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AKA2D '91 · #61 01-12-2005, 04:00 PM

Soror Ideal,

WE must remember that this is GREEKchat, not SISTERFRIENDchat...

I think that we tend to forget that...

Ideal08 · #62 01-12-2005, 04:23 PM

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Originally posted by AKA2D '91
Soror Ideal,

WE must remember that this is GREEKchat, not SISTERFRIENDchat...

I think that we tend to forget that...

Soror 2D, you're right. You're absosmurfly right.

LMAO!!! No one will EVER PM you with ANYTHING, LMAO!!!

Yes, my MIC, I agree we should close them in a few days. Saturday is as good as any.

AKA2D '91 · #63 01-12-2005, 05:02 PM

Saturday, it is!

What makes Saturday significant?

AKA2D '91 · #64 01-12-2005, 05:11 PM

I forgot!!!!

Folks shouldn't be worried about PMing me...they need to be worried about Soror SKEEphistAKAte. She's a hott mess! And I LOVE it!

I defer to her!

Ideal08 · #65 01-12-2005, 05:12 PM

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Originally posted by AKA2D '91
Saturday, it is!

What makes Saturday significant?

LMAO @ you still asking questions!!! LMAO

Ideal08 · #66 01-12-2005, 05:13 PM

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Originally posted by AKA2D '91
I forgot!!!!

Folks shouldn't be worried about PMing me...they need to be worried about Soror SKEEphistAKAte. She's a hott mess! And I LOVE it!

I defer to her!

Giiiiiiiiiiirrrrrrrrrrllllllllll, if that ain't the TRUTH!!

Paradise359 · #67 01-12-2005, 05:33 PM

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Originally posted by AKA2D '91
Saturday, it is!

What makes Saturday significant?

LOL LOL Yall are off Chainizzle my Sorizzles!

Paradise359 · #68 01-12-2005, 05:36 PM

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Originally posted by AKA2D '91
LMAO. YOU get PMs regarding membership etc. ...YOU (all) ARE GOOD!

I say we close the threads in the next few days. I believe our work has been DONE!

I know right...nobody ever PMs me

gamma_girl52 · #69 01-12-2005, 05:55 PM

I'll go ahead and put myself in the hot seat...

If you had an opportunity to attend a "closed" meeting (ie. Boule, Regional Conference) COMPLETELY undetected; would you go?

No I wouldn't go. If I am not a member, what would I be getting from it? That's why meetings are deemed "closed"--they are strictly for members, with information that's pertinent to THEM. I suppose non-members would want to go because they feel as though they would get a "one-up" on something.

If all membership requirements were TOTALLY waived and ANYONE could be member, would you still want to be an Alpha Kappa Alpha woman?

That's actually a hard question. I would still want to be a member and still want to put in my best effort for the organization. Even if there were no requirements, eventually those who truly had love and respect for the organization would be seen doing what they should be doing (paying dues, doing service, being active in the structure of the sorority by being on committees/being an officer, etc.).

Now I gotta go back and answer more questions, so I hope the thread stays open...

gamma_girl52 · #70 01-12-2005, 06:14 PM

And taking a crack at this one:

Are you currently involved in other organizations? If so how many? Is your interest in AKA genuine or is it just another organization to add to your resume?

I'm very involved with Gamma Sigma Sigma, which is a service sorority. I'm involved pretty heavily on the alumnae level (President of my Alumnae Chapter, a Chapter Consultant, and National Staff).

My interest in AKA is indeed genuine--and I have had people ask me why would I join another greek organization when I am already very active in GSS. I don't find it to be another organization to add to my resume by any means.

Do you think you can remain a committed member to those you are already involved in and maintain membership in AKA if you are chosen? Do you have the funds to support all? Do you have the time to support all?

I honestly think I could be a committed, financial member. If I didn't think I could give my time, effort and money, I wouldn't pursue it at all. Nobody should join anything like that knowing full well they can't commit to it. It's a disservice to the organization.

What are you actively doing to obtain membership in Alpha Kappa Alpha?

Right now, I am hoping to begin attending the events and supporting the service projects of the graduate chapter I'm interested in. I have just made a contact and I'm excited about going to my first event.

If you are a grad level interest, do you find that attending grad events are expensive? If so, how do you expect to pay dues?

So far the costs of attending events hasn't killed me! Again, that was something I really thought about BEFORE expressing my interest.

For any contacts made with members, is it genuine (considering these will be the people you may be working with) or is it just a means to an end (I've got letters)?

I feel it's genuine. We have known each other for quite some time and we were pretty cool beforehand. I didn't even know she was an AKA until recently, and when I expressed my interest to her she was very helpful (but not TOO helpful). Hopefully I will have the opportunity to work more with her (and the rest of her chapter) as I attend events.

AKA_Monet · #71 01-12-2005, 06:24 PM

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Originally posted by wannabeina
I believe that the original question asked if I knew "FOR CERTAIN that you would NEVER have the opportunity" to join. Of course I would look to other groups. It's all about goals. I am interested in aligning myself with women who's aim is to help the community while sharing a common bond of friendship and sisterhood. If I knew for certain that I wasn't going to marry a specific man, I'm not going to sit there hoping and praying that God changes his mind. I'm going to move on and continue on my life's journey with someone else.

Sweetheart, you failed to answer my Soror Abaici's direct line of questioning...

There are ONLY A FEW WAYS that you would be absolutely denied membership into my Sorority... If you had done those things and an invitation was unable to be extended to you, would you try to join another sorority? Inquiring minds want to know...

wannabeina · #72 01-12-2005, 08:30 PM

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Originally posted by AKA_Monet
Sweetheart, you failed to answer my Soror Abaici's direct line of questioning...

There are ONLY A FEW WAYS that you would be absolutely denied membership into my Sorority... If you had done those things and an invitation was unable to be extended to you, would you try to join another sorority? Inquiring minds want to know...

I do apologize. I was taking the original question at face value. If I applied to your sorority and was not extended an invitation, I would not go to another organization and apply.

AKA_Monet · #73 01-12-2005, 09:21 PM

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Originally posted by wannabeina
I believe that the original question asked if I knew "FOR CERTAIN that you would NEVER have the opportunity" to join. Of course I would look to other groups. It's all about goals. I am interested in aligning myself with women who's aim is to help the community while sharing a common bond of friendship and sisterhood. If I knew for certain that I wasn't going to marry a specific man, I'm not going to sit there hoping and praying that God changes his mind. I'm going to move on and continue on my life's journey with someone else.

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Originally posted by wannabeina
I do apologize. I was taking the original question at face value. If I applied to your sorority and was not extended an invitation, I would not go to another organization and apply.

I am a bit confused

First you say you would join anybody's Sorority if an invitation was unable to be extended to you and now you are saying something different...

Why the discrepancy? How can you explain this?

Ignorance of the questions has yet to be an excuse... You can always request clarification...

abaici · #74 01-12-2005, 09:55 PM

If a memberfriend invited you to a function and you have a scheduling conflict, what would you do?

Would you think it was fair of the memberfriend to refrain from extending future invitations?

wannabeina · #75 01-12-2005, 10:05 PM

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Originally posted by AKA_Monet
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I am a bit confused

First you say you would join anybody's Sorority if an invitation was unable to be extended to you and now you are saying something different...

Why the discrepancy? How can you explain this?

Ignorance of the questions has yet to be an excuse... You can always request clarification...

You have misinterpreted my responses. I never said I "would join anybody's Sorority if an invitation was unable to be extended ". Ignorance.... Excuses... Clarification.... hmmmm
You seem to be the one asking for clarification.