On the reverse for a woman, !!!!!AMEN!!!!!
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Originally posted by lastpoetnsite:
much respect...
hmmm...my list would be...
1. are you an intellectual? *this doesn't mean have you gone to college because there are some idiots in higher ed*
2. can we have a conversation about other things besides entertainment, sports, and sex?
3. have you slept with the opposite sex recently? because i'm not into bi women...i only want to be with a woman who is out and proud! oh yeah and include in this if you have a baby daddy...i'm not interested. (oh i'm sure someone will make a derogatory statement about this one)
4. are you spiritual? do you believe in a higher power *not necessarily religious*
5. do you have goals? and have you acheived any of them?
6. do you watch movies that aren't just blaxpoitation? *yes folx most black movies today are just that!*
7. do you vote?
8. do you have a desire to uplift people of color and stop ignorance through educating people on a positive level?
9. do you like music other than hip-hop? i love my hip-hop but you have to have a larger collection than da souths booty hits.
10. can you cook? i mean can you at least make a decent vermacelli with sauce?
11. do you like to express your emotions? can you laugh, cry, be angry, be happy...in a healthy way? and don't give me that "i've been hurt b.s. everyone has been hurt...move on!
12. is your library larger than black formula books? i love my eric jerome dickey and bebe moore campbell too...but dayum i would hope that there is something else that stimulates your mind like...maybe..."being black: zen and the art of living with fearlessness and grace" or how about "The Century"
13. do you love your mtv, bet, AND CNN?
14. can i take you to parties held by my profs and not worry about what you are going to say?
15. can you change to fit the situation? *kind of a follow up to #14* can you chill with my friends or listen to a seminar at a wine and cheese social?
16. are you cool with doing activities that don't always cost an arm and a leg? *i'm a college student...so go figure*
17. is your reputation untouchable? i don't want to hear about how many folx you have been with when i introduce you to my friends.
18. do you love yourself?
19. are you proud of who you are? and what you have acheived?
20. are you open to other ways of thinking, other cultures and beliefs?
21. last but not least...can you be trusted?
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