In this thread, we weep with Senusret I

[Peaches-n-Cream]

Originally posted by Senusret I
I FINALLY did it.

I cut him out of my life.

I asked him if there would EVER be a chance for the two of us and he said "I don't know."

I said, well when you do know, you know how to find me. Until then it's not fair for you to expect me to be "just friends" when we were NEVER that. I don't know how to be "just friends" with you, man! I feel like you just don't want me to hate you!

So he's out the phone and off the buddy list.

Yay me!

HIGH FIVE! Good for you!

[Dionysus]

Nice job, holmes!

[PM_Mama00]

Originally posted by Senusret I
I FINALLY did it.

I cut him out of my life.

I asked him if there would EVER be a chance for the two of us and he said "I don't know."

I said, well when you do know, you know how to find me. Until then it's not fair for you to expect me to be "just friends" when we were NEVER that. I don't know how to be "just friends" with you, man! I feel like you just don't want me to hate you!

So he's out the phone and off the buddy list.

Yay me!

Um. I just read this. And wanted to cry. Are you sure we're not the same person, talking to the same guy?

I had the SAME exact conversation with Joe. And he said "I don't know". And I told him that if he ever decided he wanted to be with me to call me cuz I couldn't just be friends with him and wait around till he wanted me or another girl.

I'm so feeling you. And now I'm gona bust out the tissues.

[abaici]

Originally posted by Senusret I
I FINALLY did it.

I cut him out of my life.

I asked him if there would EVER be a chance for the two of us and he said "I don't know."

I said, well when you do know, you know how to find me. Until then it's not fair for you to expect me to be "just friends" when we were NEVER that. I don't know how to be "just friends" with you, man! I feel like you just don't want me to hate you!

So he's out the phone and off the buddy list.

Yay me!

That's the only way to do it. Sticking around, so that he won't feel like the bad guy, will only cause you more pain. In the end, it's all about how you feel. Do you want to have that person in your life at any cost? Even if them being in your life HURTS you? No.

It's a hard decision. It hurts. But, you have to do what you have to do for YOUR well being. As a soror told me, "He's just gotten out of your way for you to meet your husband."

[_Lisa_]

Congratulations! Cutting someone out of your life is such a hard thing to do but its so worth it when it affects your emotions!

[Peaches-n-Cream]

Originally posted by PM_Mama00
Um. I just read this. And wanted to cry. Are you sure we're not the same person, talking to the same guy?

I had the SAME exact conversation with Joe. And he said "I don't know". And I told him that if he ever decided he wanted to be with me to call me cuz I couldn't just be friends with him and wait around till he wanted me or another girl.

I'm so feeling you. And now I'm gona bust out the tissues.

Long distance hugs for you.

[Sister Havana]

Originally posted by Senusret I
I FINALLY did it.

I cut him out of my life.

I asked him if there would EVER be a chance for the two of us and he said "I don't know."

I said, well when you do know, you know how to find me. Until then it's not fair for you to expect me to be "just friends" when we were NEVER that. I don't know how to be "just friends" with you, man! I feel like you just don't want me to hate you!

So he's out the phone and off the buddy list.

Yay me!

GOOD FOR YOU. (How did I miss this the first time around?) I know it is tough, but if keeping him in your life is just going to hurt, I think you did the best thing you could do.

*bighugs* to you Brother. You know I am here if you need an ear.

[sigtau305]

Originally posted by Senusret I
I FINALLY did it.

I cut him out of my life.

I asked him if there would EVER be a chance for the two of us and he said "I don't know."

I said, well when you do know, you know how to find me. Until then it's not fair for you to expect me to be "just friends" when we were NEVER that. I don't know how to be "just friends" with you, man! I feel like you just don't want me to hate you!

So he's out the phone and off the buddy list.

Yay me!

Good Job

[Private I]

in answer to the first post: cos wants to have cake and eat it too. Wants to break up but not feel bad about it.
in answer to second post: GREAT

[trojangal]

Good job. It will be hard, but I'm glad you were able to take it to that step. I'll keep thinking of you.

[PhiPsiRuss]

Way to go!

You'll find the right guy for you in time.

Now, you just need the beer and wings to officially close this chapter.

[Senusret I]

I feel it's only fair to give the update, even if it means I look like a schmuck.

So a week after I said I didn't want to talk to him anymore, we started talking again. In the end, I didn't feel like my life was better off without him.

And then he goes and gets me a Valentine's Day gift....what did he want to go and do that for? It was belated, but it was still appreciated.

I was weak, GC. I was weak.

I am actually happy though....so far, so good. I don't feel like I am losing anything by allowing him in my life. But he'll be right back out if he makes me feel the way I did in post #1 ever again.

[tinydancer]

I guess everyone deserves a second chance. Follow your heart and do what will make you happy. You know we're on your side.

[Peaches-n-Cream]

If he hurts you, I'll come to DC to kick his butt!

[Sister Havana]

Originally posted by Peaches-n-Cream
If he hurts you, I'll come to DC to kick his butt!

So will I!

ETA: Doesn't he live in Philly or somewhere like that, though?