a serious question

[PrettyGirl03]

Originally posted by gillman
Thanks everybody for the POSITIVE input and also thank you for the negative input that was put in a respectful way (unlike some people). Anywayz, the reason for leaving in four days had nothing to do with the fact that I could not handle what was going on. I left because of all the drama that was going on with the girls who was putting me through the the process. These ladies in this specific organization had so much hatred towards each other and internal drama that it made me rethink my decision. Who need sisters that betray each other and talk behind each other back and they supposed to be sisters? As a Black sister I already deal with alot of drama who need sisters who are going to bring more drama? You join an organization for its postivity and interest in the community! What is so suspect about that????

Find bigger things to focus on.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally posted by texas*princess
Without knowing the details of why you want to depledge, I don't think anyone here should be saying "that's too short" or "that's disrespectful".. b/c none of us know what they are going through that makes them feel that way.

Since the organizations the poster was referencing have unique traditions and practices, I don't think anyone who is unfamiliar with these organizations should comment on the comments being made.

[PrettyGirl03]

Originally posted by skajeff
Not racially sensitive by far, just wondering why he/she had to make some lame statement pertaining to race.

Why did you have to comment?

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally posted by skajeff
Not racially sensitive by far, just wondering why he/she had to make some lame statement pertaining to race.

Yes you are. Does referencing Black Greeks offend you? The young lady made reference to the NPHC. Did that offend you, too?

Get over it.

<--- Black Greek

[texas*princess]

Originally posted by DSTCHAOS
Since the organizations the poster was referencing have unique traditions and practices, I don't think anyone who is unfamiliar with these organizations should comment on the comments being made.

Well sorry but what you think is pretty irrelevant

The poster is trying to get AWAY from this organization, remember ?

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally posted by gillman
Thanks everybody for the POSITIVE input and also thank you for the negative input that was put in a respectful way (unlike some people). Anywayz, the reason for leaving in four days had nothing to do with the fact that I could not handle what was going on. I left because of all the drama that was going on with the girls who was putting me through the the process. These ladies in this specific organization had so much hatred towards each other and internal drama that it made me rethink my decision. Who need sisters that betray each other and talk behind each other back and they supposed to be sisters? As a Black sister I already deal with alot of drama who need sisters who are going to bring more drama? You join an organization for its postivity and interest in the community! What is so suspect about that????

You're rather lame. Not simply because you want to find another organization, but because you are seeking opinions and guidance on Greekchat.

Get a clue and at least PRETEND that you have researched these organizations on a national and international level.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally posted by texas*princess
Well sorry

The poster is trying to get AWAY from this organization, remember ?

You are.

She's asking about joining another organization...perhaps an NPHC one. How would you know anything about that? You wouldn't.

[texas*princess]

Originally posted by DSTCHAOS
You are.

nope.. not really.

it's called sarcasm.. I thought you could recognize the gesture. But, alas, I was wrong.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally posted by texas*princess
nope.. not really.

Yeah, really.

[Dionysus]

Peeps need to quit their bitchin'!

[skajeff]

Originally posted by DSTCHAOS
Yes you are. Does referencing Black Greeks offend you? The young lady made reference to the NPHC. Did that offend you, too?

Get over it.

<--- Black Greek

No, cause it's not true, let's be frank here. There have been black greeks that have depledged.

The NPHC isn't all high and mighty, it isn't safeguarded from people finding their fraternity/sorority not for them.

Stop using race cause it's of poor taste.

Jeff

[gillman]

The research has nothing to do with it. I am not down playing the organization, I talking about the women who are making their organization look bad. Doing research and dealing with the girls on campus is too different things. And yes, this is greek chat, but people do not have to reply IF THEY DONT WANT TOO!!!

[PrettyGirl03]

Originally posted by skajeff
No, cause it's not true, let's be frank here. There have been black greeks that have depledged.

The NPHC isn't all high and mighty, it isn't safeguarded from people finding their fraternity/sorority not for them.

Stop using race cause it's of poor taste.

Jeff

The NPHC is high and mighty. Get over it.

How about you stop telling people what is of poor taste for them? Or is it hard for you to monitor yourself?

<----black greek

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally posted by gillman
The research has nothing to do with it.

It has everything to do with it.

The ladies on your campus are a small percentage of the TOTAL membership. If this organization is not in your heart, I sense that it isn't since you bothered to raise this issue, that is fine...do you.

But if it is in your heart, there is no reason why you can't wait until later on to pursue membership.

I understand we live in the microwave age where everything is achieved quickly and with ease. God forbid you have to sweat or you encounter people who piss you off along the way.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally posted by skajeff
There have been black greeks that have depledged.

I assume you have not read MY posts in this thread.

Is your issue with the UNTRUTH of the statement or is your issue with the mention of BLACK? Is it both?

Either way, shove it.