Roll Call!!!!

[DGqueen17]

Originally posted by FiReKraCkEr
Yeah, I do after spending a good fortune a month for upkeep Let's just say I love my hairdresser and she loves me!

Thanks!

Aww yeah I use to have pretty hair.....until my credit card got maxed out

I use to have a nice manicure all the time too. Damn I was stylin'

[GeekyPenguin]

Originally posted by sugar and spice
Hmm . . . carrying on a useless internet feud, or alcohol? What to choose, what to choose . . .

Pass me the Bacardi.



Coming right up.

Did I tell you about the nice Catholic boy I made out with a few weeks ago?

no tell me!

[sugar and spice]

Originally posted by James

The harem was formed, but for whatever reason a large number of people on GC now associate the Harem and Associates as a group that often makes mean posts and personal attacks.

So even the members of the harem that might do this the very least, are still painted with the same brush.

As I have pointed out at least five times in this thread:

The vast majority of the H&A have never ever ever been particularly mean on GC (under fake personalities or not). Not all of the fake personalities even belong to H&A girls. Yet people associate them with us because . . . ? It's fine if they want to do that -- I'm just pointing out that it's stupid because there is little connection. If you want to keep arguing with that logic, please take it to PM because I am sick of not letting this thread run its course.

And to make things clear, none of the fake personalities were created to make fun of hottytoddy nor do I remember more than one person ever making fun of her.

Bottom line: Complaints should be aimed at those who perpetuate the meanness, not those who are associated with them. I can count on one hand the number of times I've been mean to someone on GC (when it wasn't a case of defending myself), and none of that was related to the fake personalities/LJs/whatever jazz. All but a couple members of the H&A can say the same so please just stop bothering us about it and talk to the people you have the damn issues with.

On a happier note:

Originally posted by GeekyPenguin
no tell me!

Catholic boys = fun to make out with!

I will finish this story on AIM!

[FiReKraCkEr]

Originally posted by DGqueen17
Aww yeah I use to have pretty hair.....until my credit card got maxed out

I use to have a nice manicure all the time too. Damn I was stylin'

What pic were you looking at? OMG, not the dreadlocklooking hair one! lol

I actually hate having my nails done...I work in a brewery so it's sorta outta place.

I DO however always have a badass pedicure! I get those every two weeks!

[DGqueen17]

Originally posted by FiReKraCkEr
What pic were you looking at? OMG, not the dreadlocklooking hair one! lol

I actually hate having my nails done...I work in a brewery so it's sorta outta place.

I DO however always have a badass pedicure! I get those every two weeks!

I've never had a pedicure. I think my feet are too nasty for anyone to touch

[FiReKraCkEr]

Originally posted by DGqueen17
I've never had a pedicure. I think my feet are too nasty for anyone to touch

You could always give yourself one! At Wally-world they have self-pedicure kits!

[PM_Mama00]

Originally posted by James
Sugar & Spice I had to really wrack my brains to think of what you meant when you were talking about me referencing a GC'er that was called "ugly". But I remembered I quoted ZTAngel . . . .

If I remember correctly . . . are we talking when a bunch of people insulted Hottytoddy and those new and fake user names seemed to be invented just to be hostile to her?

Ok, for one, I'm stepping into unknown territory, but why would someone make fun of her? She's a beautiful girl! And she's my sister, and it's my duty to stick up for a sister.

Which brings me to a second topic. Look at the sisterhood that some of you are displaying. Wow. I thought one of the perks of joining Nationals was because we could have sisters throughout the country. Now look.... why are some sisters feeling bullied by their own kind?

I like people in the Harem or whatever, in the Death Squad, and in the new "drama free" EE............. so none of you take this perosnally. Well, I'll try not to make it personal.

Do you know what yall look like? A bunch of junior high students. We're all in the age range of 18 and up, so why are you guys starting these pathetic online fights? Yeah I'm being a hypocrite because there is one certain GCer that I feel bad that I was shitty to after reading all this. Don't any of you feel bad?

Pimping out Blain or whatever the hell is goin on... damn that's personal business. Why would you air someone's else's business? And starting this whole EE thing just caused even more drama. All ya'll who are fighting are both in the wrong. Maybe I am too. But seriously, everyone involved in the "cliqueyness" are totally ruining it for all the innocent people on GC. I feel bad cuz I tried to ruin someone's GC experience. Don't any of you? (sorry there is one person I don't feel bad for)

Please please please I'm begging. Someone delete this thread, and all the other ones that have totally turned into cattyness and STUPID FIGHTING. Keep your personal shit with your own personal business with each other. Let's get back to the greekchat.com that John created... a way for college students to discuss their Greek Life, current events.... and yeah some fun. But let's stop the 2 year old fighting. Please! Yes we wana have fun but keep the personal attacks in PMs or Livejournal or IMs or whatever else. Let teh innocent people return to having fun. May I suggest this http://greekchat.com/gcforums/showth...threadid=24333 for your viewing pleasure?

