the one and only true love of your life

[GeekyPenguin]

Originally posted by Rudey
No I see him every morning when I look in the mirror and know he'll be there forever.

-Rudey
--I loooooooooooooooooooove me!!!

Cosign.

There's a million different "the ones" for me. All I want is a nice Chad.

[AlethiaSi]

well... i don't think he was the LOVE of my life... but it was love at first site- he is my ultimate guy as far as looks- so i'm sooooooo attracted to him and we have incredible chemistry... however- to be honest... he's just not as smart as me... or not willing to show it/work for it...so our conversations are a bit lacking... i miss him terribly- but i know that it would never ever work out... however... the problem i have now is- NO guys are attractive to me... i'm just not interested in anyone- and even hot guys i talk to- i'm so bored wtih... whats wrong with me???

[XOMichelle]

I won't meet the right guy until I am ready to meet him, if that makes any sense. Right now I could meet the most perfect man in the world and he wouldn't be right.

[starang21]

maybe....there were only 3 women in college who could keep my attention and interest me on that kind of level. i'm with one of them.

[rainbowbrightCS]

Originally posted by sageofages
I think it is all a matter of perspective. I know I thought I had lost my one true love. For ten years I mourned that relationships ending, and foolishly tended the flame I carried for him. I bounced through a number of relationships that were doomed because of the way I was still feeling about my lost love.

UNTIL.....I met my husband. THEN I learned what "true love" really is. It IS hard work. It is holding your hands (and head) while you are heaving your guts up with morning sickness. It is worrying about your recovery after your 5th CSection It is going grocery shopping (and having to put the junk food back cause he is as bad as the kids! with filling the cart), it is paying the bills together, it is shoveling the sidewalk when there is 12 inches of snow, it is cleaning the bathtub cause you hate to, it is trying to make all the hanger clothes share the closet, it is driving him to work when he is on pain med for a bad tooth , it is cheering as your son cross the goal line (finally), listening to terrible bass playing cause your husband has unfulfilled dreams about having a rock band so he bought everyone an electric guitar for Christmas....it is daily life, the good, the bad, the up, the down...

You get my idea. I lost 10 years to the mist of a dream, but I found a lifetime with reality once I opened my eyes and heart

Can't you tell I sure love my husband

that is so beautifull, thank you for sharing... that is what I want with my boyfriend.

[AlphaGamDiva]

sageofages, that is a GREAT story.

i dunno.....i know that five years have gone by and i am still in love with my ex. we still talk, no other relationship compares to ours......we fight like maniacs, but at the same time, that's what makes us "us"......and we love as hard as we fight. we've been through so many ups and downs, he's made so many dumb mistakes and i've been really naive and immature about some things, but we always find our way back to each other. we talked last night and it's just impossible for either one of us to let go of each other.....despite the fact we live so far apart now (i'm in KY, he's in CA).....and we're not together....we are together b/c we don't want anyone else, we're not with anyone else, so it's just difficult.

so, yeah....in my mind, he's the one and only true love of my life. i don't know what's in store for us....but i don't think we'll be finished until we're married....then divorced.....then married again.