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Old 01-10-2006, 07:58 PM
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AmeriKKKa.

I am sorry for Your thinking, but That Wording is used by a few White Racist, not every White Person as You may so suggest.

No, I did not Know That The Race Card was Used By Whites as all I see is some like You and others bring In The Race Card!

Everything is the Race Card when a AA is not accepted to a School because they did not have the GPA, or there was not a AA who was not chosen for a position.

If YOU have that Much Hatred, then, that is Your Personell Problem, Not everyone elses!

Sorry, I have AA Friends, Fraternity Brothers Who I welcome In My House anytime, can You say the same?

As I was Taught By An Uncle when I was young, "The Word NIGGER" was derived from the Nigre River area of Africa, meaning an area where people were darker than.

Never tell Me that the White man of America brought Slaves over from Africa to America. Were They Used, Yes. Did Many stay where they were because they were treated well by many, Yes. Not everyone is the same or do You disagree with that!


Most were Brought by Dutch Traders and Got Them From Other African Tribes for $$$ (MONEY)!

Your AA gets overwhelming.

We have a live one here, folks......

I certainly hope "AA" refers to either Alcoholics Anonymous or Affirmative Action.

I never said that EVERY white person did anything. I said that whites started using the ridiculous term "race card." LOL.

Everything is NOT the "race card" and that terminology is dumb. Plain and simple. LOL. Discrimination is based on outcome and not intent. If the OUTCOMES of practices are discriminatory against women, racial and ethnic minorities, the disabled...that's what the issue is. That doesn't mean that all claims of racism and discrimination are accurate, it means that people have a right to question them. Contrary to popular opinion, most racist and discriminatory practices never get called out. It takes a lot of time and effort to highlight everything that is perceived as racist (or sexist...or ageist) or discriminatory. Most minorities (including women, the elderly, and the disabled--we're talking about power constructs here) would rather just live their lives, and pray that they get just rewards, than sit around thinking about racism and discrimination everyday. I do agree that there are times when people of ALL "races" bring race into a topic when it shouldn't be brought in. However, charges of racism and discrimination are difficult to prove whereas you seem to think that filing such claims are the only thing on people's minds.

Uh...congrats on having Alcoholics Anonymous/Affirmative Action friends and frat brothers. There are racists who intermingle, date and marry interracially all the time. Surely you should bake your OWN cookies because I won't pat you on the back for the "accomplishment" of having AA friends. Like you're doing the world a favor.

I don't care about the slave trade, which every well read person knows was fueled by economic concerns and not "racism." I'm talking about the present and you're talking about the past. LOL...what's the point of having Alcoholic and Affirmative friends if you still see issues of race through a slave trade lens. Education is key, people, and pretending to be color blind so you won't have to SEE what's really going on out here is lame.....

We're all overwhelmed by Alcoholics and Affirmative, Tommy...surely....
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Old 01-10-2006, 08:09 PM
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Yes I have as a Police Officer and a Human Being. I have delt with this for many Years as a Business Owner.

You wont give Me Credit Cause I am Black. No Ass Whole, I dont give anyone Credit.

I as A Police Officer Did Deal with all Peoples and the only thing I was worried about was the breaking of The Law. I never gave a Damn What The Color Was, I did My Job. I was very Well Known in The Black Community for being Fair and This is How I Was.

I am still the same way today and Have the respect of AA.
Did You Know White Rubs Off?

A Person Who pays their Way is not looked down on, only the ones who think they are owed!

I made My Way as You and others did.
Sir, I'm gonna have to ask you to step out of your bubble. Keep your hands where I can see them and step slowwwwwwwwly out of your bubble.

We all agree that merit is great, Tommy. What you seem NOT to understand is that AmeriKKKa isn't a pure, individualistic meritocracy. If it were a pure meritocracy (with no one's ability to build social and human capital being cut down OR built up based on membership in a particular race, gender, or socioeconomic group) we wouldn't be having this discussion in the first place. No one ever said that racial and ethnic minorities should sit on their asses and collect royalty checks. Although, sitting on your ass and getting things based on privilege has worked for some members of the privileged groups for years. It's only a problem when OTHER people want group-based privilege.

Generalizations can only be made when you have valid information from which to generalize. Try reading some books and social science journals. It will add to your experiences as an officer of the law.
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Old 01-10-2006, 08:58 PM
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Old 01-11-2006, 12:37 AM
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Old 01-11-2006, 08:12 AM
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i got soooooooooo wasted!!!!!

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Old 01-11-2006, 10:02 AM
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what's the point of having Alcoholic and Affirmative friends if you still see issues of race through a slave trade lens. Education is key, people, and pretending to be color blind so you won't have to SEE what's really going on out here is lame.....
Well said. Most of what you say is well said, but I really like this one.
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Old 01-11-2006, 06:00 PM
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I'm not exactly sure if this question really fits into the discussion or not, but I didn't want to start a new thread on it because I don't think it's that different. I'm taking Survey of Black Literature in America this semester, and my professor has brought up a lot of interesting questions and things I'd never thought of before. Today in class, we discussed how, back in the days of slavery, black women were at a double disadvantage because of both their race and their gender.

