where are YOUUR babies: spin off of why arent you married

[lil_sunshine]

Different people have asked me that over the past 5 or so years (I'm 28) and within the past year, I've decided NOT TO HAVE ANY. I've realized that not everyone is meant to be a parent, and that I'd prefer to be "selfish"-like some people would call me- island hop, have fun in my career and enjoy life- with or without a husband.

I've been around certain people and have seen them grow up into present day toddlers, teenagers and parents. These particular people (at least 6 total) were the people I based my decision on and I'm sticking to it. If anyone were to ask me now, I'd just tell them, "Never ever ever in this lifetime." If they have a problem with that, I'll tell them just where to go and gladly give them directions.

[StarFish106]

I have been married almost 2 years and I get that all the time. When are you gonna start having kids? What y'all waiting for...etc. Once i asked someone "Why you got plans for my uterus that I don't know about? Do Tell.."

Right now I am enjoying my hubby, we are trying to find a house and if my uterus comes up with any more fibroids I am sending back to the inventor marked 'defective' and be done. It's not killing either of us to have them so if we do, we do, if we don't we goin to DisneyLand!!!..