DrEaM gUys...

[Dionysus]

I didn't know you had a dream guy!

[UF_Pike]

Dionysus!!!!!!!!!!!


*smiles*---your such a dork+++++ I realized what the original posted thread said afterwrads.I was hoping no one would catch that one....



*Big smile*

[ROWDYsister]

Dream guy:
-taller than me when I wear three inch heels
-short clean-cut hair, nice smile, I LOVE blue eyes
-has to make me laugh and cheer me up when I'm sad
-has to be patient with me when I'm freaking out or pissy
-strong personality...I don't like doormats as friends and I don't like doormats as boyfriends either
-has to have worthwhile things to say.
-somewhat liberal. or at least something. Don't reply "Whatever" when I ask you if you're a registered voter or what you think on a certain issue.
-passionate about at least one sport
-doesn't rag on me too much for being prissy
-able to take care of himself. I'm too young to be a mother, so I'm not going to act like I'm yours.
-spontaneous. I don't like forcing people to go out. I'm not the social director of life.
-have an idea of where you're going in life. I loved it when the most recent boyfriend and I were talking about life and I was thinking white picket fences and 2.4 children and he went off on lavaliers, engagements, grad school, pension plans, and retirement funds, etc. Surprised the hell out of me.
-get excited about things and support me when I'm excited.
-never make me feel like a whore, an alcoholic, or a ditz. Do it and we're done.
-keep me on my toes
-outgoing
-I don't care about money, I can take care of myself...but do not be a wimp if I have more money than you! Ego-smhego
-has to have good manners, like opening doors, letting you walk in front, etc.
-we bring out the best in each other
-loves me and isn't afraid to show it...I need a lavalier. If Dream Guy isn't Greek, quick! You can still join before we graduate!

[PhiMuNursie]

Let's see...He has to be tall (the last boyfriend was 6'8) and big (not too muscle-y, but just enough to know there's some muscles there). He has to be a Southern gentlemen. Cowboy hat, boots, truck and all. BUT, he needs to be able to be a little refined and go to fancy events without being embarassing. And of course someone who will go to church faithfully with the family. He has to want a big family and be able to take care of us financially, emotionally, etc. He needs to realize I am very much like a child sometimes and he has to be patient when I get like that. It would be nice if he got along with my parents, even when they are rough to get along with. And he needs to be one of those guys that is hard for people to get to know/hard to open up to, but it comes easy for him to open up/be sweet with me. (I like the jerks.) He has to like sports, especially football, and promise to take me to football games even if he's going with the guys, they can always bring their wives, I can't be left out of football just cause I'm a girl! And he must not under any circumstances make references to hooking up with my sisters/friends. (that just causes undo hatred toward her when she doesn't even understand why/even thinks he's attractive). And he has to love me unconditionally, even when I make it hard sometimes. He basically needs to be like my Daddy.

Though I haven't found this man as of yet, I've found some that are close...and maybe that's enough. As long as they love you with everything they have...maybe that's enough to be happy! Just a thought.

Tara

[BearyCuteAPhi]

My ideal/dream guy would have to be my boyfriend!!!!!!

Ronnie

[justhey76]

*dont want to date a guy who I could beat up, so preferably someone not too wimpy
*must be able to make me laugh
*clean cut, but still rugged (does that make sense?)
*someone who makes me want to be a better person
*someone who is up for anything
*gentlemanly and charming, but NOT FAKE
*someone who is nice to my younger brothers
*I am very ambitious, so I would have to say someone who really wants to DO something with their lives (not neccessarily moneywise, but someone who just wants to really make a difference)
*the KIND of car isnt important to me (i agree with whoever said there is nothing cuter/sweeter than a guy in a taurus bc its practical) but the guy has to KNOW about cars. there is something about a guy who is so passionate about his car that he knows it inside out that is sooooo extremely sexy
*MUST treat me like a lady at all times (i HATE guys that slap you in the butt in public and think its ok bc hes your Bf
*and last but not least, my dream man would be someone who isnt afraid to stand up for someone, or something, no matter WHO is watching

Lets see.....

-I'm realizing I kinda favor short guys so...5'6-6'0
-Eye color doesnt matter, but I love eyes that just come out at you.
-Race doesnt matter either
-For the races that dont have the cotton hair...I tend to like the spikey-out-of-bed-George Clooney look
-Well groomed I tend to like the trendy-preppy type, but I want someone who can just throw on jeans or sweats too.
-Good Hygiene....I love guys who wear cologne. Especially Abercrombie, Polo, Candies, Adidas and/or Curve.
- A nice a$$ doesnt hurt either Legs are a killer for me too
- Someone who takes care of themselves. You dont have to have a six pack. And I cant have someone who is skinner then me. I like the athletic to a little husky type.

OK enough about looks....

