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Old 05-31-2005, 06:22 PM
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My guess is that she is being this way with you (the kissing and holding hands, always wanting to have sex, and the domestic stuff) because she suspects you're bored and wants to keep you interested. She's trying to show you that she is a great girlfriend.

I mean if you can't stnd having sex with her that is not good. But there is obviously a reason that you aren't breaking up with her. It sounds like you don't want to break up with her, you just want some things to change.

It also sounds like you are getting more confident with yourself which is making her insecure. You are improving your body and you notice people noticing you and it irritates you that more women are noticing you and that she's there saying "He's mine"

I'm no Dr Phil or anything but this is what I think
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Old 05-31-2005, 07:15 PM
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My guess is that she is being this way with you (the kissing and holding hands, always wanting to have sex, and the domestic stuff) because she suspects you're bored and wants to keep you interested. She's trying to show you that she is a great girlfriend.

I mean if you can't stnd having sex with her that is not good. But there is obviously a reason that you aren't breaking up with her. It sounds like you don't want to break up with her, you just want some things to change.

It also sounds like you are getting more confident with yourself which is making her insecure. You are improving your body and you notice people noticing you and it irritates you that more women are noticing you and that she's there saying "He's mine"

I'm no Dr Phil or anything but this is what I think


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Old 05-31-2005, 07:20 PM
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OK now I am going to ask you an unpleasant question...

How would you feel if she suddenly became really distant? And people were paying attention to her...?
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Old 05-31-2005, 07:28 PM
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OK now I am going to ask you an unpleasant question...

How would you feel if she suddenly became really distant? And people were paying attention to her...?

Seriously? I wouldn't sweat it initially. I'd go out and fuck tons of girls for about 6 months and then it'd start to hit me and I'd miss her.


I talked to my pops about this the other day and he said something wise in the world of pimps and hoes.....

"Son, you're always going to find a hotter chick out there who's available for you. But the really good ones, like her, are really hard to find."

Then he started to get sarcastic with me...

"Now, what you need to do is get back with that ex-fiance of yours with the crazy ass family and then come talk to me after a year of that."

The talk did wonders, I appreciate her a whole lot more.
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Old 05-31-2005, 07:32 PM
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While the talk may have helped..it probably didn't solve the problem. You and she are probably going to still have to talk about some things.
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Old 06-01-2005, 08:08 PM
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While the talk may have helped..it probably didn't solve the problem. You and she are probably going to still have to talk about some things.

I know.

I don't know if it's more good than bad, but everytime there has been a talk needed for some reason we ended up rolling together and major talks took place. I think thats why she likes doing that crapp more than drinking or anything else. For some reason I'm the nicest person in the world and can talk about anything while rolling. Its been about 2 months since the last time....or whenever the paul van dyk show was.
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Old 06-12-2005, 09:30 PM
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Update.....


I'm warming up to her. She doesnt seem so annoying anymore. I don't know if her dying her hair black has anything to do with it or not, but the sex is a lot better now. She also bought like 3 porn DVDs to learn a better tenique to suit me, I guess.

This is what she's kind of looking like right now.....


But she's aiming to get Jessica Simpson's titties in the next week or two.
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Old 06-12-2005, 09:40 PM
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is that really her or just a picture of some celeb that looks sorta like her?

before i saw that picture i would say dump her and keep working out for a month and wait for the hot bitches...
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Old 06-13-2005, 05:53 AM
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I was in a similar situation and prolonged it and finally cut it off really abruptly. I just couldn't deal with the clinginess anymore. I felt like the guy had no other ambition but to be with me and that's a huge turnoff.
If you do decide to end it, you'll get the usual amount of phone calls that range from sad and hurt to angry and cussing to desperate fake suicidal messages but you'll get a new cell phone number and move on and months later when you bump into each other they'll still give you evil looks and you'll smile back because you remember how awful the sex was and how glad you're not with them anymore.

At least that's how it was with me.
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Old 06-13-2005, 12:54 PM
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So you can't get off half the time and you take viagra?

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Old 06-14-2005, 12:50 PM
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Craig can't get his pee pee up?
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Old 06-14-2005, 12:54 PM
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Craig can't get his pee pee up?
You should hold it up for him.

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Old 06-14-2005, 01:00 PM
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You should hold it up for him.

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Don't tell us about your fantasies
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Old 06-14-2005, 01:01 PM
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Don't tell us about your fantasies
Your mom is my fantasy.

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Old 06-14-2005, 01:02 PM
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Your mom is my fantasy.

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Sorry you lost your trial yesterday with that white woman
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