I'm sorry, I get the impression that I made you feel bad or something.

I didn't mean to cause discomfort by asking. I mean, if looking at more than one org is a crime, then I most certainly would be guilty.
I did review your story so far and I am still confused.

For example, you just said that things went nowhere with the "other" org. Some of the repsonses you got seemed to overlap. Ie. you
first went to dinner with the
second sorority. Next you got an e-mail from someone in a third group? Then you got some news from someone in the first one? So when you say, "other" I have no idea who you are refering to.
I think it would help if you gave nicknames to them so we could follow along. You know, like give them names of candybars, national parks, constallations, or something.
I just want to be able to follow along with you!
We're rooting for you!!! It's great that you have had some opportunities - go for it!!
.....Kelly