ktsnake, I laughed for a moment on the Honorary Initiation thing!
After rereading it, Da I knew exactly what you ment!
Remember, there are those out there who do not understand the Difference!
We in LXA also have the same thing! Initiation of an advisor and someone who has shown and done special signifigacne for the Chapter! Above and beyond the Call Of Duty of the Guys at the Chapter!
I know the BGLOS ( no offense ment ) have a large amount of members who are initiated as Alum members. That maybe because of the low % of AM in the College system and the Number of Chapters available on any one campus! There a lot of factores.
I do know that the difference between Male/Female Greek Organizations do exist!
Becoming a member is not an easy thing whether on the Collegeit level or as an Alum!
Remember, it is well worth the time and energy spent being a memeber during and after if you want to put the time and effort into it!
Well for me, after have being a member for low these many years and am still involved tells everyone somethig! Ha and I am not alone!