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09-30-2006, 06:57 PM
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Why do you think that we have subjected ourselves to lower standards than the generations before us?
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We don't have lower standards than before. We've just allowed the ignorant to overshadow the plethora of non-ignorant. There have always been the ignorant but previously we had informal social control that kept the community in order and told the idiots to sit down and shut up.
By "ignorant" and "idiot" I'm not talking about the poor. I'm talking about anyone who uses excuses and wallows in negative circumstances. Black people have traditionally been working poor and there was a segment of middle to upperclass. But regardless of the social class, we were always taught to be a prideful and hardworking people. Those of us who remain prideful and hardworking need to be at the forefront.
Sidebar: And, no, I don't believe that all of the images on BET are negative as some people believe. The negative part is the lack of balance between the BET images and other images of blacks. Everyone's looking for ONE THING to blame and fix but there isn't just one thing.
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Also, who do you guys think are the new black leaders?
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We don't have or need "black leaders."
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09-30-2006, 07:01 PM
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This is a great discussion. And I knew my daught would be a major contributor.
Just to lighten it up a bit--I am the only African American in an office of ten people. Every two weeks we have a staff meeting where a person is designated to bring food. It is a social services nonprofit and I am the only non-social worker.
My professional cultural shock in working in this environment was the "feelings" thing--staff meetings become emotional, and feelings get hurt very easily.
My race/ethnic cultural shock was the food. I have never eaten so much bland food in my life that eveyone else though was great. And of course here in Minnesota--Norwegian Country--the hot dish is king. Will someone please tell them that macaroni and cheese is NOT an entree! LOL.
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Hey mama.
I would probably like that food.  My family's eating habits are very diverse. Matter of fact, I tend to stay away from traditional "Southern" foods because of the excessive fat and seasoning. When I cook soulfood, it's always a different version than the original.  I was told that I cook like a "white woman with soul." I've even tried to go to "hole in the wall" soulfood places and gotten crazy looks over my requests to have my meal specially made.
<----fav food is Greek food
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09-30-2006, 10:42 PM
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We don't have or need "black leaders."
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DSTCHAOS can you elaborate on your answer. ( I tend to agree with you) However I am asking because it seems like we have always had those select leaders who were in the forefront. Is your reasoning that everyone in the community is a leader and we don't need someone to ban us together?
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10-01-2006, 12:46 AM
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chiming in mid convo....
a big problem is that we as a community dont know our strength and power. imho, we dont need to be 'led' by anyone. personally, some of our so called 'leaders' were just placed out in the forefront to make 'others' feel comfortable. i feel that as diverse as our culture is, our viewpoints are just as diverse and therefore one or two people cant and will never speak for af/am people.
to answer the original question we have a culture. it has been other cultures who took from us and created something new. we took it back and recreated it. like its been said, the more we buy into the notion that we are lost and need to be saved the worse will be as a community.
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DSTCHAOS can you elaborate on your answer. ( I tend to agree with you) However I am asking because it seems like we have always had those select leaders who were in the forefront. Is your reasoning that everyone in the community is a leader and we don't need someone to ban us together?
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10-01-2006, 02:42 AM
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Is your reasoning that everyone in the community is a leader and we don't need someone to ban us together?
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No.
Having a "black leader" is meaningless and it will always alienate a segment of the black population.
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10-01-2006, 06:09 AM
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I believe that we as Blacks (I prefer that term as opposed to AA as explained in other threads on this board) have a very rich and comprehensive cultural identity. Not only do we have traits that originate directly from various parts of the Continent but we have also taken aspects of other cultures ENHANCED them and made them distinctly our own. Every culture borrows from others but I think our creativity (just look at our cultural contributions to American English, for example) showcases some of the talents of our people.
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10-01-2006, 08:48 AM
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I so agree with Chaos' Black leaders comment. BTW who are the White leaders?
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10-01-2006, 08:52 AM
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Hey mama.
I would probably like that food.  My family's eating habits are very diverse. Matter of fact, I tend to stay away from traditional "Southern" foods because of the excessive fat and seasoning. When I cook soulfood, it's always a different version than the original.  I was told that I cook like a "white woman with soul." I've even tried to go to "hole in the wall" soulfood places and gotten crazy looks over my requests to have my meal specially made.
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LOL. But hot dishes tend to be high in fat, with NO seasoning. And I am not talking just about salt--I am talking about the other seasonings like black pepper, garlic, onion, etc. tha make a dish good without too much salt. The food they bring in is not healthy, just tasteless.
I love Greek food, too.
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10-01-2006, 11:54 AM
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I so agree with Chaos' Black leaders comment. BTW who are the White leaders?
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Re: black leaders, white leaders, any racial leaders - it seems to me the question is always going to be leaders of what? Are we talking about political leaders, religious leaders, or what? Just leaders of the whole race as a block? And if so, leading the block toward what exactly?
This reminds me of a class conversation from a couple years ago re: today's black cultural role models. People were upset because there were not a lot of good role models for young people. Then someone brought up that there aren't really any good role models for young people of any race. It's kind of the same for leadership in this country, IMO.
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10-01-2006, 01:24 PM
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As an African who has only been in America for 5 yrs, and has spent only 1 yr out of that 5 immersed in the black community, I would say yes, Black or African Americans' have a culture. If there was no culture, why is the entire would clamouring to be just like Black/African Americans? Not just the food, but the people, the language, the way of life, expressions, traditions... it is extremely rich.
I enjoy learning more Black/African Americans, my favourite class was African American Literature...
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10-01-2006, 07:34 PM
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The food they bring in is not healthy, just tasteless.
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Oh...well they suck.
BYOS = Bring Your Own Seasoning
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