I Majorly Need Advice
I just need some advice. I think I did the right thing, but I'm scared I may have done the wrong.
See there was this guy from my college that was pretty much stalking me. He'd talk to my friends about me, ask about me, found out where I lived, tried to get a ride here, constantly kept tabs on me...made a website dedicated to me and his xanga was filled with stuff about me. So I got really creeped out. I told him to "f*** off" before but he just wouldnt listen...and then when he would, his friends would give me this big "he's suicidal" thing so I'd talk to him again. Finally I just got fed up and I posted about him on my school's forums. I figured getting it out and getting opinions would help. But now I dont know if I did the right thing.
I didnt want him to do this to anyone else and it royally was creeping me out. He's stopped talking to me and he's deleted the xanga and the fan club site...but still, now people on my school's forums make ME sound like the bad one.
I can tell you more if you'd like or show you the thread on that site...but I just dont know what to do.
I just wanted him to leave me alone...I'm not at my college this semester. I came home and I'm going to a community college to catch up on math...and he was doing all this with me not even there. That creeped me out even more, having a long distance stalker!!!! But now I worry about how it'll be when I got back in Fall and I worry about if I did the right thing.
Some say I should have went to the cops, but I really wanted to avoid having to ruin this kid's permanent record if I could have stopped him now a better way.
I just dont know and I just want someone to talk to about this.
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