How Come this thread is about to be locked?

[1sd]

Originally posted by delph998

HC TOOCUTE, I'm not going to make myself available to him?

HC you weren't talking to me?
HC but Imma answer?
HC you bet'not?
HC and I mean BET'not?!!!!

[nikki1920]

HC Delph, aint Karma a binch?
HC and dont be available for him or we'll all get you.. lol!
HC Vanda's friend, are you watching this?
HC Ok that was mean, but still.

HC lol @ toocute flipping her hair!
HC one day my hair will be long enough to do that?

HC I watched Boy Meets World last night?
HC Eric is TOO funny!!
HC I miss that show?
HC did I mention that Eric is a nut?
HC why is he the voice of Ron Stoppable on KP?
HC that show makes me lol?
HC these are random today?
HC *le tee hee*

[lovelyivy84]

Originally posted by nikki1920

HC Vanda's friend, are you watching this?

HC rooooooooooollin!

[btb87]

Originally posted by delph998
HC what goes around comes around?
HC Mr. Too Much Baggage just sent me this email?
HC he and his fiance are no longer a couple?
HC he thinks she has found somebody else oversees?
HC he went to the dentist and had $4000 worth of work done?
HC yesterday he received a notice that his bill isn't covered through his insurance?
HC why????
HC the military kicked him out of the system?
HC they kicked him out the system on 12-31?
HC he gets paid monthly?
HC it's pay day and he is not getting paid for working the whole month of January?
HC his account is negative $2000
HC he needs a shoulder to cry on?
HC he needs ME?
HC what goes around comes around?
HC TOOCUTE, I'm not going to make myself available to him?

HC and you weren't talking to me either, but anyway. . .
HC girl, I loves you like a play cousin
HC but if you even THANK ABOUT "being there" for his church-going, playing wid God-actin' thanking he's all that and a bag of chips and french-onion dip, seein' somebody else who was lookin' for love in all the wrong places, now knowing and actin' like he wanna get back with you - self, (breeve, breeve)
HC girl, I don't know what I'd do!
HC and PUH-LEASE don't let ladygreek find out!
HC it's all over then!
HC Mr. Mister might have to change church memberships!
HC don't play with my Del!

[TonyB06]

Originally posted by 1sd
HC you are right?
HC he ain't Ray-Ray?



HC like I said...I don't think I'm mean?
HC I guess "fiesty" would be more the word?
HC I actually think that there is something to the theory?
HC it seems like the nicer I am to people (men), the more they want to take advantage of it?
HC when you call them on their bullisht...that's when they wanna be like, "Oh, she's a contender"?
HC I have just really gotten to the point where I have a low tolerance for the bull?
HC if that's being mean....just call me MISS B.....?

HC...can "homeboy" Dr. Phil ask a few questions?

HC I agree --don't get walked on by anybody, not even a bruh
HC "feisty" is cool, but is it consistent??
HC is the change from nice to feisty immediate?
HC remember we can't switch into different emotions as quick or as well as yall can. Most of us don't have as many to choose from.
HC dude could be like "you was cool 5 minutes ago, now you trippin'?"
HC you're entitled to your true feelings, but inconsistency is confusing as h*ll
HC we can't STAND inconsistency
HC it seems men and women always fight for relationship "control?"
HC not me, though, I don't fight.

HC cracking up at "she's a contender".
HC if ole boy rolled up in a #52 jersey doing Ray-Ray's jock-itch tunnel dance, would everythang be alllright?

[nikki1920]

Originally posted by btb87

HC but if you even THANK ABOUT "being there" for his church-going, playing wid God-actin' thanking he's all that and a bag of chips and french-onion dip, seein' somebody else who was lookin' for love in all the wrong places, now knowing and actin' like he wanna get back with you - self, (breeve, breeve)

HC lol, not chips AND FRENCH ONION dip!!!
HC

HC @ lovelyivy: WHAT?
(yes, I searched for an angel smilie!! lol)

ETA: HC Tony has some good point re: control.
HC that's why I say communication (ie: one person talks, the other one listens, THEN repeats back what the first person said) is so important.
HC lemme find out ya'll tryna get deep in here, lol!

[delph998]

Originally posted by btb87
HC and you weren't talking to me either, but anyway. . .
HC girl, I loves you like a play cousin
HC but if you even THANK ABOUT "being there" for his church-going, playing wid God-actin' thanking he's all that and a bag of chips and french-onion dip, seein' somebody else who was lookin' for love in all the wrong places, now knowing and actin' like he wanna get back with you - self, (breeve, breeve)
HC girl, I don't know what I'd do!
HC and PUH-LEASE don't let ladygreek find out!
HC it's all over then!
HC Mr. Mister might have to change church memberships!
HC don't play with my Del!

HC I really felt like I was talkin' to my mom, BTB!!!
HC you just got gangsta!!!!
HC yes ma'am!!!
HC I promise, 1SD, Nikkie, and BTB!!!

