Recipe to a Happy Marriage

[CrimsonTide4]

Originally posted by SKEEphistAKAte
LOL, I'm for real Pham. I wouldn't have it any other way. Just like the pre-nup I would demand, this arrangement would be non-negotiable.

I am definitely getting a pre-nup. No ifs, ands, or buts about it.

[AKA2D '91]

Originally posted by Rain Man
A pre-nup?

Just a rhetorical question for you: How can a woman say to a man (or vice versa), "I love you", when you are hedging your bets? Isn't pre-nups by design the antithesis of love?

That is one thing I have never understood....

We have a thread regarding pre-nups.

[Rain Man]

Originally posted by AKA2D '91
We have a thread regarding pre-nups.

^^^Hence the question being rhetorical. Just food for thought since Skee brought it up.

Carry on...

[teena]

Originally posted by SKEEphistAKAte
Thanks for your blessing

You're welcome. Anytime I can help let me know.

[SKEEphistAKAte]

Originally posted by teena
Anytime I can help let me know.

YOU help me? Laughable.

[teena]

Originally posted by SKEEphistAKAte
YOU help me? Laughable.

You can carry on with little back and forths about nothing by yourself now. You win.

[nachural]

passion
love
intimacy
honesty
appreciation
laughter
committment
respect
selflessness
understanding

dont have time to figure out the ratios so be generous

[Obsession8]

Originally posted by SKEEphistAKAte
1 Ingredient:

One Gallon of live in separate residences

BAWAHAHAHA!!!

Hi-five on that one, soror! I'm the type of person that *THRIVES* on time spent alone. I'd be like, "Dayum, negro! Don't you have somewhere *ELSE* to be?!"

I can't stand to have people all up under me and in my face 24/7/365...friends, family, SOs...you name it.

[Gods Ivy]

Originally posted by nachural
passion
love
intimacy
honesty
appreciation
laughter
committment
respect
selflessness
understanding

dont have time to figure out the ratios so be generous

I heard that.

[Gods Ivy]

Originally posted by AKA2D '91
We have a thread regarding pre-nups.

Pre-nups??? We are trying saves marriages not break them up

[Bajan_Delta]

I'm for pre-nups if the parties are coming in with their own stuff, meaning already established. However for me and my fiance, we got where we are right now because of help from each other. Every thing we own the other person owns half. It would have been harder to get my degrees without his support and he's getting his degree now with my support. Since we've been together all of our adult lives, I wouldn't think to ask for a prenup.

But on the space thing I'm all for that. Some weekends I'm like, " you not doing anything with the boys???" Go some where, PUHLEASE!!!

Originally posted by CrimsonTide4
I am definitely getting a pre-nup. No ifs, ands, or buts about it.

[SKEEphistAKAte]

2 Quarts of Keep Your Family/Friends Out of Our Business

[Gods Ivy]

Originally posted by SKEEphistAKAte
2 Quarts of Keep Your Family/Friends Out of Our Business

AMEN I forgot about that one and learned that the hard way.

[DSTinguished1]

This may be a dumb question...but how do pre-nups really work?

Other than the couples not having to pay alimony and being able to keep their stuff after they split.

How does this work with things purchased together?

I'm kind of ignorant on this topic. My parents split, did not have a pre-nup but my Dad seemed to have gotten the better bargain after the divorce. Mom made significantly less than he did and all he was required was to pay child support.

In cases like this, I would not know if a pre-nup would have been a good or bad thing.

[lil_sunshine]

Originally posted by SKEEphistAKAte
2 Quarts of Keep Your Family/Friends Out of Our Business

Make that 2 GALLONS!!! 'Cuz you know fam and "friends" will always wanna be all up in yo' bidnezz when it hits the fan.