Your "First Time" - A Good or Bad Experience?

[moe.ron]

Pretty bad. I kept thinking "what would the porno stars do?"

[Kevin]

I immediately told her "Okay, I know I can do better than that".

[tinydancer]

Well, I'd tell, but why bring up ancient history?
(LOLOL)

[Jill1228]

October 1985, I was 2 months from turning 19...freshman year of college.

Without giving out any wild, funny and crazy details, my main thoughts were:

ouch and I am glad it is over with!

[Optimist Prime]

bad

[cashmoney]

Wierd. I was 15 and I didnt know what to do when it start feeling really really good. The girl just kept telling me to leave it in. I did. Thank god the whoe didnt get pregnant. Later when I realized the stupidity of my first time...I was both angry and happy. I was angry that the chick wanted me to leave it in regardless of the consequences but I was happy that I got to experience something most guy don't until they're much older and with a girl on birth control.....the feeling of busting a nut in a chick without a rubber.

[angelic1]

May 9, 1998.. I dont ever think I will forget that date.

It was very cliche, in the backseat of a car after prom. Haha. But I dont regret it at all. I still even remember the song that was playing.

Even though we had only been dating a few months, we were both crazy about each other. We were both virgins too which was nice. Neither one of us really knew what we were doing, but it def got better with lots of practice from the both of us until I left for school. I really didnt want to break up, but I knew if I didnt I would always question things. We are still great friends now and neither of us will ever forget the other.

anyways.. to think that it would have never happened that way if I was let in to the after prom party at school. My grandfather has passed away that week so I had missed the few days before prom, so I wasnt allowed in when I showed up even though the people at the door knew my reasoning.

[AlphaGamDiva]

dec. 11, 1999......it wasn't a great experience. i wasn't ready for it, but agreed anyway. so.....yeah. i don't regret it, really......but i just wish it had happened a little later.

[swissmiss04]

Dec 1, 2000. My then-boyfriend was taking the LSAT the next day. I guess it was my way of wishing him luck.

The experience itself wasn't too bad. It was more out of curiousity than anything, and I don't regret it (much).

[CUGreekgirl]

August 14, 2003

It was okay... I had been "talking" to the guy about a month and actually dating him about 3 days. I had all my first in one night. I was starting my sophomore year and had never been kissed, well I ended up doing everything that night. I was a little drunk. He ended up "going down" on me for almost an hour, which I liked very much. But at the time I sort of had a penis phobia, so I didn't want to touch him anywhere near there. It didn't help that when he took off his boxers he was over 8 inches and thick. He couldn't get it in past an inch or two without me crying. Too make things even worse we were on a full sized inflatable air mattress which was ontop of a twin bed (My regular bed was getting moved in the next day). So the entire night we were pretty much falling off the bed. He was 6'4 too (i'm only 5ft) so he ended up kicking over a bunch of stuff.

The second time (which was not with him) was MUCH better!

[ISUKappa]

Sept. 1997. I had just started dating my first college boyfriend freshman year when we got drunk and just did it (it was his first time, too). It lasted maybe 2 minutes. Maybe. He was all "that was the best thing ever" and I was all "eh? that's it?" We didn't have the best relationship--consisted mostly of getting drunk and hooking up on the weekends--and he broke it off a few months later. We also had the bad habit of doing our annual "back-to-school drunk hookup" without fail every year until I graduated.

I wouldn't say I have any regrets, but I wish I would have made a better choice. I wonder about him occasionally but I wonder about the other guy I dated that year (from whom I took his V-card) more.

[Buttonz]

Feb 11 2004.....not bad at all. With the guy that I was hooking uo with for two months before that and it lasted till June hooking up with him. He was more expirenced ten me but never pressured me into anything. I don't regret it although I always thought I was going to wait until it was someone that I loved....Mr. Buttonz actually asked me one day if I wished that I waited and he was my first....in a way, I do but I have no regrets about it

[breathesgelatin]

It was pretty good. I was 19 (so I guess January 2002) and a college freshmen. It wasn't mind-blowing or even that great, but it wasn't a horrid experience. I was glad I waited that long because I think previous to that boyfriend it would have been a more traumatic experience. I really loved the guy, thought we'd get married, etc. It lasted 7 months. Heh. Ah, well. I have good memories of it, and I'm glad it was with him.

[DGqueen17]

I was 16. It was after the homecoming game and I was still in my cheerleading uniform. It was at my friends party in her older brothers room (who I hooked up with later on in college muhahaha). It was ok. I was like I thought it was suppose to hurt but he wasn't very big so it was more uncomfortable than painful. My 5th time hurt a lot more cuz, damn, that dude was packin.

[ilovemyglo]

I lost mine involuntarily when I was 14-
but I gave mine when I was 16.