legacy policies

[TSteven]

Originally Posted by Unregistered-

If a chapter invites a [Alpha Gamma Delta] legacy to Preference, the legacy must be placed on the chapter's first bid list."

Originally Posted by AOIIBrandi

Every [Alpha Omicron Pi] legacy who accepts an invitation to the chapter's final party (Preference) must be named on the chapter's QUOTA LIST (also known as first bid list).

Originally Posted by VT Tri-D

A [Delta Delta Delta] legacy must be invited to one party and must be put on the first bid list if she makes it to pref.

Originally Posted by PsychTau

If the [Alpha Sigma Tau] legacy attends the preference party, she must be placed within the chapter's first bid list.

Originally Posted by shadokat

If the [Delta Phi Epsilon] legacy is invited to preference, she must be placed first on the final bid list.

Originally Posted by aephi alum

If a [Alpha Epsilon Phi] legacy is invited to pref, she must be on the first bid list.

Originally Posted by KillarneyRose

I'd like to add that if a Delta Zeta legacy is invited to preference parties, she must be put first on the bid list.

Originally Posted by KDHoney

If she is at [Kappa Delta] preference, she is placed 1st on the bid list.

Originally Posted by Jen

Any [Alpha Phi] legacy at pref must be placed on the first bid list.

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Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby

I also don't understand how a legacy could be guaranteed placement on the first bid list. Does that mean a chapter can't invite too many legacies to pref?

Originally Posted by angels&angles

Yeah, that's exactly what it means. We never had a problem with it since we never had more than 5 legacies go through, but we definitely thought more about the legacies in MS since we knew we HAD to cut them before pref or not at all.

So without getting into membership selection, if in theory there are more legacies (that everyone simply LOVES ) than potential bids/spaces, then the “first bid list” would need to be done – in theory – prior to the preference round?

[AOII Angel]

Originally Posted by TSteven

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So without getting into membership selection, if in theory there are more legacies (that everyone simply LOVES ) than potential bids/spaces, then the “first bid list” would need to be done – in theory – prior to the preference round?

Chapters who have a lot of legacies go through rush are very cognizant of this. You generally have an idea of what quota will be so you can release any legacies you can't take early enough in the process that they can find another match. Luckily, this is only a problem at a select few chapters.

I will say that regardless of the policy, holding a legacy through pref and not giving them a bid is probably the worst way to handle a legacy situation. Talk about World War 3!

[thetalady]

I have to say that I am really uncomfortable about this discussion. Do we REALLY want legacy PNMs knowing this policy? I had a younger sister go through rush several years ago. She was a Theta legacy, but I specifically did NOT tell her about what that meant at the pref round. How crappy would that have been of me to ruin her anticipation & the thrill of opening the envelope at Bid Day? That memory is one of my favorites in my sorority experience.

Having the information that if they (a legacy) are invited back to pref, they are all but guaranteed a bid to that chapter is not information that I really think they should have... just my 2 cents worth.

[TSteven]

Originally Posted by AOII Angel

Chapters who have a lot of legacies go through rush are very cognizant of this. You generally have an idea of what quota will be so you can release any legacies you can't take early enough in the process that they can find another match. Luckily, this is only a problem at a select few chapters.

I will say that regardless of the policy, holding a legacy through pref and not giving them a bid is probably the worst way to handle a legacy situation. Talk about World War 3!

So to avoid World War 3, a chapter – in theory – "should" only invite back to the preference round the number of legacies that they can “guarantee” a spot on their first bid list.

I now “get it” why so many legacies must be / are released prior to a preference round at chapters where more legacies go through than possible bids.

[exlurker]

At Kansas State U (of all places) Panhellenic's Fall 2011 Recruitment booklet has a nifty summary of the legacy relationships for each of the twelve chapters there. Sorry, it doesn't go into the notification question or getting permission to release a legacy.

Now if we only had a similar list for the remaining fourteen. . . . .

