Transfer problems and joing a new frat

[gotsmartz]

Hey guys,
I just transferred schools and I was in an aepi chapter at my old school. After transferring to the new school(I won't mention the name), the new aepi chapter did not let me in. They were incredibly rude, the president did not show up to a meeting he planned with me, and he said I could not attend any of their events. They told me to look at other fraternities and that transfers do not do well there. I could possibly call national and fight my way in, but I do not want to. If they don't want me in it, I don't want to be in it. They are extremely different then the chapter I was in at my old school and not people I want to associate with. Since I decided that I wouldn't let this ruin me being in a frat, I decided to check out other fraternities, but I am now told I can't join any of them because I am a member of Aepi. As it stands now, I cannot join absolutely any fraternity at my new school. Is there a way to get around this? The chapter here really shares nothing other then the name, the people are obsessed with drinking and nothing else. The new frat I have been looking at, SigEp, said they are not sure I can join but they have been very receptive. I am not the type of person to quit things, it's just they won't let me join here and are incredibly rude. Please let me know if anything can be done.
Thanks in advance and good luck with exams!