No Sex Before Marriage...But You've Done "It" Before..

[LeslieAGD]

If that bride that aephi alum mentioned was smart, she would have just written down her parent's or best friend's address.

[Love_Spell_6]

Originally posted by aephi alum
It stuck out to me because of the priest's insistence that one of them physically move out. The priest didn't want them having any more sex until the wedding - that's fine, it's the Catholic Church's stance that premarital sex is a no-no. But it wasn't sufficient for them just to promise not to have sex; it wasn't sufficient for them to sleep in separate bedrooms in their apartment; they had to have physically separate residences.

I guess the priest's feeling was that by LT they were sending the message that they were sleeping together (as, indeed, they had been), but it bothered me that he wouldn't accept their word that they would not have sex.

Plus, what's to stop them from getting a second apartment and then staying over with each other all the time?

OK i see...and you have a good point no one knows what goes on in the dark except those two people and GOD.

[Sister Havana]

I know people who've done this before. The rule I always heard them use was abstain for one month for every year you've been together before you get married.

I wouldn't do this (come on, it relieves pre-wedding stress! ) but if others want to, go for it.