I think I made a mistake.

[DrPhil]

Crafty spammer?

[WCsweet<3]

Am I too tired or are none of these posts really stringing together?

[Leslie Anne]

Originally Posted by WCsweet<3

Am I too tired or are none of these posts really stringing together?

Nope. Not stringing together one bit. I have no idea why Diana007 is telling us her life story, why she was using the royal "We", or why she wants the OP to join an NPHC when she's not allowed to.

Anyone's guess is as good as mine.

[Titchou]

You have graduated. You, at this point, can no longer "look into NPC" groups. Find something else to do with your time and MAYBE somone who is an NPC member MAY ask her group about you being an AI. But it comes to you - not you to it.

[DrPhil]

First of all, this better not be GreekRegret or some other sock puppet trying to distract GC.

Second of all, Diana007 is both correct and incorrect. Anyone who has read and understood that "diversity in the NPC" thread and other GC threads knows what's up.

[KDCat]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

First of all, this better not be GreekRegret or some other sock puppet trying to distract GC.

Second of all, Diana007 is both correct and incorrect. Anyone who has read and understood that "diversity in the NPC" thread and other GC threads knows what's up.

DianaOO7 doesn't have the experience to say one way or another. She doesn't belong to either an NPC or NPHC sorority. If my sisters or a member of an NPC or NPHC have something to say about diversity in the NPC, they have the experience to say something.

She needs to stay in her lane.

[DrPhil]

Some of that is her lane just like it was my lane when I was in high school and college to determine that NPC wasn't what I wanted. I didn't just wake up one morning as a Delta so it was definitely my lane before pledging Delta to research and pursue this NPHC sorority. Nonmembers are not so clueless and nonobservant.

[KDCat]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

Some of that is her lane just like it was my lane when I was in high school and college to determine that NPC wasn't what I wanted. I didn't just wake up one morning as a Delta so it was definitely my lane before pledging Delta to research and pursue this NPHC sorority. Nonmembers are not so clueless and nonobservant.

That's different than saying that non-white members of NPCs are "pretending" to beo something they are not. How the *#&$^&@#% would she know what their experience is or isn't? How would she know what they want or should want or what would be best for them?

Diana007's suggestions that NPC groups are only for WASPs is wrong. An NPC is a different experience for non-white members and lots of people may prefer an NPHC group for very good reasons. The women who choose to join NPC groups, however, aren't pretending to be something that they are not.


We're also maybe running up against different expectations re. member intake. NPHC groups seem to say "do your research and then approach a group that you want to join." NPC says "keep an open mind and go through recruitment."

BTW, DianaOO7 doesn't really have a lane. She is a college graduate. Many (most?) NPC groups don't actively recruit women who are post-graduation.

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by KDCat

That's different than saying that non-white members of NPCs are "pretending" to beo something they are not.

Diane007 is not incorrect for some of the white BGLO members.

Diane007 could have been saying that she doesn't feel as though the average "WASP" has a vested, longterm interest and investment in racial and ethnic minority communities. And I would agree 100%. If Diane007 is among the tons of white people who simply don't care, thanks for the honesty and go elsewhere.

[KDCat]

double post

sorry

[AZTheta]

DrPhil, who the hell knows WHAT Dianajamesbond means?

takeaway message for her: if you want honey, do not kick the beehive.

i am just one crabby b****, my wrist hurts like hell. TAKE YOUR CALCIUM, AND VITAMIN D!!!

[DrPhil]

Cyber hugs for AZTheta!!

[amIblue?]

Originally Posted by AZTheta

DrPhil, who the hell knows WHAT Dianajamesbond means?

takeaway message for her: if you want honey, do not kick the beehive.

i am just one crabby b****, my wrist hurts like hell. TAKE YOUR CALCIUM, AND VITAMIN D!!!

Hope you feel better soon. (The wrist, I mean. Your occasional bitchiness is fun.)

[AZTheta]

Originally Posted by amIblue?

Hope you feel better soon. (The wrist, I mean. Your occasional bitchiness is fun.)

awww... thanks! i am really annoyed, which isn't good. you are too kind.

[AZTheta]

Originally Posted by Diana007

What I am saying is the truth. The University that I graduated from also really exists. The Asian Sorority is Alpha Phi Gamma. That is the one that was added later. Does that not give you any clue where I graduated from? The only four Sororities on the campus are Chi Omega, Kappa Delta, Sigma Kappa, and Zeta Tau Alpha. The University is Cal Poly Pomona! We have never had any more NPC colonizations since 1983!

Originally Posted by Diana007

Since a 90 year just became a member of an NPC Sorority maybe there is still hope for me because I am not 90 years old.

Originally Posted by Diana007

The woman that joined the NPC Sorority felt that she made a mistake because she had not joined an NPHC group. If she only wanted to join an NPHC group she should not have rushed the NPC group in the first place. I was just trying to point out that there are other people that would consider it an Honor to be able to become a member of an NPC group and would not want to give up their membership to become a member of an NPHC group.

triple posting because i can. eating french crullers. troll is trolling. troll needs anger management and remedial reading. only hope: the house drops now!