Your "First Time" - A Good or Bad Experience? - Page 3

lifesaver · #31 04-06-2002, 03:16 PM

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Originally posted by ZTAngel

Heh heh! I actually remember the date of mine too. November 11, 1998. How many people still remember the date of their first time?

November 26, 1999. PERMANANTELY etched in my memory.

aephi alum · #32 04-06-2002, 05:16 PM

May 12, 1996

Optimist Prime · #33 04-06-2002, 08:05 PM

ZTA person (sorry, but I forgot the last part of your screen name)

You're not the world's oldest, I"m a year older than you. I haven't dated in a while either, so don't feel alone

xok85xo · #34 04-06-2002, 08:31 PM

october 24, 1997..exactly one month before my eighteenth birthday(thats how i remember the date)...it was this guy who was friends w/a friend of mine from home(i went to school about an hour away)..nothing special..i was just ready to do it, didn't want to lose it to some random fraternity guy while i was drunk at a party or something, ended up "seeing" the guy (or whatever you wan to call it)for a few months after that...but definately no regrets..

TigerGirl52 · #35 04-06-2002, 09:14 PM

I don't remember the date but I do remember that it was awful. The only reason I even remember it now is because he dumped me the next day. Great way to lose your virginity, huh?

LeslieAGD · #36 04-06-2002, 09:56 PM

not that long ago...October 25th, 2001...the day after Hayride.

juniorgrrl · #37 04-07-2002, 02:17 AM

I'm guessing sometime late 2003, early 2004 maybe? Whenever the guy and I finally make it legal

We figured, hey, we've made it 4 years, 7 months (today! Hooray!) why give in now

No regrets either. We'll both be first-timers that night - exactly the way we want it. Something brand new for the both of us to celebrate.

Peaches-n-Cream · #38 04-08-2002, 06:18 PM

Good for you and him!

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Originally posted by juniorgrrl
I'm guessing sometime late 2003, early 2004 maybe? Whenever the guy and I finally make it legal

We figured, hey, we've made it 4 years, 7 months (today! Hooray!) why give in now

No regrets either. We'll both be first-timers that night - exactly the way we want it. Something brand new for the both of us to celebrate.

wishinhopin · #39 04-08-2002, 08:51 PM

November 11, 2001....Happy 19th Birthday to me! My birthday party got a little out of control, and one of my really good guy friends and I ended up just going for it. We had been flirting and into eachother for quite some time, but we established that night that we would be horrible as a couple. The sex was the absolute most painful thing in the whole wide world, but he was nice and careful about the whole thing. Sometimes I wish I would have waited til I was in love, but the whole experience felt right and I don't regret it. For about two weeks afterwards I kept waiting for regret to set in, but it never happened. I certainly learned alot, even though it was obviously not as good for me as it was for him! I'm really proud that I held out til 19 though...it was probably the best decision I've ever made, being a virgin for that long I mean. It really is such a huge deal emotionally, especially for girls.

Sister Havana · #40 08-17-2004, 02:27 PM

Bumping cause I am bored.

Mine happened February 24, 1992, in my dorm room at IU, with the guy I was dating at the time. We had gone to see Wayne's World at the theater, then we went back to my room and were hanging out...one thing led to another and it just sort of happened.

It was weird, I never really dated at all in HS and then I went from having done nothing to doing everything in a short time! I was totally ready, though, and I have no regrets.

I do remember going into the bathroom after he left that night, looking in the mirror and wondering if people would be able to tell just by looking at me. *heh*

FAB*SpiceySpice · #41 08-17-2004, 04:27 PM

My first time was actually much better than I expected, though I think anyone else looking at the situation would think I am crazy for thinking that my experience was a good one.
My first time was with this boy that I had had the hugest crush on when I was a freshman but we just hooked up once then b/c he had a girlfriend at the time oops. Then first semester of last year we started hooking up on a regular basis b/c we were both single and we still liked each other. He knew I was a virgin though and he never pressured me. One night though I had a tiny bit to drink (like 1 1/2 rum and diet cokes) and I just decided that I wanted to have sex with him right then. I knew when I was just a little freshman that this was the guy I wanted to lose my virginity to, even though at the time it clearly wasn't going to happen.

So my wish came true, even though it was two years later. And it was a good experience, not at all what I was thinking, I actually enjoyed myself and he was, at least I think, the perfect person to lose the v-card to.

I also remember the date b/c it wasn't that long ago and it was on my parents 25th wedding anniversary..haha. December 3,2003

Rio_Kohitsuji · #42 08-17-2004, 05:31 PM

It was October 4, 2001......my father's birthday

I had only been dating RioBoy for 2 weeks...we started drinking...and it happened. I remember thinking, "what's the big deal about it? It's not that great.."

He had forgotten that I still carried the V-Card so yeah... However, he was awesome at sex everytime but that first! lol!

sageofages · #43 08-17-2004, 10:52 PM

November 13, 1975 Longer ago than some of you are old!!! EEEKK.

No details, I was a sophomore in HS and he was a Senior. We have been dating for about 6 months. Suffice it to say, we skipped out on the pep assembly for a walk on the wild side in a nearby park.

He did tell me I would always remember him. I thought he was full of himself. Now almost 30 years later, when I wonder about him...I guess he was right.

rainbowbrightCS · #44 08-17-2004, 10:54 PM

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Originally posted by ZTAngel
Heh heh! I actually remember the date of mine too. November 11, 1998. How many people still remember the date of their first time?

I remeber mine. June 2

OK, we were 16 and very much in love. No regrets of the time or person... just the place. I wish it was a better place, I would have picked even a back seat of a car over where we gave our selves to each other. (if you want to know, you can pm me) It was ok, much better as practised.

But we dated about another year after that, broke up, but were are happily back together. I am going to marry my high school sweatheart, and the man i gave my virginity to (he was a virgin to, I was even his first kiss!!!)

lyrica9 · #45 08-18-2004, 03:38 AM

1999, it wasn't bad or anything, but hindsight's 20-20.

(edited to remove large amounts of TMI)