-Someone who is athletic or at least loves sports as much as I do. I like to go and watch games and be active.
-Sense of Humor is a MUST. I am completely a nut. And the only way you can handle me is if your the same way.
-Someone who knows what they want in life and goes after it. Intelligent, articulate.
- Someone who is social and likes to go to the bars and clubs.
-Honest, trustwothy (trust id big for me), responsible, caring, sensitive, patient, sweet, sompasstionate.
- Not afraid to be themselves and stands up for people
-If they are in a Greek org. ... someone who understands the love one can have for their org and is as active as I am in it. Or if they arent in one, someone who waont mind me rambling occassionllly about, even if they dont agree, but will just sit back and smile
- Someone who is relaxed
- Someone who is willing to take things slow and let them progress instead of rushing stuff. This has been one of the main reason why soo many of my friends have separated from bf's and fiances.

Ohhh someone who will love me for the faults I may have.

[XOBear]

hmmmmmm....

* I like Red Heads, but its not a must

* Has to be intelligent

* Should have goals

* NO BODY ODOR!

* Car doesnt matter, but he should have one.

* Gentleman

* Dresses nice

* Can handle my sisters!

* Doesnt mind my occasional messy ponytail!

* TALL.... A must! I'm 5' 11"

* Not freaky.


Not like I am Picky!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! hee hee

[aephi alum]

(aephi alum scans in picture of her husband and posts it )

My dream guy:

- Great personality and sense of humor

- Intelligent

- A gentleman

- At least 5'6" or so = taller than me in heels

- Nice eyes

- Hair color: I always went in for dark hair. Hubby is blond... oh well, nobody's perfect

- Physically fit

- Dresses well - no old ripped jeans etc.

- No drug use, nonsmoker, social drinker

- Car doesn't matter

[pbpck]

Hmmm...

Maybe I should revise my list...

-still must be charismatic and intelligent

-under 6 foot

-drives any black car

-is a Sigma Chi

-plays soccer

-resides in KY

Haha.

[TaraHopeful]

Two Words: BRAD PITT

[ilovemyglo]

my perfect guy...

I love dark hair. Light eyes (i like blue or green and yes there are even brown eyed hotties too) are nice with it but dark hair.

This sound funny but a very distinct jaw line. Like Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt... makes you want to kiss at the nape of their neck.

Funny... I love to laugh and if we can't laugh how can we have fun together?

Loves his family and treats his mother with total adoration. The way a man treats his mother really says a lot about him.

A guy that isn't wimpy but doesn't try to start a fight.

A guy that makes me want to do things, I don't care if it is mud wrestling or harvesting fruit... I want someone that likes to do different things.

If he liked animals that would help!

This sounds funny too.. but- I want a guy that lets me act like I can get whatever I want from him but isn't afraid to say no, and does sometimes!

I want a guy that lets me have a girls night out with out grief everyonce in awhile.

Three little words, one little bottle AQUA DI GIO

Someone who has ambition. I don't care if he wants to grow up and be a plumber, but a goal oriented man will never worry about food or a roof.

Someone that enjoys learning- like watching the History channel.
Someone that likes to travel and see new things and meet new people.
Someone that will hold me everynight until I fall asleep so I feel safe.
Someone that can pal around with my brothers.

Someone who is confident, not arrogant, self concious, not self absorbed.
A guy that will take me to see Lilo and Stitch and then next week go see the new star wars movies...

Someone like my dad

Haha... UF PIKE I like your list. My ex boyfriend hated football, and I always went to BW3's with his friends to watch it, should have known!!!

[SigmaChiCard]

Hmmm...

Maybe I should revise my list...

-still must be charismatic and intelligent

-under 6 foot

-drives any black car

-is a Sigma Chi

-plays soccer

-resides in KY

Ha Ha Ha. Jac, you are too much! Anyway....anyone in mind?

[fleazk294]

hm... my dream guy... i would have to say my boyfriend i have now. he fits my dream guy description perfectly and our personalities together is just amazing

anyway, here goes...
tall
skinny (not too skinny tho, gotta have some muscle)
awesome hands, legs, and hair (preferably brownish-blondish)
eyes that stand apart from other guys
a best friend (which we were for 1 1/2 years before we dated & still are)
very open communication
amazing personality and a sense of humor
outgoing but quiet at times, too
sporty lookin car
treats his family good
nonsmoker
i could probably keep on going but i think i'll spare ya anymore

[pbpck]

Originally posted by UMgirl

-Good Hygiene....I love guys who were cologne. Especially Abercrombie, Polo, Candies, Adidas and/or Curve.

Speaking of which, Curve for men is the ultimate aphrodisiac for me. It doesn't matter who it's on...that smell. Wow.

Oh and Cory, I may have had someone in mind. A girl can dream, right?