To kiss or not to kiss?

[anaballerina]

Guys....

Before going for a first date kiss, make sure you really understand the girl's body language. If it absolutely seems like she was taken by you, a kiss is nice. If she seems at all uncomfortable, a quick hug would be more appropriate.

[Jestor]

Originally posted by madmax
Stick your tongue down her throat.

Either she will like it or she wont. If she likes it and she plays her cards right, she might get lucky. If she doesn't like it then who cares. At least then you know where you stand and you wont have to waste anymore time, or money on her. Either way you win. The only way you lose is if you do nothing and then you will end up being the eternal nice guy that she calls whenever she has a problem with some jerk that she is having sex with.

*waves hand* That's me!

[MooseGirl]

despite more horribleness at dating and everyone telling me we should've at least kissed, I have managed to secure a 2nd date with the guy for tonight.

Now, here's hoping for some tongue action tonight



And i do think the kiss or not to kiss depends on the person. i've done a lot more than kiss on a first date, and obviously i've done nothing on a first date - so it all depends on the guy, the mood, the current needs.

[James]

What about just asking her if you can kiss her? In some charming way? That puts the onus back on the girl . . .

[AGDee]

Don't ask her. That is SO annoying. If she's looking up at you, into your eyes, making eye contact with "those eyes" and leaning in toward you, she wants you to kiss her.

[ZTAMich]

DON'T ask if you can kiss a girl! Please. I want a man who knows what he wants & goes for it not tip-toes around asking for permission. I think some other women might agree.

That said...when my little sister who's in high school told me her boy said "I really want to kiss you right now" I thought that was sweet. (but no she didn't kiss him!!!)

[PrettyBoy]

I think the man should kiss the woman 1st. For me, the women I've gone out with planted the kiss on me 1st. So, with that I've actually never gotten a chance to give the 1st kiss.

[tpa_92190]

personally, just a kiss on the cheek

[texas*princess]

Originally Posted by Knoxstudent

As I was dropping a girl off, she looked at me and leaned in; somehow I missed it. It ended up being an awkward hug instead. And needless to say, I've never heard from her since.

the exact opposite thing happened to me once... the guy was dropping me off, and I was going to lean over to hug, and I guess he thought I was leaning in to kiss, hahahaha weird hug indeed!

[fyrnymph]

If I think the first date will be followed by a second, (chemistry), then a kiss. If not - well, no.