badge attire - Page 2

OleMissGlitter · #1 05-12-2006, 04:40 PM

I work on a college campus but those of us who are Greek, we don't wear our badges. We do wear them to Panhellenic Advisor Meetings and luncheons and on NPC badge day you'll see some alumnae wearing their badges. I sometimes wear an AOII ring I have or a necklace I have. You can have a ring made through headquarters' Emporium that will hold your badge and make it into a ring, that might be okay. I would just worry about it falling it off or getting scratched up too much.

33girl · #2 05-12-2006, 04:40 PM

Should you wear it every day? No. Once in a while, why not?

None of the negative stereotypes will change if we keep being so chickensh!t about what might be going through other people's heads. Maybe if more people were proud of their affiliation as alums, we could go toward having mandatory alum requirements.

And before anyone asks, no, I don't wear my pin to work, because 1) I don't believe the business casual clothes I wear are appropriate pin attire 2) when I do wear what would be considered pin attire, it's at a function where alcohol is served and I don't wear my pin then. I do, however, usually wear my college ring, which has my letters on it. I've yet to hear of anyone having a problem with it.

adpiucf · #3 05-12-2006, 04:50 PM

It's not that anyone is going to express a verbal problem. I'd rather not be the butt of their water cooler jokes or get passed off for an assignment or promotion because someone gets the wrong impression of me. I think anyone should do what works for them. If wearing your badge to work makes you happy, go for it. I just wouldn't do it.

It's not about being chickensh!t. It simply isn't important enough to me to be the martyr to change public perception about Greek Organizations by wearing my pin to a business function. I'm not hiding the fact that I am a member of a GLO. But I'm not broadcasting it either-- the same as I'm not going to broadcast my sexual orientation or political affiliation in a business setting.

If you work around students, then I can see where it would be a good thing to show off your letters now and then, as with OleMissGlitter.

DSTRen13 · #4 05-12-2006, 04:59 PM

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Originally posted by thindy86
Hey! I have a question, may be a bit dumb, but I was just wondering.

Once out in the professional world, many companies require what we called "badge attire". Is it acceptable, then, to wear your badge everyday? Or is that overkill?

What do you think?

Personally, I would think it was weird, but not because you're representing your org at work - I just think it's weird to be wearing an official pin outside of a fraternity/sorority context. That's just what I personally am used to. So it would raise my eyebrow. (I know that my Phi Kapp fiance is supposed to wear his pin whenever he gets dressed up - but the only time he ever really gets dressed up that I see him, he's usually doing some kind of fraternity thing. I don't know what he'll do when he graduates - I doubt he's thought about it.)

33girl · #5 05-12-2006, 05:02 PM

Unless you have 8 kabillion dangles on it, for a lot of people, you can't even tell what the pin IS unless you get up close to it - and considering where pins are worn, you have a definite sexual harassment suit going on if that happens.

I don't think being a member of a GLO compares to either sexual orientation or political affiliation - since you can be of any political party and any sexual orientation, and still be in a GLO. It's apples and oranges.

Back to the NPHC members: pretty much every day, I see women toting their AKA/DST/ZPhiB/SGRho bags, or with stickers on their cars - and I mean women who haven't been in college for a while. This city being what it is, I'm guessing some of them work in offices that are mainly white and full of people who have no clue about graduate membership or anything like that and think that all fraternities and sororities are pretty much the same. But guess what? They're proud enough of their affiliation that they aren't going to hide it for fear of what some closed-minded person might think. And like I said, until the NPC and NIC groups start behaving like that, we're going to have the same problem with everyone thinking "being Greek is only a college thing."

ilikehazing · #6 05-12-2006, 05:02 PM

Do you live in the South?

I'd advise it then. I know my dad wears his pin alot of days, and most of his co-workers do as well.

DSTRen13 · #7 05-12-2006, 05:07 PM

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Originally posted by 33girl
Back to the NPHC members: pretty much every day, I see women toting their AKA/DST/ZPhiB/SGRho bags, or with stickers on their cars - and I mean women who haven't been in college for a while. This city being what it is, I'm guessing some of them work in offices that are mainly white and full of people who have no clue about graduate membership or anything like that and think that all fraternities and sororities are pretty much the same. But guess what? They're proud enough of their affiliation that they aren't going to hide it for fear of what some closed-minded person might think.

Definitely plan to sport my 'nalia to work (once I have a job ...). I mean, nice stuff is nice stuff, and if it happens to have my letters on it, well, that just makes it even nicer

rhochi2002 · #8 05-12-2006, 05:11 PM

I could never put my badge in a box and not wear it except to events. I have it on a ring so I can wear it when dressed up, and it stays on fine.
I have my sorority listed on my resume with all the leadership positions that i have held. Would you all consider that the same context? I woldn't.

