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05-16-2006, 08:31 PM
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Originally posted by kddani
Of course most adult women have hectic lives. But we as members of NPC orgs do have a right to ask the simple question of how much time our PNAI may have for the org, just as we would for undergrad PNMs who go through rush. It's a valid question.
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Yes, and if you were her sponsor or a member of the chapter that was rushing her, that would make sense. But otherwise it kind of comes across as harassing.
I just don't want GC to give her a negative experience of sorority women, alumna or collegiate.
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05-16-2006, 08:37 PM
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Originally posted by Drolefille
Yes, and if you were her sponsor or a member of the chapter that was rushing her, that would make sense. But otherwise it kind of comes across as harassing.
I just don't want GC to give her a negative experience of sorority women, alumna or collegiate.
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Asking someone if they have time for our organizations is harassing? By what definition?
We don't know what organization she is pursuing. It could be mine. I care about who joins my GLO. This is why a lot of people dislike this AI subforum... there's so much sunshine blowing. When someone asks a real question of a PNAI, they get chastised. A few other people have also discussed this particular thread and had similar thoughts as me, I just happened to be the first to post it.
I'm sure that someone as accomplished as the OP would know better than to have a negative view of sororities based on someone asking her a question on a message board.
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05-17-2006, 01:27 AM
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Originally posted by Drolefille
Yes, and if you were her sponsor or a member of the chapter that was rushing her, that would make sense. But otherwise it kind of comes across as harassing.
I just don't want GC to give her a negative experience of sorority women, alumna or collegiate.
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And if I was her sponsor, I WOULD be asking the question.........
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05-17-2006, 02:56 PM
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Originally posted by bichonl
LIFE HAPPENS: I missed meeting up with my sponsor because she had two emergency business trips. Last week, I mailed the form to her house because we both have no way of seeing each other due to hectic schedules.
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She didn't say that she was too busy to meet with her sponsor. She said that her sponsor had emergency business trips.
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05-17-2006, 04:34 PM
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Originally posted by MTSUGURL
She didn't say that she was too busy to meet with her sponsor. She said that her sponsor had emergency business trips.
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Oh, glad I wasnt the only one who saw that.
Steady down everyone!
Maybe she is enthusiactic for a reason and is joyful!
Be nice or dont post.
Have a nice day, everyone!
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05-17-2006, 04:36 PM
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I still read her post to say that she was also very busy and that was part of the reason why they couldn't meet up, but hey, everyone interprets things differently.
She requested that the thread be closed/taken down, Tom, so are you going to respect her wishes?
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05-18-2006, 08:52 AM
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Well, since You so deem it, I will make it so.
But, I am doing it as some seem so adament about how a person should try PNAIing.
It is their business how they are doing it and how they feel while doing AI.
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Last edited by Tom Earp; 05-18-2006 at 08:54 AM.
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