3 Dealbreakers

[Optimist Prime]

1. Using a hair straightenener for more than 3 days in a row
2. Bringing up another guy all the time.
3. Unkept apperrence.


also, Lil' Hannah, I have a question. What do you consider drugs?

[AchtungBaby80]

1. If a date uses drugs/alcohol excessively, he's gone. Well, if he uses illegal drugs, or prescription drugs that aren't his, period, he's out.

2. If he isn't the least bit motivated or ambitious (i.e. prefers to live in his parents' basement for the rest of his life and thinks it's OK), then he's out.

3. If he uses words like "gay" to describe something that is lame or stupid, or uses words like "tard" instead of the entire word, he's definitely out. That's really annoying.

[absolutuscchick]

Originally posted by Optimist Prime
1. Using a hair straightenener for more than 3 days in a row

Ummm whats wrong with that??? I'm all about that....

[DG515]

No Sense of Humor
Boring
Drug User

**Main three the same as everyone else's, for the most part***
Some minor things that could push it over the maybe-line
*Too clingy
*too obnoxious
*Too immature
*Doesn't understand my pre-existing time committments
*Doesn't like hockey (lol)
~*~Mandie~*~

[Lil' Hannah]

Originally posted by Optimist Prime
also, Lil' Hannah, I have a question. What do you consider drugs?

Pretty much anything that's illegal. And perscription drugs that aren't perscribed to them. You can learn more about my stance on drug use on page 2.

[Munchkin03]

Chauvinistic/tyrannical/misogynist
Cocky/full of himself
Clingy/codependent

[Peaches-n-Cream]

Violent
Mean, critical
Boring, whiny pain in the a$$

[Munchkin03]

Fat
Bad skin
Hairy

[Rudey]

Dumb (ie a girl who works in marketing)
Bad personality (ie complain lots, talk about yourself lots)
Overly sensitive (ie when someone lets you know you're dumb you get upset).

-Rudey

[Colonist]

Deal-Breakers

1.) Uneducated (I am in college and heading to law school, I am not interested in a high school drop out or a community college reject)
2.) Doesn't party (I like going out a lot and a homebody would not be my speed)
3.) Not in good shape/skinny, (must like to be active be it jogging, swimming, biking, and loving sports is a definate plus)

[xok85xo]

baggage - has been married before, or has kids

poor table manners

smokes

[Jadey28]

-Stares at other females while we are out together

-Drug use

-No ambition in life




(Wow, as I reread this list, I realize this is exactly the reason I broke up with my long-time high school boyfriend. He was going no where in life.)

[hottytoddy]

I hate people who are rude to servers in restaurants...it says a lot about how they treat people.

Hard core drugs (does not include weed & alcohol) - I once went to a formal with a guy who was in the bathroom snorting coke off the back of the toilet!! Needless to say I never went out with him again.

Whiny/needy

A guy who doesn't like football as much as me is gone (you'd be surprised)

Guys who have no respect for me and other people

If he doesn't like music as much as I do either he's gone..


That all I can think of at the moment other than the obvious--lying, cheating, abusive...can't talk to them(no personality)


-ginger

[starang21]

1. lack of fidelity
2. lack of confidence
3. lack of strength

[sororitygirl2]

Originally posted by Rudey:Dumb (ie a girl who works in marketing)
Bad personality (ie complain lots, talk about yourself lots)
Overly sensitive (ie when someone lets you know you're dumb you get upset).

Rudey, I work in marketing and I am not dumb - guaranteed. And I'm not overly sensitive!

My deal breakers in relationships with men are:
- B.O.
- Listening to bad music
- Lying and being flaky
- Having those wheels that spin while you're stopped at a light (Craig!)
- Wearing silk boxers or any kind of thongs or speedos

And, of course:
- Cheating
- Beating me/Insulting me
- Being a member of a freakish cult
- Being gay