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Old 03-08-2007, 07:42 PM
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Could she sue for the emotional toll of post partum depression and/or the emotional toll of having a child in the world that she doesn't know? She didn't want a child, which is why she wanted an abortion, but having the child and sending it away is a potentially different dynamic.
If she actually suffered from post partum depression, sure. I think she has to weigh the emotional toll of having a child in the world she doesn't know against the costs of raising the child and decide for herself. I don't think she should be entitled to make the doctors assume an additional cost no matter what she decides. (I already said I though she was entitled to some damages.)

Although the doctors are partially responsible for her child being in the world, they aren't solely responsible and it doesn't seem to me that they should have to assume the whole cost of the child and the damages to the mother, whatever they might be.

(I can't remember what the book was called, but I once read a somewhat cheesy novel in which a similarly unsuccessful abortion was an element of the plot. Is this some rare example of life imitating (bad) art or is there some statistically measurable number of abortions that fail to abort the child? What usually happens in such cases? Are there usually follow up directions or examines? How the heck did the second doctor miss her pregnancy at 20 weeks?)
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Old 03-08-2007, 07:51 PM
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Maybe I'm missing something... and maybe it's already been mentioned, but the abortion and everything took place in 2004. Why is this suit just happening NOW?

Timing issues aside, it said she decided to have an abortion due to financial reasons (which may or may not be true since I don't know her).... so the fact that she is suing for the costs of raising her child makes some sense to me... although I am definitely not a lawyer by any means.
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Old 03-08-2007, 08:04 PM
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This woman only wanted an abortion for financial reasons, but many many women have abortions for health reasons. Their life would be in danger if they carry through with the pregnancy and birth. What if that was the case with this woman and the abortionist put her life in danger by not performing the abortion right? I think this woman has a case, but why did she keep the baby?
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Old 03-08-2007, 08:11 PM
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Maybe I'm missing something... and maybe it's already been mentioned, but the abortion and everything took place in 2004. Why is this suit just happening NOW?
Plenty of reasons. People have a certain amount of time in which they can bring a lawsuit, which is called the "statute of limitations." She may not have realized she had a legal claim. They may have been trying to settle it without filing suit (very likely). Maybe she wasn't emotionally ready to deal with it. Who knows. But there are plenty of reasons why she would wait. Litigation, even before a complaint is filed, can be a lengthy process.
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Old 03-08-2007, 09:04 PM
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I'm reading the article and already I've found "holes" in her defense.

1) I've never had an abortion but don't you A) bleed and B) have to come back for a post op? If that is true, 1) why didn't she notice "omg I'm not bleeding or in pain" and 2) why didn't she go to her post op?

2) The second doctor that she saw in July is just as culpable because supposedly he didn't detect the pregnancy at 20 weeks. Why is she just sueing the planned parenthood doctors? She should be suing him? (arguement about her motives for just suing them).

3) September rolls around, how the heck could you not know you are still pregnant? As a lawyer I'd be asking her, did you get your periods? If she say's no, I'd be like "hello, think about that for a second". Most women when we miss a period, we freak out. We wanna know why we are late. And if you're sexually active a pregnancy test is usually the first thing taken. I just don't get how a women can claim that she "didn't know" she was pregnant.

4) Yeah the abortion didn't work but she doesn't have to keep the child. It is called adoption. She is using this child for money, plain and simple. Which is completely unfair to the child.



She will probably win some money for the fact that the abortion was botched but I highly doubt she will win for expenses for the child. She doesn't have to keep the child. Right there it was her choice. The doctors shouldn't be responsible for that choice.
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I have never had an abortion (by my own choice). However, I DID have a D&C this past December and I was wondering the same thing. I know when I had my procedure, I did have to have a follow up a week later. The pain wasn't too bad (man, whatever they put in that IV was some good shit!) The pain meds that go home with you are a good help too.

You do bleed. They do examine the tissue to make sure they got it all and check for any genetic defects.

This was my experience...it might be different if it is an elective procedure

So it makes me wonder if she went to her follow-up????
And How in the hell did she not know she was pregnant at 20 weeks? There are other symptoms besides a missed menstrual cycle. If she was getting the Depo Shot, sometimes you do not get a period at all. But there are other symptoms...

I agree she should have given up the kid...that kid is gonna need some serious therapy because his mom is f*cked in the head
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Old 03-08-2007, 09:46 PM
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regarding asuadpi's questions - it is possible that she did have her periods (one of my aunts didn't know she was pregnant for a very long time b/c she was getting her periods regularly)... and in some women who take BC pills, eventually have very light almost non-existant periods... it's different for different people. I had several friends who almost never had periods because they were very A) skinny or B) very active and weren't pregnant.

kddani - thanks for the clarification... i forget about that.
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Old 03-08-2007, 11:23 PM
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I replied in another thread, but after actually reading the article, it doesn't say what the second doctor was seeing her for. She may have gone to him for something completely unreleated, like an injured toe or rash or some other random thing. If she didn't think she was pregnant, she may not have mentioned anything about it to him. She may not have told him she had an abortion in March if she didn't feel it was relevant to why she was there on that day. If she is overweight, then he might not notice a growing pregnancy. Too many what ifs.

