A question for the Pretty Boys from a Pretty Girl.....

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by black_princess

2 Quick questions for u or any of the other guys that want to answer . . . .

1: so, in ur mind what is provocative dress? Since spring & summer's coming up, how do u decipher what is provacative and what is dressing for the weather, 'cause when it's hot I know I definately wear less.

2: I was once told buy a guy that women are immediatly put into categories when men meet them is that true ???

black_princess I should have been the last person to ask this question to, but you asked so here's my answers. What I consider provacative:

1. Showing too much cleavage
2. Mini skirts
3. Daisy Dukes
4. Anklets
5. Tight painted on jeans
6. Come screw me heals (I'll have to explain that)
7. Stilettos
8. A woman who has a big butt and knows it and tries to wear whatever to show it off.

9. Showing her stomach, period. In any way.

There's more, but I pretty much can see them coming a mile away.
I can't speak for all men, but for me, yes I do have categories I put women in. I have three categories.

1. Strictly a friend
2. A slut (someone I don't even want to be around at all)
3. A long term faithful (one man) girlfriend (a classy woman who doesn't have to show body parts to be beautiful)

[KAPPAtivating]

For me, I think too provocative is when your ta-ta's are almost out of the shirt. Also if your skirt is so short that when you sit down we see your underwear (or lack of)....same goes for jeans too! The first thing I notice about a woman is her smile. I get a visual of what pictures would be like if we took them together. I have categories as well and they go like this:

1. strictly a friend (who lets me know how to decipher a woman's language)
2. the "meet my family" girl
3. "wouldn't let you meet the family" girl
4. "she might be nasty" girl

[christiangirl]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

black_princess I should have been the last person to ask this question to, but you asked so here's my answers. What I consider provacative:
4. Anklets

What on earth is provacative about an anklet?

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by KAPPAtivating

For me, I think too provocative is when your ta-ta's are almost out of the shirt. Also if your skirt is so short that when you sit down we see your underwear (or lack of)....same goes for jeans too! The first thing I notice about a woman is her smile. I get a visual of what pictures would be like if we took them together. I have categories as well and they go like this:

1. strictly a friend (who lets me know how to decipher a woman's language)
2. the "meet my family" girl
3. "wouldn't let you meet the family" girl
4. "she might be nasty" girl

LOL. Great categories Nupe!

[ziasha07]

Originally Posted by christiangirl

What on earth is provacative about an anklet?

Seriously. That's what I'd like to know.

[PrettyBoy]

I just don't like ankle bracelets. What purpose do they serve? Everyone has their own opinion, but to me it looks rather ghetto.

I'm not saying women who wear them are trashy and ghetto, it just looks that way to me and women who wear them are put into the friend category.

[1908Revelations]

Originally Posted by christiangirl

What on earth is provacative about an anklet?

I think it is moreso a thing that was passed along of 'things to look out for' a long time ago, most people don't feel like that about ankle bracelets now, but this is an opinion based thing. I don't care for anklebraclets myself.

One of my really good friends (just friends) thinks like PB in a sense. It dosen't bother any of us, because that is a preference.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by 1908Revelations

I think it is moreso a thing that was passed along of 'things to look out for' a long time ago, most people don't feel like that about ankle bracelets now, but this is an opinion based thing. I don't care for anklebraclets myself.

One of my really good friends (just friends) thinks like PB in a sense. It dosen't bother any of us, because that is a preference.

If I brought a woman home to meet the parents and they saw the ankle bracelet, that would be bad news, but that's not why I don't like them. It just says something to me about the girl, that's all.

[ziasha07]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

If I brought a woman home to meet the parents and they saw the ankle bracelet, that would be bad news, but that's not why I don't like them. It just says something to me about the girl, that's all.

I can understand that. One day when I was around eleven or twelve, I asked my mother if I could get an ankle bracelet and she told me they were for older girls or grown up women or something along those lines.

I just didn't quite realize those thoughts were held. Love GC! You learn something new everyday!

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by ziasha07

I can understand that. One day when I was around eleven or twelve, I asked my mother if I could get an ankle bracelet and she told me they were for older girls or grown up women or something along those lines.

I just didn't quite realize those thoughts were held. Love GC! You learn something new everyday!

A lot of women like it. I hate it.

[1908Revelations]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

If I brought a woman home to meet the parents and they saw the ankle bracelet, that would be bad news, but that's not why I don't like them. It just says something to me about the girl, that's all.

WOuld it be safe to assume that a reason you don't like ankle braceltes is because you know how your parents feel, so it is in a way a part of your thinking as well? I am not knocking what you feel, because I won't wear certain jewelery if it is too big or draw too much attention.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by 1908Revelations

WOuld it be safe to assume that a reason you don't like ankle braceltes is because you know how your parents feel, so it is in a way a part of your thinking as well? I am not knocking what you feel, because I won't wear certain jewelery if it is too big or draw too much attention.

No, I didn't know my dad didn't like them until I told him how much I hated them. He laughed and said he didn't like them either. I'm not sure how my mom feels about them. I guess the women that wear them just are the total opposite of me, and I like more plain, nerdy women who are very pretty but don't need to wear anything loud or provacative to look beautiful. You can't always judge a book by it's cover, but sometimes outer appearance has a reflection on the inner beauty too.

[KAPPAtivating]

I like the "natural" look too. Along the lines of Gabrielle Union, Halle Berry, and Sania Lathan. They have that, "I look sexy in the morning" look to me! That's what turns me on. Tattoo placement is a big thing for me too! I once met this girl in a club and we went on the first date. Well, along the lines of conversation came tattoos! So she asked about mine and I told her where they are (two on each arm and one on my chest). Needless to say I asked where hers was. She takes off her jacket (she was wearing a backless shirt underneath) and her tattoo went from shoulder to shoulder and from the top of her back to the bottom! I was like !

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by KAPPAtivating

I like the "natural" look too. Along the lines of Gabrielle Union, Halle Berry, and Sania Lathan. They have that, "I look sexy in the morning" look to me! That's what turns me on. Tattoo placement is a big thing for me too! I once met this girl in a club and we went on the first date. Well, along the lines of conversation came tattoos! So she asked about mine and I told her where they are (two on each arm and one on my chest). Needless to say I asked where hers was. She takes off her jacket (she was wearing a backless shirt underneath) and her tattoo went from shoulder to shoulder and from the top of her back to the bottom! I was like !

LMAO at your reaction to the tattoo.

[KAPPAtivating]

Needless to say, that was the LAST date!