Cutting or pledging a group for dumb reasons

[carnation]

bump for recruitment season! PNMs, don't do the dumb stuff that we did!

[DubaiSis]

I think I GOT cut from a house because I told the girl my Gucci bag was fake. (It was) I of course will never know the truth, but it did end up making a decision between 2 houses that was going to be tough very easy. So shallowness paid off for me!

[jolene]

Originally Posted by DubaiSis

I think I GOT cut from a house because I told the girl my Gucci bag was fake. (It was) I of course will never know the truth, but it did end up making a decision between 2 houses that was going to be tough very easy. So shallowness paid off for me!

That makes me think of Jen Lancaster's book "Pretty In Plaid." She talks about getting cut from a house because of her purse and wore a jean jacket. lol

[carnation]

But the noble Pi Phis didn't care and we pledged her!

[MUSK81]

I ended up pledging Sigma Kappa even though I hate snakes (we've since changed our symbol to the heart and dove), preferred three letters and didn't care for lavender and maroon together (love them separately!)

[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by MUSK81

I ended up pledging Sigma Kappa even though I hate snakes (we've since changed our symbol to the heart and dove), preferred three letters and didn't care for lavender and maroon together (love them separately!)

I actually didn't think the snake was a "symbol" the same way the heart and dove are. Obviously it's important to us and I love that some chapters still use it. But then, i love snakes

[aephi alum]

Originally Posted by Drolefille

I actually didn't think the snake was a "symbol" the same way the heart and dove are. Obviously it's important to us and I love that some chapters still use it. But then, i love snakes

Isn't there a snake on your new member pin?

[violetpretty]

Originally Posted by aephi alum

Isn't there a snake on your new member pin?

Yeah, its a K with a snake entwined in the shape of a sigma. It's just not an official mascot. I don't recall hearing anything that it ever was. Some chapters consider it their mascot over the dove, but Nationally speaking, our mascot is the dove.

[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by violetpretty

Yeah, its a K with a snake entwined in the shape of a sigma. It's just not an official mascot. I don't recall hearing anything that it ever was. Some chapters consider it their mascot over the dove, but Nationally speaking, our mascot is the dove.

What she said.

[FSUZeta]

I dropped a house due to their ice breaker activity. First off, they were the only chapter out of the 18 to have an ice breaker, so I thought it was very odd. We PNMs were each handed an oddly shaped piece of felt as we entered their foyer and were then escorted by our hostess into the dining room. We talked for a while and then the president called the room to attention and gave a short speech. She then invited us, one by one, to stand up, introduce ourselves, and come up to the front and place our puzzle piece ( the weirdly shaped piece of felt) on a big board. I understand now that the purpose was to illustrate how we could all fit together in that sorority, but at the time all I could think about was how uncomfortable I was feeling and how I did not want to participate. I told my hostess that I would rather not participate and she told me that I had no choice. Well, I did participate but I did not accept their invitation to the next round. I was not the only one who felt that way. This activity bombed for that chapter. Not a good idea to make PNMs part of your entertainment.

[carnation]

Forced rushee activities? Wow, what a terrible way for them to attract new members!

At MS State, I remember that one sorority got dinged by almost everyone the first day because they decided to call each other Sister Brown, Sister Jones, etc. We got word of this up in the office about halfway through open house parties and called to warn them. They assured us that they were creating an atmosphere of sisterhood and they'd be okay.

They weren't okay the next day.

[FSUZeta]

Originally Posted by carnation

Forced rushee activities? Wow, what a terrible way for them to attract new members!

At MS State, I remember that one sorority got dinged by almost everyone the first day because they decided to call each other Sister Brown, Sister Jones, etc. We got word of this up in the office about halfway through open house parties and called to warn them. They assured us that they were creating an atmosphere of sisterhood and they'd be okay.

They weren't okay the next day.

Lol!

[FSUZeta]

At another house my hostess was a very sporty girl whose name was Billie Jean, so I made a bad joke that she must enjoy tennis (Billie Jean King had defeated Bobby Riggs a few years before). I look back now and shudder at my opening statement, but it actually was the right thing to say to her. She was majoring in PE, had played on several sports teams in HS, and played on all her sorority's intramural teams. Now I love sports, but am not a fanatic and this girl was. She already had me on the flag football team and it was the ice water round! I realize now that she was just trying to make me feel at home and was trying to show me how I might fit in there, but she took it a little far, so I did not accept the invitation to the next round.

[FSUZeta]

At a different house my hostess was very shy and not much of a conversationalist-at all. I ended up taking the lead and just as I was getting her engaged in the conversation someone rang a bell and all the sisters switched. This happened over and over. The conversations would reach a sort of rhythm, that bell would ring, and the sisters would switch. It was the most awkward rotation idea I have ever experienced and it definitely did not work well for them. I dropped them because of it.

[FSUZeta]

I did not accept a 2nd round invitation to my cousin's sorority(she had graduated the year before) because the room echoed. All the PNMs were escorted into a tiled floor,solarium type room that was empty. Each PNM talked exclusively to her hostess-I don't remember any rotation. It was so LOUD! The acoustics were terrible and I couldn't hear myself, much less my hostess, talking.