Anyway, FWIW:


http://www.k-state.edu/greek/documen...itment_002.pdf


“Below is what each chapter considers a legacy:
Alpha Chi Omega: sister, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother

Alpha Delta Pi: sister, mother, grandmother

Alpha Xi Delta: sister, mother, grandmother, aunts, step-relatives

Chi Omega: sister, mother

Delta Delta Delta: sister, mother, step-sister, step-mother

Gamma Phi Beta: sister, mother, grandmother, step-sister, step-mother

Kappa Alpha Theta: sister, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother

Kappa Delta: sister, mother, grandmother, step-sister, step-mother, half-relatives

Kappa Kappa Gamma: sister, mother, grandmother

Pi Beta Phi: sister, mother, grandmother

Sigma Kappa: sister, mother, grandmother, aunt, step-relatives

Zeta Tau Alpha: sister, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, aunts, step-relatives “



[QUOTE=FuzzieAlum;194770]To go along with the thread on rec policies, what is your sorority's legacy policy? . . .
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[TPA85]

Theta Phi Alpha is "sister, daughter, stepdaughter, granddaughter, or great-granddaughter."

[DGTess]

Deleted. Didn't realize DG had already been discussed. Should have read more carefully.

[KSUViolet06]

Exactly. At some places, keeping everyone would equate to an entire class of legacies.

This is why it's important for legacies (and their parents/sisters/etc.) to understand that being a legacy doesn't = a guaranteed bid.

Yes, the policy may state that Patty needs to go on whatever bid list if she makes it to Preference, but due to the volume of legacies at many schools, Patty may not even make it that far.

Any PNM (or PNM's parent) reading this NEEDS to understand that.

[FSUZeta]

i do not believe that the legacy policy that kansas state u. has listed for ZTA is correct, unless there was a revision made during our last convention a summer ago.

at some places there would be more legacies than slots for new members, even if they dropped every girl that was not a legacy.

[lauralaylin]

I had the same thought, but I was able to find Alpha Phi's policy online just as Jen wrote it.

[AznSAE]

i bet these relatives throw a big fit when they receive a call that their legacy is cut. or do they not care?

[AOII Angel]

Originally Posted by AznSAE

i bet these relatives throw a big fit when they receive a call that their legacy is cut. or do they not care?

It depends.

[33girl]

Originally Posted by AznSAE

i bet these relatives throw a big fit when they receive a call that their legacy is cut. or do they not care?

Originally Posted by AOII Angel

It depends.

A pretty accurate formula:

The size of the bitch that an alumna pitches if her legacy is cut is often inversely proportionate to the amount of time/involvement she has put into her chapter/national org since leaving college.

In other words, if she's stayed involved and realizes that just because the chapter/org was a fit for her, doesn't mean it and her daughter are a match, she's more likely to understand. Women who have not had any part in rush or membership selection for 20 years have a very rose-colored view of what it used to be like.

[AOII Angel]

Originally Posted by 33girl

A pretty accurate formula:

The size of the bitch that an alumna pitches if her legacy is cut is often inversely proportionate to the amount of time/involvement she has put into her chapter/national org since leaving college.

In other words, if she's stayed involved and realizes that just because the chapter/org was a fit for her, doesn't mean it and her daughter are a match, she's more likely to understand. Women who have not had any part in rush or membership selection for 20 years have a very rose-colored view of what it used to be like.

Pretty much, although I've heard a few awful stories of classless things said to relatives by representatives of chapters. Long story short, keep your mouth shut. Trying to explain only makes things worse.

[DoubleRose]

I got the call and just said "Thank you for calling". Of course it helped that my daughter had already told me they were not on the top of her list. And it was not my chapter. I think that would have been hard to hear from my daughter or the chapter, if it had been my chapter. While I feel my daughter would have fit in my chapter as it was when I was an undergrad, there is no telling if she would today. (My chapter is across the US from my current location.)

(It also would have been harder if she had loved the chapter and they dropped her.)