Arnold Schwarzenegger is Good to "The Help"

[Munchkin03]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

I agree, AOII Angel. I seriously doubt that this is the first time she's known of his infidelity(sp).

Unlike many people, I don't celebrate when people (usually women) stick with known infidels. Children benefit a lot more when you tell the loose loser to fuck off. Children are not clueless idiots.

I know someone who had two children and another on the way when he impregnated a fourth (!!!!) woman. She came from a much more traditional family than the first two women, so he married her in more or less a shotgun wedding. He and his wife go on to have three children. Of course, he slips up and has a child with another woman. The wife is extremely forgiving and accepts the child--allows her to come to family events, etc. He does it again. She forgives him--again. Wouldn't you know it, that woman gets pregnant again. It's at that moment that she decides to jump ship. He's now married to Wife #2 and, from what I hear, he's still messing around but is a little more discreet about it (ie, he learned how condoms worked) or the women are smarter (birth control) or don't think that getting pregnant could trap him.

I still don't understand how Wife #1 kept up with a known infidel who she KNEW was dipping before they even got married. She was known for being annoying and kind of trifling, but this just makes it even sadder. Did she have crappy self-esteem?

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by Munchkin03

Did she have crappy self-esteem?

I think there are a few things going on there. Crappy self-esteem is one thing but not the only thing.

[Munchkin03]

Originally Posted by DrPhil

I think there are a few things going on there. Crappy self-esteem is one thing but not the only thing.

What else do you think? Desperation, clearly, but I think that's wrapped up into low self-esteem. Wife #1 was not very cute, either--and was traumatized that BabyMamas #1 and #2 were both lookers. Again, bad self-image.

[agzg]

Originally Posted by Munchkin03

I know someone who had two children and another on the way when he impregnated a fourth (!!!!) woman. She came from a much more traditional family than the first two women, so he married her in more or less a shotgun wedding. He and his wife go on to have three children. Of course, he slips up and has a child with another woman. The wife is extremely forgiving and accepts the child--allows her to come to family events, etc. He does it again. She forgives him--again. Wouldn't you know it, that woman gets pregnant again. It's at that moment that she decides to jump ship. He's now married to Wife #2 and, from what I hear, he's still messing around but is a little more discreet about it (ie, he learned how condoms worked) or the women are smarter (birth control) or don't think that getting pregnant could trap him.

I still don't understand how Wife #1 kept up with a known infidel who she KNEW was dipping before they even got married. She was known for being annoying and kind of trifling, but this just makes it even sadder. Did she have crappy self-esteem?

Let me get this straight, guy has 9 kids by 5 or 6 women? Does he support them all? Do all the kids live with their mothers? Does he have visitation?

Not that he should or shouldn't have any of that. This is fascinating.

[Munchkin03]

Originally Posted by agzg

Let me get this straight, guy has 9 kids by 5 or 6 women? Does he support them all? Do all the kids live with their mothers? Does he have visitation?

Not that he should or shouldn't have any of that. This is fascinating.

It's extremely fascinating. I don't know who's wackier--him or the women!

9 children. 6 women, two of whom he married.

The kids are, for the most part, in their 20s and 30s now...maybe the oldest two are in their 40s. They all grew up with their mothers--with the exception of the oldest two, all of his kids saw him on a somewhat regular basis. The youngest two, with Wife #2, are teenagers, but child support and visitation would be moot since they live with him. There's a pretty decent age spread, so he was never supporting all 9 at once.

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by Munchkin03

What else do you think? Desperation, clearly, but I think that's wrapped up into low self-esteem. Wife #1 was not very cute, either--and was traumatized that BabyMamas #1 and #2 were both lookers. Again, bad self-image.

A lot of couples will stay together "for the children." Like I said before, children aren't stupid. There are plenty of children who wish their parents would do everyone a favor and end the relationship.

[christiangirl]

Originally Posted by Munchkin03

How do I know? 'Cause I readz. Apparently, he was rawdogging her all over the house he shared with his wife and kids.

I'm sure we've talked about this somewhere, but if the actual condom failure rates were anywhere near the anecdotal condom failure rates, we'd have oops! babies all over the place. We all know that "the condom broke" is often code for "we didn't wear a condom," or "he didn't pull out in time." Yes, condoms do break--but not as often as people want you to believe.

Besides, they were grown-ass adults. They knew what they had to do to be careful, and they weren't.

Also, how can you be disappointed by an entertainer you don't know? His only job was to entertain you. Did he fail in that? I can understand if your disappointment stemmed from some of the problems CA has faced in the past few years, but that doesn't seem to be the case.

Ummm so that was a little more empassioned than I was expecting.

I'm not going to assume someone did/didn't do something if I don't know that for sure. I already said that condom failure is uncommon but it's a possibility till it's not. If you read that they were unprotected, then okay.

And hearing that something bad happened/was done after leaves one feeling a certain way and disappointed is just the word that fits. I don't have to know him to be a little disenchanted with the fact that that someone I admired (as an actor) turned out to be a manwhore (which I didn't know before this week). It's a bit like finding out Santa is a perv who just likes climbing into chimneys and snatching my people up.

Originally Posted by Jill1228

Iron wasn't the only thing he was pumping...

Eeeeewwwww lol

Originally Posted by agzg

Let me get this straight, guy has 9 kids by 5 or 6 women? Does he support them all? Do all the kids live with their mothers? Does he have visitation?

It's like a math problem. "If Tony has 9 kids by 6 women, makes $3,000 a month, and pays child support on the 15th of every month then how much money will he have left on the 1st when rent is due?"

Originally Posted by DrPhil

There are plenty of children who wish their parents would do everyone a favor and end the relationship.

Amen.

[CutiePie2000]

Originally Posted by Jill1228

Iron wasn't the only thing he was pumping...

You dirty girl!!....LOL

I guess when all is said and done, the headlines should read:
"Politician cheats on wife".

In the grand scheme of things, the politician cheating-situation has happened a bazillion times before and it will continue to happen in the future. The love child living in the same environment for 10 years or whatever puts an "interesting spin" to the story, but in the grand scheme of things, this story is really nothing that new. And of course, the fact that it's "ARNOLD".

[Xidelt]

I LOLD at rawdogging.

[DrPhil]

DUH, there is an investigation of whether The Governator used taxpayer money to hide his lovechild. DUH. He and John Edwards must be pals.

I can't find a good article on this. Please post what you find.