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Old 01-13-2005, 05:37 PM
XOMichelle XOMichelle is offline
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Tell us if you decide to talk to her and how it goes. If you don't want someone to have a key to your apartment, that is OK!
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Old 01-13-2005, 06:28 PM
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DZTUBAGIRL - While she is good at paying bills on time and generally does not spend the night there, that gives her no right to compromise your safety by leaving the door unlocked so her friends can go chill out whenever they feel like it. What if someone other than her friends comes by and either A) steals property from both of you, or B) comes inside with a bad intent and does something terrible?

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I have a similar problem...I moved in with one of my sorority sisters that I am not too close to. Well she is a certain fraternity "groupie" and and her boyfriend is in it. She never even mentioned to me that her boyfriend has a key. I have known him for a while and he is the one who told me. Well not only does he come in when we aren't there but his brothers do too. I wil come home and a bunch of her friends are sitting in the living room and she is nowhere to be found. I ask them where she is and they say, "she's in class." I think to myself, why in the H@## are you here then??? She even leaves the door unlocked when she leaves so her friends can come in when they feel like it. I don't really want to complain because she never spends the night there and she is good about paying her half of the bills. I guess I will have to get over it.

About your situation, if she isn't paying the bills and her boyfriend is pretty much living there, you should find somewhere else to live. It isn't worth being miserable. I hope you can work it out.
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Old 01-13-2005, 07:42 PM
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I had a similar living situation. It was supposed to be four women in a house, but it turned into three women and a couple. It was extremely awkward and uncomfortable. Here is how it was resolved. We spoke to her about him living there numerous times, but he continued to stay. He was a nice enough man, but it was stressful since we hadn't expected this living arrangement. One weekend when they were away, her mother called and another housemate told her EVERYTHING! They moved out soon after.

So I think that you should talk to your roommate. If she doesn't stop this situation, tell her mother. Or maybe not.
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