We all know that both racism and sexism still persist. It's not like either were confined to the 1860's. So, my question is, for black women, do you think you encounter more racism or more sexism today? Or would you say it's more intertwined? Like, do you feel that any discrimination that's directed at you is more because you're "black," or more because you're "a woman," or more because you're "a black woman?" I know it's hard to say on something like that, but I was just curious. Sorry for the mini-hijack, by the way.
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Old 01-11-2006, 06:17 PM
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Or would you say it's more intertwined? Like, do you feel that any discrimination that's directed at you is more because you're "black," or more because you're "a woman," or more because you're "a black woman?" I know it's hard to say on something like that, but I was just curious. Sorry for the mini-hijack, by the way.
For me, I think that it is intertwined. I think it is all 3 "black" "woman" and "black woman". I feel like before anything else I am perceived as being BLACK first and then a woman second. I cannot explain why I feel this way. Sometimes I have to step "outside" of myself and evaluate things from an outside perspective and ask what if questions, because I don't know if my feelings are valid or if I am being paranoid.

i think that this is a good question. I think that you will be amazed at the responses that you will get.
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Old 01-11-2006, 07:17 PM
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One must look unto themselves for inner biasises and see where they are coming from, before critisicting others for their Biases, as everyone has their biases.

Based on their upbringing, life experences and, life styles is the main decission, not others. You do and act as people percieve You!

Do not hide behind a facade of what You want peple to think of You. Just be your self and not a BEM!
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Old 01-11-2006, 07:41 PM
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One must look unto themselves for inner biasises and see where they are coming from, before critisicting others for their Biases, as everyone has their biases.

Based on their upbringing, life experences and, life styles is the main decission, not others. You do and act as people percieve You!

Do not hide behind a facade of what You want peple to think of You. Just be your self and not a BEM!
I don't know what a BEM is, but the rest of what you said here makes sense. It's true that you can only see the world through your eyes.
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Old 01-11-2006, 08:17 PM
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I'm not exactly sure if this question really fits into the discussion or not, but I didn't want to start a new thread on it because I don't think it's that different. I'm taking Survey of Black Literature in America this semester, and my professor has brought up a lot of interesting questions and things I'd never thought of before. Today in class, we discussed how, back in the days of slavery, black women were at a double disadvantage because of both their race and their gender.

We all know that both racism and sexism still persist. It's not like either were confined to the 1860's. So, my question is, for black women, do you think you encounter more racism or more sexism today? Or would you say it's more intertwined? Like, do you feel that any discrimination that's directed at you is more because you're "black," or more because you're "a woman," or more because you're "a black woman?" I know it's hard to say on something like that, but I was just curious. Sorry for the mini-hijack, by the way.
That's an interesting question. I honestly don't think I could separate what is racism and what is sexism, because they both are intertwined.

On the flip side, I've had a lot of opportunities offered to me because I'm a Black female, so its killing two birds with one stone in some ways, for those who count that sort of thing.
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Old 01-11-2006, 08:18 PM
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I'm not exactly sure if this question really fits into the discussion or not, but I didn't want to start a new thread on it because I don't think it's that different. I'm taking Survey of Black Literature in America this semester, and my professor has brought up a lot of interesting questions and things I'd never thought of before. Today in class, we discussed how, back in the days of slavery, black women were at a double disadvantage because of both their race and their gender.

We all know that both racism and sexism still persist. It's not like either were confined to the 1860's. So, my question is, for black women, do you think you encounter more racism or more sexism today? Or would you say it's more intertwined? Like, do you feel that any discrimination that's directed at you is more because you're "black," or more because you're "a woman," or more because you're "a black woman?" I know it's hard to say on something like that, but I was just curious. Sorry for the mini-hijack, by the way.
That sounds like a good class.

I'm going to force myself to answer this complex question with four sentences. It will be vague and I apologize in advance:

There are time when the intersectionality of race and gender has a positive impact and times when it has a negative impact. Instead of placing it within the framework of racism, I place it within the framework of prejudice and discrimination. It's based on the interaction of racial stereotypes with gender stereotypes. This interaction is not unique to black women but it takes on a different form.
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Old 01-11-2006, 08:20 PM
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It's true that you can only see the world through your eyes.
That's not completely true. Part of being socially aware and wanting to eradicate "the isms" means you try to see the world through the eyes of others.
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I'm not exactly sure if this question really fits into the discussion or not, but I didn't want to start a new thread on it because I don't think it's that different. I'm taking Survey of Black Literature in America this semester, and my professor has brought up a lot of interesting questions and things I'd never thought of before. Today in class, we discussed how, back in the days of slavery, black women were at a double disadvantage because of both their race and their gender.

We all know that both racism and sexism still persist. It's not like either were confined to the 1860's. So, my question is, for black women, do you think you encounter more racism or more sexism today? Or would you say it's more intertwined? Like, do you feel that any discrimination that's directed at you is more because you're "black," or more because you're "a woman," or more because you're "a black woman?" I know it's hard to say on something like that, but I was just curious. Sorry for the mini-hijack, by the way.
I think it's intertwined for me too. It's really hard to separate it. I think I get more discrimation for being a 'black woman' more than anything though. But like jubilance1922 said, I haven't just received discrimation for being a 'black woman'. There have been plusses too.
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That's not completely true. Part of being socially aware and wanting to eradicate "the isms" means you try to see the world through the eyes of others.
You're right. The key word is 'try'.
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