[sugar and spice]

[KSig RC]

LOOOOOOOOOVE IS A SPLENDID THIIIIIIIIIIIING . . . BLAAAAAAAAIN ISN'T REALLY GETTING PIMPED . . . IIIIIIIIII LOVE IRONYYYYYYYYY . . . THIS THREAD sucks?

Originally posted by PM_Mama00
Ok, for one, I'm stepping into unknown territory, but why would someone make fun of her? She's a beautiful girl! And she's my sister, and it's my duty to stick up for a sister.

Which brings me to a second topic. Look at the sisterhood that some of you are displaying. Wow. I thought one of the perks of joining Nationals was because we could have sisters throughout the country. Now look.... why are some sisters feeling bullied by their own kind?

I like people in the Harem or whatever, in the Death Squad, and in the new "drama free" EE............. so none of you take this perosnally. Well, I'll try not to make it personal.

Do you know what yall look like? A bunch of junior high students. We're all in the age range of 18 and up, so why are you guys starting these pathetic online fights? Yeah I'm being a hypocrite because there is one certain GCer that I feel bad that I was shitty to after reading all this. Don't any of you feel bad?

Pimping out Blain or whatever the hell is goin on... damn that's personal business. Why would you air someone's else's business? And starting this whole EE thing just caused even more drama. All ya'll who are fighting are both in the wrong. Maybe I am too. But seriously, everyone involved in the "cliqueyness" are totally ruining it for all the innocent people on GC. I feel bad cuz I tried to ruin someone's GC experience. Don't any of you? (sorry there is one person I don't feel bad for)

Please please please I'm begging. Someone delete this thread, and all the other ones that have totally turned into cattyness and STUPID FIGHTING. Keep your personal shit with your own personal business with each other. Let's get back to the greekchat.com that John created... a way for college students to discuss their Greek Life, current events.... and yeah some fun. But let's stop the 2 year old fighting. Please! Yes we wana have fun but keep the personal attacks in PMs or Livejournal or IMs or whatever else. Let teh innocent people return to having fun. May I suggest this http://greekchat.com/gcforums/showth...threadid=24333 for your viewing pleasure?

[valkyrie]

Originally posted by sugar and spice

I just wanted to see that again. It's my favorite.

[FiReKraCkEr]

PM Mama, there is no "fighting" going on. We are having an adult disagreement. So chill, you know I have mad love for ya!

and Rob, how about we pimp YOU out? hmmm, that sounds like a new song "I wanna pimp you out, baby".... lol

[sugar and spice]

We already agreed that we're not pimping Rob out because we won't share him.

[FiReKraCkEr]

Originally posted by sugar and spice
We already agreed that we're not pimping Rob out because we won't share him.

But we could just pimp all at the same time!

[sugar and spice]

ROB IS MINE. MINE DAMMIT.

And Jules'.
And Kiki's.
And Blaine's.

Awww man . . .

& why in the world is this thread not locked yet?

[JennRN]

Originally posted by navane
Let me set the stage for you. I'm just an Average Jane poster here at GC. I have 700+ posts; I'm not exactly "quiet". Nonetheless, I can't remember a time when I have been controversial or anything like that. As I don't recall ever being mean to anybody, I don't consider myself to be a hypocrite.

As I mentioned before, I don't know what these cliques are about. I have no idea who all is in the Harem, what the letters H&A stand for or what "the way of the cougar" is referencing. What I have seen is certain people (who I will not name) taking the liberty to be intentionally unkind to others. At the same time, others will join in on the mean-spirited commentary and "inside joking" apparently egged on by what definitely appears to me to be a clique.

At least, that's how it looks to Average Jane me.

Sadly, I am now beginning to think poorly of those posters as people. They're people I don't really want to talk to on GC. I just feel like they're not very nice and, if I tried to join in on a conversation, I'd probably get ignored or pushed around because I'm not in their "cool group".

Is it just me who notices this? Clearly not.

I guess these people don't realize how bad they look to others. Maybe they don't care. Normally I would just try and ignore them, but it's kind of hard to when these people are barging in on threads and starting stuff seemingly at random.

I'm not going to call anyone out. I just want people to seriously set their pride aside for a few seconds and actually consider their behaviour in recent times. Have you made a "joke" about someone lately which you knew deep down was meant to mock them in public? Have you intentionally disrupted threads just because you wanted to frustrate someone you don't like? Have you defended your friends' behaviour even though maybe they had crossed the line?

I echo the other people who have posted asking the members of the GC community to be wiser about their postings. We don't have to like everyone on here, but skewering people a la junior high school just isn't cool.

Thank you for letting me share.

Respectfully,

.....Kelly

I agree 100% (except for the part about 700 posts-I don't have that many )