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05-25-2006, 01:18 PM
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When a boy sends you a note, and it says "Do you love me? Check yes or no" and then it has the two little boxes with "yes" and "no" written next to them, and you check the "yes" box.
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05-25-2006, 01:47 PM
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Originally posted by ShaedyKD
When a boy sends you a note, and it says "Do you love me? Check yes or no" and then it has the two little boxes with "yes" and "no" written next to them, and you check the "yes" box.
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that is the most correct answer
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05-25-2006, 04:02 PM
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Originally posted by valkyrie
This is spot-on. You just know and don't have to ask -- at least that's how I've experienced it. Like they say in Taoism, "the name that can be named is not the eternal name." It just is. It doesn't matter what you do for a living or how old or serious you are. Those things speak to different issues -- they don't tell you whether you are IN love, but they tell you how you will react to love when you have it, or what you will accept as "love" if you don't.
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This thread is too dayum sappy, but this is how I look at love too. You just know.
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05-25-2006, 05:00 PM
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Hmmm, I don't really look at love quite the same way. I guess I measure it more by my reactions to the person/relationship, rather than an inherent knowledge/feeling. When I'm in love with someone then I'm constantly concerned for their well-being (I pray for them and worry for their safety, etc). I never want to be someplace other than with them. I am saddened by the thought of not being with them. I can't imagine that I'd be happier in a relationship with someone else, and the appeal of dating another man fades to zippo. Being with them feels natural. They are my best friend (next to God and mommy). I have a feeling of respect and admiration for them. I just feel like we match one another. I guess for me, after I realize all of these things, then it occurs to me that I love the person; then I feel like I could marry that person and not want to shot myself in the foot in 6 mos.
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05-25-2006, 05:49 PM
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Originally posted by mulattogyrl
This thread is too dayum sappy, but this is how I look at love too. You just know.
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I pointed at gun at my girlfriends head and asked her if she loved me. She said yes, but for some reason she sounded a little nervous.
Meh
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05-25-2006, 07:08 PM
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I pointed at gun at my girlfriends head and asked her if she loved me. She said yes, but for some reason she sounded a little nervous.
Meh
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Tell her to listen to M.O.P. Ante Up. She'll get some backbone in her and won't be afraid anymore.
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05-25-2006, 07:42 PM
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Originally posted by mulattogyrl
Tell her to listen to M.O.P. Ante Up. She'll get some backbone in her and won't be afraid anymore.
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Ok sweet. Let me inflate her back up and we'll listen to that song.
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05-25-2006, 08:26 PM
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Ok sweet. Let me inflate her back up and we'll listen to that song.
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dammit LOL
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05-26-2006, 12:25 AM
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Everyone's got a different idea of what being 'in love' is. You have to figure out how YOU define it before you can know if you're in it or not.
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05-26-2006, 12:05 PM
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Originally posted by christiangirl
Everyone's got a different idea of what being 'in love' is. You have to figure out how YOU define it before you can know if you're in it or not.
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Thanks, Platitude Police!
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05-26-2006, 12:24 PM
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Thanks, Platitude Police!
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LMAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAO
Dammit I hate GC sometimes!
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05-26-2006, 03:32 PM
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Just because I had to look up what platitude meant before I responded, it doesn't mean I'm any less insulted!!!!!!!!!!
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05-26-2006, 03:53 PM
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Just because I had to look up what platitude meant before I responded, it doesn't mean I'm any less insulted!!!!!!!!!!
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A++ post of the day.
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05-26-2006, 06:40 PM
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I also thnk it can depend on the person you are in love with. I was in love with my college boyfriend and I'd describe it as the always smiling when you think of him, caring for his well-being, making me happy kind of love. But he was really laid back and a totally different personality than my husband.
As I've gotten older and lived with and am now married to my husband, a lot more issues come up that are more serious than college and it's not the same for me. Sometimes he drives me nuts and definitely doesn't make me smile!  But I always feel I would be happier arguing with him then never being with him at all. I always tell him he knows I must love him because I wouldn't put up with him if I didn't!
Plus, here's a good one my girlfriends and I laugh about - you know you're in love when you can pass gas in front of them!!!  
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05-26-2006, 09:12 PM
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Originally posted by xo_kathy
Plus, here's a good one my girlfriends and I laugh about - you know you're in love when you can pass gas in front of them!!!
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Okay in all seriousness, I want to ask about this. Do most people do this? Or even use the, um, bathroom facilities in front of each other?
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