I use to be laaaayyyyyzzzzzziiieeeee as all get up in doing my chores--before marriage...
Caused HUGE arguments between my husband and I when we first started living together after we were married.
Then he got me into a routine of doing certain chores: i.e. I vacuum the upstairs and he vacuums the downstairs every weekend--because if I don't do my part he hacks all over the place due to his allergies... And I HAYTE--I MEAN DESPISE HIS SNORTING!!! I know he cain't hep it, but DAYUM, just to minimize the noise is well worth the effort...
As far as washing dishes, it kinna an unwritten rule, who ever cooks, doesn't clean. Besides, when he's really pooped out from work, I give him a break and wash the dishes. 1) He has a "dance routine sacred ritual" that MUST be followed before he washes the dishes that takes too dayum long and 2) I don't want him in the kitchen all night washing dishes. But whoever washed the dishes and put them in the dishwasher to dry, the other person has to take them out and put them up... Also he has this uberclean eating off the floor fetish for the kitchen... So, since I can never get it sterilized to his level, he gets fed up with me and just cleans the kitchen to his satisfaction... But I am getting better...
And I always do the dusting upstairs...
I have to uberclean the bathroom I use because my skin will breakout in a heartbeat if I don't. So, I clean the shower area with noxious chemicals... And if I have to, I will do a quick Scrubbing Bubbles wipe for the toilet 1-2 per week.
And since I have skin issues as a result of allergies to perfumes from detergents, I have to nuke my white clothes with radioactive bleach and oxyclean... Then double soak and rinse them with 5000 F water temperature

... So I wash my whites... Then I have to confirm dryness with 2 hours in our dryer...
And since my husband is pissy about his shirts and slacks being wrinkled after I wash them, I don't wash or dry them anymore. I leave that to him. I told him he does a better job than I do... Or I'll say, show me that again, I forgot...