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05-15-2016, 01:21 PM
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Originally Posted by SigKapSweetie
Disclaimer: I'm coming from an SEC perspective, not a Texas perspective.
I actually sort of love the sequin converse idea for prefs. If the sister commented on your shoes (which I would expect, WITHOUT FAIL, to be some variation on 'how cute!' or 'those are so unique!' rather than anything negative - you are a guest in their home and their manners should prevent them from saying anything critical), I would respond with "Thank you! I actually hurt my foot, so I can't wear heels. It's so sweet of you to be cool about it."
And then the conversation will move on. No muss, no fuss.
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I agree that this is the type of dialogue that likely occur regarding your shoes and then the information can be shared among the actives in post-party discussions.
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05-14-2016, 07:18 PM
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Do you really want to affiliate yourself with a group of women who would cut you because you couldn't wear shoes *they* like?
How do you normally handle church, weddings, prom, etc?
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05-15-2016, 07:34 AM
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Originally Posted by DGTess
Do you really want to affiliate yourself with a group of women who would cut you because you couldn't wear shoes *they* like?
How do you normally handle church, weddings, prom, etc?
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She can't to explain to every sister in every sorority why she's wearing attire that many would consider inappropriate for the situation.
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05-15-2016, 02:51 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by SigKapSweetie
I would respond with "Thank you! I actually hurt my foot, so I can't wear heels. It's so sweet of you to be cool about it."
And then the conversation will move on. No muss, no fuss.
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This sounds perfect, at least to me. I'm not from Texas either, though.
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07-05-2016, 03:32 PM
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Since I last posted in this thread, I broke my foot and am now wearing a hideous black boot. What I'd give for some cute sequined converse!
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07-05-2016, 03:54 PM
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Originally Posted by SigKapSweetie
Since I last posted in this thread, I broke my foot and am now wearing a hideous black boot. What I'd give for some cute sequined converse!
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Fortunately, you don't have to go through rush again. 
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07-05-2016, 04:35 PM
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Originally Posted by SigKapSweetie
Since I last posted in this thread, I broke my foot and am now wearing a hideous black boot. What I'd give for some cute sequined converse!
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 Hope you're on the mend and out of that boot quickly!
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07-05-2016, 09:21 PM
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I may just add sequins to the boot!
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07-06-2016, 01:44 PM
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I may just add sequins to the boot!
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Add pink sequins. 
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07-06-2016, 05:39 PM
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Yes! But when you're halfway through the bedazzling, quit in a huff, leaving half the boot unfinished....
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07-06-2016, 05:44 PM
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Sciencewoman for the win!
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07-07-2016, 09:20 AM
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Is that thread still available? It lives in infamy but I've never read it.
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07-09-2016, 09:30 PM
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http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...ad.php?t=88442
When I'm done adding pink sequins to the boot, I'll work on writing up my recruitment thread - and I'll make sure to include that thing!
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