[Honeykiss1974]

HC *FRUSTRATION* and *ANGER* ?
HC there is a management position here at my job?
HC the job description says that it REQUIRES a CPA?
HC I inquried about the position (since I already work here and will be sitting for the CPA exam this fall) to see if I could apply now?
HC I was told that they were needing a CPA right now, which is why its a requirement?
HC cool, I understand?
HC a melanin-challeneged co-worker of mine inquired (to the same person) about the job for a friend of her's?
HC she was told that a CPA WAS NOT required?
HC said person then told her to have her friend email her to discuss the position?
HC WTF(insert profanity)?????
HC shady wench?
HC I OUGHT to go confront her on this, but let me pray on it for a minute?
HC I can't be ghetto about it though?
HC ?
HC I don't know what to do?
HC mad, but I now have a "F(insert profanity) You "attitude about it?
HC !
HC advice please?

[toocute]

Originally posted by delph998
HC I really felt like I was talkin' to my mom, BTB!!!
HC you just got gangsta!!!!
HC yes ma'am!!!
HC I promise, 1SD, Nikkie, and BTB!!!

HC gurl don't worry about us
HC worry about ladygreek
HC some real drop kicking will happen then fo' real

HC lol at btb going gangsta

[toocute]

Originally posted by nikki1920

HC Vanda's friend, are you watching this?

HC sorry for the double post Mods but this HAD to be out there all by it's self

[lovelyivy84]

HC Paperwork, paperwork and more paperwork.
HC:
Document everything, refer to your coworker by name and that discussion she had, ask for clarification and cc your boss (or anyone in a position of authority who is positive towards you)with all of this information.

DON'T be ghetto
DON'T be attitude-y

Just get the facts documented

Originally posted by Honeykiss1974
HC *FRUSTRATION* and *ANGER* ?
HC there is a management position here at my job?
HC the job description says that it REQUIRES a CPA?
HC I inquried about the position (since I already work here and will be sitting for the CPA exam this fall) to see if I could apply now?
HC I was told that they were needing a CPA right now, which is why its a requirement?
HC cool, I understand?
HC a melanin-challeneged co-worker of mine inquired (to the same person) about the job for a friend of her's?
HC she was told that a CPA WAS NOT required?
HC said person then told her to have her friend email her to discuss the position?
HC WTF(insert profanity)?????
HC shady wench?
HC I OUGHT to go confront her on this, but let me pray on it for a minute?
HC I can't be ghetto about it though?
HC ?
HC I don't know what to do?
HC mad, but I now have a "F(insert profanity) You "attitude about it?
HC !
HC advice please?

[TonyB06]

Originally posted by nikki1920

ETA: HC Tony has some good point re: control.
HC that's why I say communication (ie: one person talks, the other one listens, THEN repeats back what the first person said) is so important.
HC lemme find out ya'll tryna get deep in here, lol!

HC I feel you nikki1920 on the communication tip but remember, sometimes the "Cliff Notes" version is Ok. Yall make your points, then make 'em again (with or without the neck-craining depending on how mad you are) , then by the 3rd time, it's almost time for SportsCenter and we just want the argument DONE, so we we say yeah, ok. Then later, when we mess up (again) we don't realize what we agreed to. (but you are 100% right).

Del....I don't even need to get back in this (too much baggage) with you do I? If me and btb87 have to make a cameo appearance at this wedding, it won't necessarily be to salute the bride/groom if ya feelin me.

[lovelyivy84]

HC it never ceases to amaze me how black folks and white folks can have grown up in the same country and yet one group be TOTALLY IGNORANT of the cultural dynamics of the other
HC yesterday I was talking to distraction
HC I mentioned the stereotype of AKA's (paper bag test, yada yada)
HC he had no idea what I was talking about
HC he didn't know about colorism at all
HC I was amazed at how people could not know about that
HC he was shocked that black people would discriminate against their own because of color
HC I remain amazed that anyone could have missed that!
HC GC, HC?

[librasoul22]

HC Discover Card called me on my JOB yesterday?
HC I have only been there a short time and Discover has VERY old information for me?
HC they hunted me down!! lol
HC the chick that called (Sherri) told me that if I didn't give her my checking account info they were fully prepared to take legal action?
HC I said Sherri?
DON'T EVER EVER EEEEEEVER CALL ME ON MY JOB AGAIN.
HC these people are ruthless?
HC I called her back today and cursed her out good before I paid the minimum payment? lol
HC I regret the day I ever signed up for that Discover Card and in my lifetime I will NEVER get another credit card?
HC sigh?

[Steeltrap]

Originally posted by lovelyivy84
HC it never ceases to amaze me how black folks and white folks can have grown up in the same country and yet one group be TOTALLY IGNORANT of the cultural dynamics of the other
HC yesterday I was talking to distraction
HC I mentioned the stereotype of AKA's (paper bag test, yada yada)
HC he had no idea what I was talking about
HC he didn't know about colorism at all
HC I was amazed at how people could not know about that
HC he was shocked that black people would discriminate against their own because of color
HC I remain amazed that anyone could have missed that!
HC GC, HC?

HC this is a good post?
HC it proves that just because there are laws that prevent discrimination, doesn't mean that people are going to change or modify their behaviors?
HC I'm not surprised that white folx don't know anything about colorism because many are only around a eye-dropper of black folx?