The wonderful thing you can do for your sister is to allow her to make her own choice - or at least tell her that - what you feel deep in your heart and at the pit of your stomach may be something else!
Then, be there for her each night when she calls with updates, listen to her, encourage her, etc. I know that as you both go through it together, you will be fine with whatever her choice is because you will have watched her go through the process and will be able to understand her choices.
That said, whether you are on the sidelines while a bio sister goes through or a daughter, it is an extremely emotional process because you love sorority and you love your sister/daughter. It just makes sense that you want them to love each other!
Hey ladies! I hope you have been doing well. My DZ daughter Kristen is still loving sorority life at Bama and doing quite well in school. She has been dating an incredible young man from Birmingham (Lambda Chi Alpha) since her freshman year. My youngest daughter is applying to the University of Texas, Indiana University, University of Alabama, and The Ohio State University as she starts her senior year this Fall. Just thought I would stop in and say "hello". You ladies are the best! - BamaDad DZ
So glad to hear from you again, BamaDad! Best of luck with your younger daughter. My eldest is off to Texas State - but won't be going through formal recruitment. I've got my fingers crossed for informal, though.
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But also, what everyone has said here is really great advice! Be there for her during recruitment and be happy no matter which chapter she ends up in!
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