Worried about my daughter
My daughter will be going through spring recruitment at a heavy Greek school but not, I don't think, very competitive. But I'm not sure about that. She is a little naive and I'm worried that she's not going to be realistic enough about rush. I think she might have a few too many stars in her eyes about a few of the sororities. I've tried to suggest the usual: find the group that fits her best, look at her fellow PNM's as she goes through the process and gets closer to a decision, used the one about what group would you run to at 2 a.m. after you've broken up with a boyfriend. But I'm still worried. I don't know if maybe I'm off the mark and maybe she'll do fine in the recruitment process or if she's off the mark in thinking that rush might be more "egalitarian" than it really is.
I guess I just don't want my sweet child to be hurt and I'm trying to help her, as subtly as I can. Any suggestions? Thanks!!
P.S. Unfortunately, no KD on her campus so no legacy help. She has a rec for every sorority but I don't think they count for much there.
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