information.

Yahoo groups is USCGREEKCONNECTION, but this group is private. It was for members and interests. At the time when i was interest I was apart of this group. Ill give you more details if you genuinely want to know.

[RedefinedDiva]

Can't find your myspace page... Do you have a direct link.

Didn't see the Yahoo!Group either....

[SKEEphistAKAte]

Originally Posted by unknown2u

but I started to do some thinking.

This is where it all went wrong...

[RedefinedDiva]

Soror-twin always makes me smile!