Please Help Me

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by 2GQ4U

good with the girls. I thought they were just like me, and I would fit in good with them.

See, this is your problem, as it is with some members of the fraternity and many other potential members. I understand that each D9 BGLO has a stereotype, but it's all for fun and laughs. When you begin to act on the stereotype, is what I have issues with. The women/girls that you're referring to are groupies, in other words hoes. Men who join fraternities to get/sleep with women are insecure hoes with low self esteem. So, if this is your reason for joining, what do you think that makes you?

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by 2GQ4U

And to reply to your whole post Prettyboy, I do not want to become a Kappa to get girls lol... I get girls now, why would i go through the whole intake process if my only goal was to get where I already am?

I know what's on your mind, and you don't convince me. The fact that you've made the word "girl" plural and not singular ends my chatting session with you.

Good luck in school.

[1908Revelations]

Originally Posted by tld221

i have to get in before the (potential) lock. i really do.

I KNOW!

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

^^^ Why aspirants will keep ignoring the stickies at the top of every BGLO forum. You know good and well there was nothing "serious" about his inquiry.

Bkuz dey wanna majer in stoopidology.


Oh BTW....HEY PB!!

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by 1908Revelations

Oh BTW....HEY PB!!

Hey there lady. How ya been?

[1908Revelations]

Originally Posted by 2GQ4U

I really hope you're majoring in spelling and grammar, because you're whole post looks like it was written by a 4 year old.

It was a joke....just like you are!!! You must really have some screws loose if the only 'typo' you saw in my post was 'majer'. Oh well....LMAO

[1908Revelations]

Originally Posted by 2GQ4U

Thats not the only typo I saw, but I was going to give you the benefit of the doubt about "stoopidology", the other words were basic computer slang, not really grammatical errors. But again with the elementary comebacks "it was a joke... just like you are" COME ON you gotta do better than that... If you're really tryna make this thing personal, we can take it there... I've been trying to keep all of my posts civilized, but you're really trying to get crazy OVER THE INTERNET lol... People like you are really funny

"Get crazy".....no....I am not. I was simply responding to the poster who stated that WE (NPHC) DO NOT tell intake information over the internet. That. Is. All.

If that is what you call 'get[ting] crazy' then your skin isn't thick enough.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by 2GQ4U

Thats not the only typo I saw, but I was going to give you the benefit of the doubt about "stoopidology", the other words were basic computer slang, not really grammatical errors. But again with the elementary comebacks "it was a joke... just like you are" COME ON you gotta do better than that... If you're really tryna make this thing personal, we can take it there... I've been trying to keep all of my posts civilized, but you're really trying to get crazy OVER THE INTERNET lol... People like you are really funny

It's great that you realized the difference between "you're" and "your" in this post. You rock.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by 2GQ4U

I don't understand what you're talking about... but ok

We don't believe in pimping women around here.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by 2GQ4U

I've had the same girlfriend for the past 2 years, so pimpin isn't really me...

Good. When you said you get "girls," that's plural, so PrettyBoy thought you meant you were some kinda pimp.

Originally Posted by 2GQ4U

Anyway I'm tired of defending myself on here...

You could've let the thread die as it was doing and/or followed the Kappa's instructions and PM'd him.

[AKA_Monet]

Originally Posted by 2GQ4U

I feel like y'all are trying to turn me away from it. So you crossed, congratulations. Does that make you better than somebody? Shouldn't you be encouraging someone aspiring to take the same journey you did to go through with it so that you could end up working together for the same cause? Maybe i'm wrong, but that's what I understood the meaning of Fraternity to be; an organization of men working together towards a common cause.

First some effective communications lessons: DO NOT "SHOULD" ON ME--it causes you to sound/be read as aggressive...

Secondly, since some organizations already have surpassed their centennials and others are preparing to celebrate theirs, what convincing does ANYONE have to do to obtain members given our respective histories over a century...

Maybe schooling as to how to become a member as allowed by the International Headquarters as agreed may be needed and everyone in the D9 is interested in that possibility--i.e. "Meet the Greeks". But you have to understand that our lawyers restrict how we want to display our information.

Just as much as one can become a member of these kinds of organization, it is easier for expulsion these days. And folks just cannot afford higher dues and/or risk their gemstones for stupidity.

I have the contact information of a wonderful Kappa man who would love to tell you everything you might want to know!!!

Good luck on your endeavors.

[DSTCHAOS]

If that "pushed" you then you don't have enough patience to do a lot in life, not to mention pursue a fraternity.

[1908Revelations]

Originally Posted by 2GQ4U

Yes, what you did was GET CRAZY... If you would have just done what you just said, "simply respond to me by saying that YOU (NPHC) DO NOT tell intake information over the internet," we would not have problems right now... But you decided to be a b!@c# and give smart replies. Whats the problem? Your boyfriend not treating you right? Oh no thats it, you dont have a boyfriend, so talking crazy to random people over the internet gets you wet. For real, if you're not getting enough good sex, send me a PM with you're name, number, and a pic, I got what you need... hahaha

LMAO.....Oh...I am going to cry because I am looking for advice over the internet. Boo hoo.

Originally Posted by PerfectVerse06

I guess this is what you meant by keeping things 'civilized'.

Right Soror....right.

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

If that "pushed" you then you don't have enough patience to do a lot in life, not to mention pursue a fraternity.

Takes a bow to Chaos.

Some people are......extra.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by 1908Revelations

Takes a bow to Chaos.

Some people are......extra.

If he wanted to be extra for the sake of entertainment, that's his business. Happens everyday.

But to claim that he actually felt moved any particular way is simple.

[PrettyBoy]

Damn. A joker leaves town for the holiday weekend and comes back to this mess.

[1908Revelations]

Soror Little.....you are a mess.LOL