Tom Earp · #9 05-12-2006, 05:15 PM

While I am still trying to formulate all of this in My Minds Eye.

Why would You no matter what GLO want to wear Your Badge Daily?

Maybe a Ring, or Lavalier, but not Your Badge.

Letters in a fashionable way is fine, but in the Proffesional world is a huge difference.

Say for instance that You belong to The Mule Society of America, do You wear Your Ass on Your Chest at work?

adpiucf · #10 05-12-2006, 05:23 PM

There's a big difference between NPHC alumnae/alumni involvement and expectations and NPC/NIC-- when NPC women go alum, it's "thanks for joining, have a nice life and come back and see us sometime." NPHC has a much more active alumni component, and I wouldn't bat an eyelash at someone toting around an AKA bag, decorating her desk with elephants, etc. If NPC passed a unanimous resolution demanding that alumnae matain a minimium level of post-college involvement to retain their membership status, it would be very different.

Is my office covered in lions and violets? Heck no. This doesn't mean I don't support my organization. But there's a time and a place, and it's not at work.

33, you're right. Politics and GLOs aren't apples to apples. I mis-spoke when I made that reference.

DSTCHAOS · #11 05-12-2006, 05:23 PM

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Originally posted by DSTRen13
Personally, I would think it was weird, but not because you're representing your org at work - I just think it's weird to be wearing an official pin outside of a fraternity/sorority context. That's just what I personally am used to. So it would raise my eyebrow. (I know that my Phi Kapp fiance is supposed to wear his pin whenever he gets dressed up - but the only time he ever really gets dressed up that I see him, he's usually doing some kind of fraternity thing. I don't know what he'll do when he graduates - I doubt he's thought about it.)

Right. We don't wear the official pin like that.

I don't think anything's wrong with wearing unofficial pins. This partially depends on the culture of the work environment.

I agree with a lot of what 33girl was saying. It isn't unusual for me to see post-graduate BGLO members wearing unofficial pins or other organizational symbols when they are at work or at church. These are people who have been out of undergrad for 8 years or 60 years.

DGMarie · #12 05-12-2006, 05:32 PM

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Originally posted by thindy86
Hey! I have a question, may be a bit dumb, but I was just wondering.

Once out in the professional world, many companies require what we called "badge attire". Is it acceptable, then, to wear your badge everyday? Or is that overkill?

What do you think?

Overkill. Definately.

Wait and see when you are in the office. Come back and post your impressions and if you wore it daily or not. I would hazard no. Offices tend to not be places where you express your outside affiliations. Even at alumnae meeting you'll find 99% of the people don't wear their pins. It's just different.

AGDLynn · #13 05-12-2006, 05:43 PM

I don't wear by Badge everyday because it's the one with all pearls. Others might think that I'm trying to be a snob

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I do wear my Squirrel neckace almost everyday (very few people have even commented on it.)

I did wear my Badge as a ring for a while but I was afraid that one of the pearls, esp. the center one, would get knocked off. When youve had it 3 decades, you''re careful, lol.

I do have a plain Badge (no pearls). The A stands out. I haven't worn it alot because I don't go to that many places where I would want too, lol.

Even if I don't wear by Badge or squirrel necklace, I definitely mention that I'm an Alpha Gamma Delta whenever I can and often!!

DSTCHAOS · #14 05-12-2006, 05:45 PM

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Originally posted by AGDLynn
I don't wear by Badge everyday because it's the one with all pearls. Others might think that I'm trying to be a snob .

I do wear my Squirrel neckace almost everyday (very few people have even commented on it.)

I did wear my Badge as a ring for a while but I was afraid that one of the pearls, esp. the center one, would get knocked off. When youve had it 3 decades, you''re careful, lol.

I do have a plain Badge (no pearls). The A stands out. I haven't worn it alot because I don't go to that many places where I would want too, lol.

Even if I don't wear by Badge or squirrel necklace, I definitely mention that I'm an Alpha Gamma Delta whenever I can and often!!

This post made me smile.

rhochi2002 · #15 05-12-2006, 05:57 PM

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Originally posted by DSTCHAOS
This post made me smile.

Me too.
I have a rose ring I wear from time to time.... and a green and white bracelet that I wear some times also. In my old office I had some white roses that my boss gave me for christmas. She did not know it was Kappa Delta's flower so it had double significance.