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Old 12-30-2004, 10:49 AM
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it felt like there had been a party in my pants, and everyone was invited
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Old 12-30-2004, 10:57 AM
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I remember being really hungry afterward, so we went to Eat-n-Park for a burger.
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Old 12-31-2004, 12:27 AM
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I didn't lose it. I know exaculty where it went. Its not like it feel behind the couch with the remote control or something.
And see, I wasn't sure mine went anywhere at all afterwards.
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Old 12-31-2004, 01:09 AM
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Hmm slightly confused because I wasnt sure if I had actually done it at all....looking back, I obviously hadnt "technically" (because I was young and the guy had no clue what he was doing) but since I spent so much time thinking I had done it, the first time i ACTUALLY lost it, it didnt feel like the first time. So I kind of feel like I was cheated out of that "first time" feeling!

Does any of that make sense?? Haha
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Old 12-31-2004, 01:10 AM
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Old 12-31-2004, 02:45 AM
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Let me set the stage:

1972 Ford Pickup
Back road/dirt road in rural Arkansas
Guy I had been with for a month, was already engaged too, and was a senior in high school, just like me
Guy's birthday.

BAD. REALLY REALLY BAD. But I guess I made up for it, cause I didn't just lose my virginity, I eradicated all traces of it.
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Old 12-31-2004, 02:19 PM
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hmm.. this is an interesting thread to read since i am still a virgin (i'm 17). i was wondering if you guys thought it was weird to start college as a virgin? are a lot of girls still virgins starting freshman year of college? like.. i don't want to wait until marriage or anything, i kind of want to get it over with.. but then i think.. if i waited this long.. i kind of want it to be special.
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Old 12-31-2004, 08:56 PM
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i was wondering if you guys thought it was weird to start college as a virgin?
No, I don't think it's "weird". I'm not saying you should save yourself for marriage, but you should save yourself for someone that you really like, and who really likes you. Buy some condoms and lubricant so that at least you are 'prepared' and you can protect yourself from pregnancy and STDs.
Note: If you can't bring yourself to buy these items, then you probably shouldn't be having intercourse.
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Old 12-31-2004, 11:23 PM
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hmm.. this is an interesting thread to read since i am still a virgin (i'm 17). i was wondering if you guys thought it was weird to start college as a virgin? are a lot of girls still virgins starting freshman year of college? like.. i don't want to wait until marriage or anything, i kind of want to get it over with.. but then i think.. if i waited this long.. i kind of want it to be special.
You will be surprised how many people, including many guys, will have mad respect for you when they find out you're still a virgin. There are a lot of hoe bags in college and the fraternity boys know about all of them. Don't do it just to "get it over with."
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Old 01-01-2005, 06:33 PM
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hmm.. this is an interesting thread to read since i am still a virgin (i'm 17). i was wondering if you guys thought it was weird to start college as a virgin? are a lot of girls still virgins starting freshman year of college? like.. i don't want to wait until marriage or anything, i kind of want to get it over with.. but then i think.. if i waited this long.. i kind of want it to be special.
Personally I think it's uncommon but definitely not weird. Two of my sorority sisters started college as virgins and one of them still is a year a half later. I wouldn't do it just to "get it over with" cuz I think you'll regret it if it isn't special. I'd wait until it's with someone you really care about and the feeling is mutual, and you'll probably find him in college!
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Old 01-02-2005, 12:48 AM
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i was wondering if you guys thought it was weird to start college as a virgin? are a lot of girls still virgins starting freshman year of college?
Not weird at all. I was a virgin when I started my freshman year of college, as were most of my high school friends. I remained a virgin until second semester of that year. I agree, don't do it just to get it over with. Find someone you really like and if he's worth it, he won't think it's weird that you are a virgin.
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Old 01-02-2005, 02:34 PM
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LauGH--- I'm with you, well, I was at least I started college as a virgin, and I too wanted to just "get it over with". But with my situation, I had just been dumped by a jerk that I had been dating for over 2 years...who never wanted to have sex with me. (turns out I was too small for him.....he liked girls 300+) So when I started college I was just wanting acceptance in the sexual department, well, boooooy did I find it

I lost my V after only knowing this guy for 2 weeks....didn't even know his last name.....and I was drunk for the first time too....didn't know I still was a V.....I am now marrying him after 3 years of dating

But to the topic...I was indifferent about it, heh. I was glad to get the whole damn thing over with.
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Old 01-02-2005, 02:40 PM
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Isn't that technically sexually assault? Feminists would be appalled.

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LauGH--- I'm with you, well, I was at least I started college as a virgin, and I too wanted to just "get it over with". But with my situation, I had just been dumped by a jerk that I had been dating for over 2 years...who never wanted to have sex with me. (turns out I was too small for him.....he liked girls 300+) So when I started college I was just wanting acceptance in the sexual department, well, boooooy did I find it

I lost my V after only knowing this guy for 2 weeks....didn't even know his last name.....and I was drunk for the first time too....didn't know I still was a V.....I am now marrying him after 3 years of dating

But to the topic...I was indifferent about it, heh. I was glad to get the whole damn thing over w
ith.
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Old 01-02-2005, 03:00 PM
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You will be surprised how many people, including many guys, will have mad respect for you when they find out you're still a virgin. There are a lot of hoe bags in college and the fraternity boys know about all of them. Don't do it just to "get it over with."
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Old 01-02-2005, 03:06 PM
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Definitely a lot of pain when it actually happened.
This was also true for me, but it was still very nice. It was with the right person and it was at the right time.
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