I was "friends with benefits" with a guy friend until I told him I was looking for a real relationship, not just a hookup buddy. That did it for us and we haven't really talked since. Maybe your guy is the same way...afraid of the real committment.
Originally posted by James
Like I said, its a litle spooky that someone you haven'y been physical with keeps trying to invite himself over for sex . . . Damn . . . tell the guy to at least buy you dinner first lol.
Hey....this whole thread reminds me of my life...I seriously have had like 3 guys in the past month who I have had zero physicalness with want me to come over and sleep with them...not in those words but it's pretty obvious...