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Old 12-04-2003, 11:57 PM
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I would say that there are enough guys out there that could have sex with their female friends and not get overly attached that all of you should give it a try lol
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Old 12-05-2003, 02:27 AM
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I don't really like friend sex....I'd rather just be phuck buddies.





Friend sex just gets in the way too much.
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Old 12-05-2003, 02:53 AM
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http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html

No need to discuss.... just look here.
OH MY LORD! If you read all of that, you'd swear cashmoney wrote it
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Old 12-05-2003, 03:17 AM
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Dang! That does sound like something I would write.







-I'm loosing my touch.
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Old 12-05-2003, 03:37 AM
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Dude, he so hit it on the money. I've broken it down like that before, just not all at once. I think with all my past GC posts, I could make one educational site about women.
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Old 12-05-2003, 10:47 PM
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I saw the MTV Friends with Benefits show too... that girl was way too clingy-- the one from Baltimore moving to New York-- and the guy treated her like crap, but then again, it's her fault for going back to him over and over when he clearly doesn't care about her at all.

As for friends with benefits-- I say if it works for both of you and you've openly discussed your feelings and how important it is not to get attached, then it's fine. Personally, even when I've randomly hooked up with friends I feel awkward around them and it's never quite the same afterward-- but this has only happened with a few guys.
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Old 12-05-2003, 11:23 PM
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to quote from Felicity...

"friends can kiss right?"
"friends can have sex too"
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Old 12-25-2003, 01:38 PM
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I think so. I've had a few "friends with benefits" and it can be a good situation as long as everyone involved understands what it does and does not mean. If you go into it thinking that it's just a friends with benefits thing and the other person thinks okay, you're now boyfriend and girlfriend, it can get very, very messy. Trust me! That happened the first time I had sex with a friend, who I considered just a friend and not a boyfriend...and it took a long time to rebuild the friendship. Ever since I've made sure that we were BOTH clear on what the status of things were before the clothes came off and everything worked out fine.
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Old 12-25-2003, 05:08 PM
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Oh Santa, please bring me 4 or 5 Friends with Benefits for Christmas!

I wouldn't even have to date again I could just rotate them. In fact I would even promise to be loyal to only that group of 5 or so . . .

I've been sooo good Santa

James

PS. If you don't deliver I am going to post those pics of you and Mrs. Clauses's sister all over the internt . . .
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Old 12-26-2003, 03:19 AM
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http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html

No need to discuss.... just look here.
i've never seen this in a presentation format. usually, it's a discussion over breakfast, or a drunken group rant the night before.
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Old 12-26-2003, 03:38 AM
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The "Master Ladder" theory is sooooo true, and is exactly like the conversation I had with an ex the other night!
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