Help from the Kappas. He found out, and I hope I don't get cut.

Tre 1 · #1 09-26-2010, 01:18 AM

To the members of Kappa Alpha Psi. To give a recap, earlier, I posted that I was picked up to be on line as a pledge for Kappa Alpha Psi. It's 5 of us that are about to be on line now. It could be a possible 4 if I get cut. Over the summer, I was hanging out with one of the members girlfriends who I've known since highschool. We've always been cool and have always hung out together, nothing more than that. Well, one night she came over and one thing led to another. We had sex. We promised each other that we would keep it a secret, because she knows I want to pledge, and she doesn't want him to break up with her. When we got back to school, everything was cool, so I decided I wasn't going to say anything at all. Her best friend is a Kappa sweetheart, and she told her, thinking she wouldn't say anything. Her best friend told another sweetheart, and I'm thinking that's how it got back to him. She thought I told him, because he confronted her about it, and she denied it. So, he knows but he hasn't confronted me about it yet. We had our interviews last wednesday, and the whole time I was in the interview, he was just looking at me funny, not saying a word. The other members didn't seem like they knew. Right now, I'm confused and scared I'm going to get cut. If he confronted me, I was going to tell him the truth, but since his girl denied it, then I'm thinking I need to as well. I don't know what to do, and I don't know if all the Kappa know and are just playing mind games with me. I don't want to get cut, because I really want Kappa, but at the same time I feel uncomfortable when I see him one campus. He doesn't say anything to me. I'm just wondering if the other members know. Kappas if it was you in my shoes, what would you do?

TPA85 · #2 09-26-2010, 01:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tre 1

To the members of Kappa Alpha Psi. To give a recap, earlier, I posted that I was picked up to be on line as a pledge for Kappa Alpha Psi. It's 5 of us that are about to be on line now. It could be a possible 4 if I get cut. Over the summer, I was hanging out with one of the members girlfriends who I've known since highschool. We've always been cool and have always hung out together, nothing more than that. Well, one night she came over and one thing led to another. We had sex. We promised each other that we would keep it a secret, because she knows I want to pledge, and she doesn't want him to break up with her. When we got back to school, everything was cool, so I decided I wasn't going to say anything at all. Her best friend is a Kappa sweetheart, and she told her, thinking she wouldn't say anything. Her best friend told another sweetheart, and I'm thinking that's how it got back to him. She thought I told him, because he confronted her about it, and she denied it. So, he knows but he hasn't confronted me about it yet. We had our interviews last wednesday, and the whole time I was in the interview, he was just looking at me funny, not saying a word. The other members didn't seem like they knew. Right now, I'm confused and scared I'm going to get cut. If he confronted me, I was going to tell him the truth, but since his girl denied it, then I'm thinking I need to as well. I don't know what to do, and I don't know if all the Kappa know and are just playing mind games with me. I don't want to get cut, because I really want Kappa, but at the same time I feel uncomfortable when I see him one campus. He doesn't say anything to me. I'm just wondering if the other members know. Kappas if it was you in my shoes, what would you do

Q F P

dreamseeker · #3 09-26-2010, 02:20 AM

dun dun dunnnnnn. the saga continues.

excelblue · #4 09-26-2010, 03:07 AM

All I have to say: staying in implies that you're going to eventually become one of their brothers. Is this type of thing, unresolved, compatible with brotherhood?

I don't think there's an easy answer to this.

Tre 1 · #5 09-26-2010, 03:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by excelblue

All I have to say: staying in implies that you're going to eventually become one of their brothers. Is this type of thing, unresolved, compatible with brotherhood?

I don't think there's an easy answer to this.

When you say staying in you don't think I'll get cut, do you? Do you think the other brothers know? I know he knows. I'm thinking I should just go with the flow.

I don't understand your question.

Alumiyum · #6 09-26-2010, 03:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tre 1

When you say staying in you don't think I'll get cut, do you? Do you think the other brothers know? I know he knows. I'm thinking I should just go with the flow.

I don't understand your question.

If you don't get cut and it becomes obvious he is uncomfortable around you, it might be good to go ahead and talk about it. If you do, this is a hard lesson learned. Henceforth, be careful who you have sex with.

Tre 1 · #7 09-26-2010, 03:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Alumiyum

If you don't get cut and it becomes obvious he is uncomfortable around you, it might be good to go ahead and talk about it. If you do, this is a hard lesson learned. Henceforth, be careful who you have sex with.

So you think I should just approach him on it?

PrettyBoy · #8 09-26-2010, 07:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tre 1

Well, one night she came over and one thing led to another. We had sex.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NIAneEiWEJ4

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tre 1

So, he knows but he hasn't confronted me about it yet. We had our interviews last wednesday, and the whole time I was in the interview, he was just looking at me funny, not saying a word. The other members didn't seem like they knew. Right now, I'm confused and scared I'm going to get cut.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=COnTkjV3oak

PrettyBoy · #9 09-26-2010, 07:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tre 1

Kappas if it was you in my shoes, what would you do?

I'd stop posting this garbage on GC. You asked.

DeltaBetaBaby · #10 09-26-2010, 01:25 PM

Clearly, the best solution is to transfer to another university, pledge Kappa there, then once you are initiated, you can transfer back to this school and be a Kappa brother.

Tre 1 · #11 10-02-2010, 12:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby

Clearly, the best solution is to transfer to another university, pledge Kappa there, then once you are initiated, you can transfer back to this school and be a Kappa brother.

This doesn't work. Word gets around. Transferring would not make me a brother, not at this chapter. It doesn't work like that. I'll just have to go grad.

DeltaBetaBaby · #12 10-02-2010, 12:58 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tre 1

This doesn't work. Word gets around. Transferring would not make me a brother, not at this chapter. It doesn't work like that. I'll just have to go grad.

I don't know which is funnier, the fact that you took my suggestion seriously or the fact that the answer is AI.