Stupid Question

[James]

What are you doing monica?

Normally I tell people, either do it or don't. But if you do it, do it right.

In this situation you are doing it half assed. If you are going to go see him, make sure you go see him in a way that makes sure that it mazximizes you both being able to have a good time.

Why play games and be wierd about it? Thats self destructive and foolish.

Originally posted by AlphaGamDiva
ok, so to kind of update this lil situation for those who care (bobby, i know you're super interested):

he's called me the past 3 days, but i've missed his call. he left me messages talking about how he's leaving early and will get in fri instead of saturday, and leave saturday instead of sunday, MAYBE. well, last nite he left me a message saying that everything was cool and plans were the same as they were before. i actually talked to him this afternoon, and he said he was getting on his plane. i had mentioned that me and my 2 friends MIGHT be leaving tomorrow nite, but it wouldn't be until they got out of work.....but he got ALL in a tizzie b/c we may miss each other. i'm like, "GRRRRR!" b/c i'm so sorry that the military is crappin up your plans.....but i'm not sorry that i've made other plans while i'm up there and that i'm keepin them whether you're there or not. a$$. so i basically just told him to call me when he gets there and i'll hope for the best. he was AAAAANNNNNGGGGGRY.

have a safe flight, maybe i'll see you saturday.

[aurora_borealis]

Don't make me come to Kentucky and beat you.

[AlphaGamDiva]

annie, don't beat me....just worry about keepin those pants as a souvenir!!!! MWAhahahaha!

no worries. i'm leaving in a few hours....chances of me seein him are slim to none and i'm not scared. MD here we come!

[James]

So what happened?

[AlphaGamDiva]

well, james, i'll tell ya.

we left friday night and were supposed to reach my sorority sis's house around 6am.....OOPS we ended up going through KY, WV, OH, PN, WV, and then MD.....so we were about 3 hours late. we passed out for a few hours, got up, went to IKEA ol boy called and wanted me to meet him at 5. OOPS was an hour late b/c whoa baltimore traffic. he called twice during that hour and BITCHED me out, i BITCHED back, but i got there and as soon as i got in the door he was sweet as pie and on me like flies on isht. i'm still not convinced it was really him in there, but ya know. we were supposed to go out with his military people, but everyone was tired, and we ourselves passed out around 10:30. got up the next morning, i was totally UNemotional which was weird, and he was all, "aren't you gonna say you love me??" and i was like, "love ya"....he wanted to be all cuddly and schmoopie and tell me i was "hot" (yeah, wow....this is mr. THE most critical person EVAR) and i just wanted to be a bitch. it was interesting. i left, we went to DC, got home, he called when he got back to CA, he's emailed a few times, and i haven't responded.

OOPS.

but it was a good wknd....i finally feel over it. finally.

[James]

So was the . . . ahem . . . attention he paid you worth the trip? Or was the . . . conversation sadly lacking?

Inquring minds want to know

[AlphaGamDiva]

the uh, attention, is always worth it. hello? LOL good times, good times........met up with him last nite as well (he's in KY)....feel somewhat spoiled in the attention dept.

OOPS.