I agree with previous posters regarding the child. Suing for the cost of raising a child that you could have given to a family who wanted a child is not a good look.
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Old 03-09-2007, 01:18 AM
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Maybe I'm missing something... and maybe it's already been mentioned, but the abortion and everything took place in 2004. Why is this suit just happening NOW?

Timing issues aside, it said she decided to have an abortion due to financial reasons (which may or may not be true since I don't know her).... so the fact that she is suing for the costs of raising her child makes some sense to me... although I am definitely not a lawyer by any means.
Well, (excuse me for not reading the article but it's late), if this is a civil matter, it takes time. I'm involved in a lawsuit that began in 2003 and is only now really starting to be pursued. Of course the lawyery sorts would know a lot more and are going at it quite nicely here. Carry on GC lawyers
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Old 03-09-2007, 01:38 AM
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Just out of curiosity, does the child involved get to sue for psychological damages, once she finds out exactly how unwanted she is or was?
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Old 03-09-2007, 02:28 AM
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2 medical situations here:

1) Most doctors that do abortions, mainly board certified OB/GYN's, don't EFF up on ALL fetus removals. They may EFF up of other finishing factors, i.e. rupturing the endometrium in the uterus or clipping the fallopians. But generally, they really cannot MISS the fetuses. They are visualized by ultrasound that is rather accurate. And the supersuction is scanned throughout the uterus...

2) There may be negligence of the doctors. The doctors may have actually not done the procedure because they were a part of this ultraconservative groups that say they'll do something and neglected to do it because they disagree with it due to personal convictions. They may have had a "mock pre-opt" work-up, there was anesthesia involved, but the procedure just was not done.

So basically, homegirl never got the procedure...

The real thing that probably happened is homegirl never followed thru with her appointments. She failed to show up for the actual procedural operation abortion. She showed up for her first one, where they do the ultrasound and see the location, the size of her uterus, safety and efficacy issues, then schedule the procedure date. And homegirl failed to show up...

The judge will throw out when the appointment records show her failure to comply.

And since she wants money, she's saying that she had a botched abortion because she's a crack whore that needs her slop and now she's lame enough to blame everyone else for her situation but herself.
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Old 03-09-2007, 08:36 AM
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AKA Monet,

Wouldn't it seem that the chances that Planned Parenthood doctors are part of the super-conservative group would be pretty low? (That's who they are in this case, I'm pretty sure.) And surely such a group would be getting sued right and left right for malpractice? It's really shocking to me that a doctor could just get away with pretending to perform a specific procedure for very long.

I'm not second guessing you on this next point but wouldn't a lawyer investigate to see that woman showed up for her actual abortion appointment before she filed suit. That would seem to be a rock solid defense in any case. "We failed to perform your abortion because you didn't actually show up for it." You're right, I think, that it would get thrown out.

Anybody who lives where there's local coverage of the case have any additional information?

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Old 03-09-2007, 10:23 AM
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Maybe I'm missing something... and maybe it's already been mentioned, but the abortion and everything took place in 2004. Why is this suit just happening NOW?
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Plenty of reasons. People have a certain amount of time in which they can bring a lawsuit, which is called the "statute of limitations." She may not have realized she had a legal claim. They may have been trying to settle it without filing suit (very likely). Maybe she wasn't emotionally ready to deal with it.
Exactly, and my guess is that the statute of limitations in this case is three years, meaning that even if she had been trying to deal with the matter without bringing suit, she was now at the point where she either had to file the suit or lose the right to sue. The news article seems to indicate that the statute of limitations would have begun to run in March 2004.
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Old 03-09-2007, 02:49 PM
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The news article seems to indicate that the statute of limitations would have begun to run in March 2004.
I think the statute would actually be tolled until she knew or had reason to know that she was still pregnant. So that could be as late as September when she found out she was still pregnant. (I guess I need to get a life too)

I found an article about a study of first trimester abortions that said that 46 in a series of 65,000 had unintentional continued pregnancy.
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I think the statute would actually be tolled until she knew or had reason to know that she was still pregnant. So that could be as late as September when she found out she was still pregnant. (I guess I need to get a life too).
I think I would argue that it shouldn't take from March until September to figure out that you're still pregnant.

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Old 03-09-2007, 03:00 PM
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Would it be medically possible that the woman had twins and the doctor negligently only aborted one of the fetuses without doing the pre-op procedures Monet just mentioned?

I realize that this may be a really, really stupid question.
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