Been there, done that...
Pursued and been pursued...
Some of it was fun and games... Most of it was sport fcuking... But how else was I able practice the tantra???
Anyhoo, I think there should be a level of "reciprocation" that is comfortable for both parties involved...
Now if gwirlfriend is a dominatrix, then you will be her slut puppie... But if gwirlfriend is a choir girl and doesn't know where to put it, then you will be with a nun, don't get nun, don't give nun...
Somewhere in between (pun intented) the pursuit must begin... It's the way of the world, how else should the species go forth and multiply?
I've participated in buying funky drink combination at TGI Friday's for guys I thought were attractive...
I've thought that any clothes my man wears are the clothes I chose for him, or he doesn't wear any...
And I've dropped major cash for some of the men I've dated, been with, hung out...
But I stopped all that kind of stuff when my heart got stomped on by a fool in my mid-20's. Yes, I was stoopid back then, but I was in "luuuvvv" (spelled lust and greed). Anyhoo, from that point, I learned through relationships, it is about "give and take" and alot of work. More like what are you willing to give up and what will be taken from you... And there is gain, sometimes.
I guess you just have to ensure your own happiness and satisfaction with you life...
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