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Originally posted by cutiepatootie
This is pretty sad. Iam thinking because a majority of you are all still in college but some of us who have kids and are divorced make us feel like were nothing good if we have kids...Like were out looking for a father or a mother for them......pretty sad
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Ditto. I have a 6 year old and no way am I out looking for a father substitute for her (her father is very active in her life, but that's beside the point). As we get older, the chances of meeting people with children will increase.
When I was in my 20's I have dated about 2 men who already had children. It didn't bother me b/c I would think about if the shoe were on the other foot, but that's just my way of thinking. Shoot, single parents need to have fun too!!!
When you have children and are single, it is easier to date someone who already have children themselves b/c they know exactly what you go through in scheduling your time between your obligations and having time for yourself.